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writes: I'm in love with a married man. We've been seeing each other everyday now for the past 6months sex is great.how can I ask him to leave his wife of 37 yrs. No kids involved,but there is a grand child. How can his wife not expect something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): You've been having sex with a married guy that you see everyday for six months. How can his wife not know, well she dose know, she knows and probably cries her self sick every time he sneaks away to see you. But she has her grandchild to think about, and he's probably done this before with somebody else. She's waiting her time, she knows this man, they've been married for 37years. He'll dump you soon enough, he's done that before. She just has to wait and then he'll come home to her and his grandchild, just like he always has before.... Married men rarely leave there wives, and definitely not after 37years.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 You can say something like this, "Honey, why don't you leave that wife of 37 years, whom you've managed to have a grandchild by without having any children, for me, a cheating, honor-lacking, integrity-lacking, homewrecker?"
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reader, sandra78 +, writes (16 December 2008):
How can they have a grandchild if they have no kids? You might wanna ask him that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): I'm married and at the moment my husband and I are going through a bad patch. This doesn't give another woman the right to have an affair with him and to try and take him from me. As long as this man is married, even if there's no love you still can't have him. He is hers not yours. Do the right thing and end it with him please.
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reader, SallySoMe  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 Short answer: The chances of that happening are very slim. He may NEVER leave his wife & if you continue to pressure him on it, he will most likely leave you.
People in long term relationships despite straying for whatever reasons, tend to cleave to each other. His wife is content being his wife - that's the role she alone occupies in his life & is more likely to be content with a minimal to non-existent sex life with him & tacitly accept that he has a vigorous sex life with you. As long as his needs are fulfilled elsewhere there's less pressure on her to deliver the goods.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): His wife probably does suspect something but she doesn't want to lose her husband. Don't force a married man into leaving his wife - it's not nice and if it was the other way round you wouldn't want it done to you. She is probably near retirement age and would be devastated. 37 years is a long time and if he is inclined to cheat do you not think he has probably done this before in 37 years and still stayed with his wife.
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