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*amkids
writes:ok so. Pretty much all of my friends are non stop making fun of me for being fat. BUT IM NOT FAT! When im not there they talk about how fat i am and draw pictures of how fat i am. dont say theyre jealous cus theyre all skinnier than me. but im still not fat. im 5ft3 and 113lb. and they all know i used to be bulimic so where the hell do they get the nerve to call me fat?! they dont call their 200lb friends fat. and trust me, theyre not joking. its like they obsess over how "fat" i am....idk wat to do.
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reader, dr.2.be +, writes (12 July 2009):
 These are not good friends!Real friends don't care what you look like, how you dress, how much you weigh, etc. Maybe you should hang out with other girls who won't call you such a name.Im your height, weigh just as much as you and wear a size 1-3 jeans. Thats no where near fat!Good Luck!
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reader, iLuvMusic14 +, writes (10 July 2009):
 True friends should not care what u look like.They should not make fun of u!You are skinny.I'm alot bigger than u r.I'm 14 and 170.So, get new friends.
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reader, damkids +, writes (10 July 2009):
damkids is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol! i pick D. Alright well thank you everyone for the advice. i know i should have ditched them a while ago but i kept thinking i was over reacting. But now i know im not. thanks again ppl! :)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 July 2009):
 In that case I'd say you've wasted 6 years on these brats, don't waste a minute more.
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reader, damkids +, writes (9 July 2009):
damkids is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know ditching them would be what to do. But theese are ppl ive been frinds with for like, 6 years, so its hard. I know they say things behind my back because they tell me! for ex. they will say "and we were saying how fat you are compared to that man" and talk about how funny the pictures are. and this isnt in my head. they dont even use my name, they call me fatty.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 They dont sound like friends to me, I would ditch them right away.
And NO your not fat.
XX
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 your not even close to being a little bit fat. ditch these girls they are not friends!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 July 2009):
How do you know they talk about how fat you are when you aren't around? Do they call you fat to your face? If it's all done behind your back, then I have a thought. Maybe just maybe THEY aren't the ones obsessing over how fat you are...maybe YOU are?
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reader, Azula  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 My friends also do that often and when I say often I mean every chance they can have. But something different between us. The way of viewing things. I'm not hurt even though they mean it as serious as they can get because I have my own eyes that tells me that I'm not. They have done that for almost half a year, take note it's not just calling me fat but also compares me too some animals, mostly pig,elephant and hippopotamus. But they have grown tired of doing it because it does nothing to me. Trust me I have passed that situation already. If you have the guts to say your not fat. Show them how sexy you are. And make them eat every word.
Go girl!
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reader, kittykhaos +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Your friends are jealous of you, its there problem and not yours. Find yourself a better group of friends because these guys obviously don't really care about you. Given you admission of an old eating disorder they should be more careful with how they treat your feelings. You deserve more from a group of friends and these guys clearly are not what you need. Don't let them push you into losing weight, your what 8 stone?? Im 5"11 and 11 stone and im not fat im not even chunky so i should imagine your pretty thin. Be yourself and be proud of it :) and your right your NOT fat lol xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): hun get rid of these morons and find yourself some decent nice friends id stay well away from them they are bullies not mates
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): they are not very good friends! loose them! how nasty are they? are they so perfect? no u are NOT fat!!
friends support each other and dont make fun of each other, esp if u have had bulimia in the past, they are so nasty.. tell them you dont like them saying things like this to you - and that u dont want to hang iut with them, it will be bhadr but u dont need these sort of ppl in yr life. it might be a joke to them but its not funny!!
you deserve much better than them! - you deserve real friends, better friends who care about you, better to have no freinds than them..
take care :)
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reader, Full moon temptress1 +, writes (9 July 2009):
Your absolutely right your not fat.I think if there getting a reaction out of you they will keep doing it.Personally i would find nicer friends,or if you ignore them they may stop.All the best
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