A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend of two years won't let me go to an old job because she found out I flirted with a customer once. She found out looking through my emails at a message I sent to another friend, in which I told them the full story and even admitted that I wasn't after anything, just having fun and definitely had no interest. It was honestly innocent. I need a job desperately though, and I had only left because the place closes in the summer. But I haven't had much luck this summer and I've got bills looming over. What's right? Continue looking for another job with respect to her wishes or should I test the waters back at the old job? This has been an issue since the end of may. Please, help...
View related questions:
flirt Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, DLover  +, writes (29 July 2009):
You really need the cash, tell her she can either pay your bills or let you work in that job to pay them. First, make sure you admit that you were wrong though: promise not to flirt with other women again and make it so.
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 July 2009):
Tell her that she can either give you cash, or stop being childish and ridiculous and let you go back to your old job.
She is being jealous and controlling and that is not exactly a great thing to be.
Go to your old place if they will take you back and pay you and you can always carry on looking for better jobs once you are there.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Your girlfriend needs to take a chill pill. In these tough times you can't be too picky about jobs. Check it out they may not be hiring but if you can get work your girlfriend should be happy. She sounds rather controlling don't you agree?
...............................
|
