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female
age
30-35,
*rincessSmithee
writes:Theres a guy that i meet in janaury, we wasnt seeing each toher but we always spoke on facebook and text and we went cinema a few times and meet up. (Although i always felt like i was making the effort) But we got on so well. six months down the line of all this, we went cinema and i went back to his and we had sex, and he just didnt seem interested in me after. So i got used to say at the least.Ive been so hurt for the past 2 months, and suddenly out of the blue yesterday he text me alogising and saying he understands if i hate him but he was wondering how i was, and trying make a converstation with me about this festival were both going to at the end of this month.I sent a text back later that night playing it cool like, yeh ive been fine. and spoke a little about the festival and said that i think its nice hes finally aplogised but it dont chnage what he did, it really hurt me. And he replied aplosing again and making coverstation.And im so angry with myself because i still like him , after everything , all pain hes put me through. but i always felt there was something there, there was so much chemistry i felt.I dont want to keep texting him back becuase im so scared of getting hurt, and i deleted him off facebook ages ago and he tried to add em yesterday and i clicked ignore, ..im not keen on adding him back becuase it will upset me and stress me out seeing girls commenting him and stuff.any advice on what i should do, i still have lots of feelings for him, its only a matter of time before i bump into him, he lives round the corner :(I want him to want me, but i dont know what to do, im pretty sure he meets lots of girls when he goes to town, im 17 so i can't go yet, hes 18?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): i'm sorry to say he doesn't want you like you want him to and nver will. if h did, he woould have never hurt you in the first place and would have been round your front door with roses pleading with you to forgive him.
However much you may want him, just brush him off and move on! its for th bst or you will get hurt again.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 August 2009):
 He comes sniffing around every once in a awhile because he's horny and knows you've put out in the past so it's worth a try to schmooze you. Once he gets what he wants he'll be gone with the wind until he feels the urge to merge again. Don't be a sucker.
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