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writes:So, this may be a silly question but it has been bugging me for a while now. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for a while now. My boyfriend is my best friend and he's never been anything short of amazing to me. It hurts that he is so far away. We used to have phone sex a long time ago, and it kinda faded out. He never brought it up anymore. I finally did ask him about it, and he said he liked it, but he just thought it was weird. It made me a little insecure but he assured me it had nothing to do with me, and he just thinks "the whole concept of phone sex is weird." When we are together everything is fine and we have had sex before. I don't know why it's bothering me so much. Is it normal for a guy to not want to do that? I guess I'm worried because most guys I know would be totally up for it. Any advice? thanks!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe got a new job, and I'm in school. We don't get to see each other that often because of money and schedule conflicts, but we do talk on the phone everyday for at least an hour.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 August 2009):
 I personally don't think phone sex is weird but it sure falls way short of the real thing and I probably would feel uncomfortable doing/having it. Is the long distance between you a short-term condition? How often do you guys see each other? Why exactly are you guys apart?
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