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writes:What is my girlfriend looking for in a threesome? My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We are very close, and have a really good relationship.My girlfriend asked me if we could try a threesome with another guy (no gay stuff). She told me it would be just for fun and that there is nothing wrong with our relationship. She also told me that its only because our relationship is so strong that she feels comfortable even asking for a threesome. I am willing to try it for her, but I have a few questions. I guess I would like to better understand why my girlfriend want to have two guys at once. What is a woman’s perspective on this? Am I trying to read too much into this? Should I just trust what she is telling me and just do it? Thanks for your helpJT
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): Don't do it! , In my experience, It can ruin everything. If you REALLY love someone, you wouldn't want to jeapodize that. It should just remain a fantasy. Experiment with vibrators and other stuff instead. Similar affect without the heart ache. TRUST ME
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen my girlfriend starting talking about threesomes with another guy, I did bring up possibly doing it with another woman, just to see what she would say, and she did say if I was interested that she would try that as well.
My girlfriend also has an older sister that she is very close with, and her sister is in a relationship where she has a threesome with two guys once in a while, and I think this may be part of the reason why my girlfriend wants to try it.
I am not against doing the threesome. I do not think threesomes are neccecerily wrong to do. I just want to understand more why this is what she wants. I have always heard guy wanting to try it with two girls, so I guess my girlfriend wanting two guys is the same thing.
I guess I am looking for more woman's opinions on this, and what she is looking for me to do when it happens.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 July 2009):
 If anyone doesn't know what "spit roasted" means, it's in the DC Manual after "butt plugs". Just FYI. To the poster, ask her if you can do a threesome with another female first. I'm just curious as to what her reaction would be.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (28 July 2009):
 Well my only advice is that you better be comfortable with watching your GF get spit roasted by you and some other dude.
You have to make sure you are really both comfy with it. There are tons of guys who would say they are, and then when it happens they get way pissed because they cant stand the thought of another guy making their woman moan or giving them an orgasm.
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 This is dangerous ground. I know you are not comfortable with the idea, so I think you are looking for re-assurance that a 'no' to your girlfriend is the right decision. Well, I would tell her that you are not comfortable. Ask her if she would mind seeing you have sex with another woman while she watched.
Thes things sound great, and can be a lot of fun, but usually someone ends up feeling terrible afterwards. I personally would not say yes. Tell her it is a fabulous fantasy, but you would like it to remain just that - a fantasy.
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