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*0ckah0l1c
writes:Hello I was just wondering if there is any risk in marrying a man who hasn't even kissed or been with another woman sexually? Is there more likelihood for cheating and/or divorce? Thank you =)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 August 2009):
 Threesomes and you aren't even married yet? Nice breeze from that flag waving in the wind, isn't it?!
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reader, r0ckah0l1c +, writes (10 August 2009):
r0ckah0l1c is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers =) and I did indeed mean that I wondered if he would be curious later. He says he is happy with no regrets, but he has also asked about threesomes before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): As a woman that married a man (now for 15 years) that had never kissed another until me, I have the most loyal devoted husband and all my friends are envious. Huge perks to getting a man with no experience it also means no baggage. Also he is like a lump of clay for you to mold into the sex god you have always dreamed of.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 August 2009):
It's all a matter of honor and integrity, both of which are not dependant on sexual prowess or the number of sexual encounters. They are character traits that are very valuable and crucial to good marriages.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 I think the chances are greater that a man would stick would with you if he hasnt had a previous partner.
I would assume that as he has waited long, you must be special for him to lose his virginity too.
But then again it depends on the age of the male,
and his overall attitude and the way he has been brought up.
To be honest you can never really tell unless you take the above factors into account.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): to lazyguy, i think the question is more "if a man has never been a 'skirt chaser', never been with anyone else, is he more likely to become curious later on in the marriage and beome more inclined to 'skirt chase'" rather than what you were saying. But to the poster: i see your point but i dont think so. i think if you are truly in love, want your marriage to work and trust eachother, then you'll stay together whether you were his 1st girlfriend or his 100th. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): No, I wouldn't say so. But ask him, does he have regrets, does he desire to gain sexual experience rather than marry you? Doesn't sound like it, so yeah, you may suck at logic.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 Is a man who hasn't been a skirt-chaser so far more likely to be a skirt-chaser after marriage then a man who has always been a skirt-chaser?
I guess they are right. Women suck at logic.
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