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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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Why do you think marriages break up more now than in the past?
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.)
Eve... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)
she is the one and I hate myself for being who I was how can I prove it??
Q. Right where do i start im martin 34 and my girlfriend ended the relationship nearly 3 weeks ago now. She ended it because she didnt trust me and i lied about so many things. firstly i lied about having a job i had lost it but didnt tell i had los...
A. 21 February 2007: Send her a card and keep it simple. Get one saying "wishing you well" or "wishing you every happiness in your future" something like that. Let her know in it that you are sorry you lied, you admit to the lying and now you are going to counselling ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has just dumped me, I think she wants to sample the scenery. How do I move on?
Q. Relationship has finally ended after 7 months and this is the third time we have split. The day before valentines day and 2 weeks before my 21st birthday. We had an hour chat over the phone. Her feelings no longer exist for me, she has tried ha...
A. 14 February 2007: Good for you ;o) Go out there and get someone who WILL love you the way you deserve to be loved and don't waste any more time on her, she's only playing with your emotions.
Eve... (read in full...)
I have liked this girl for 8 years but we've never dated. She's just came back into my life and I'm so in love with her but she's taken... Advice?????
Q. Hello, im a 25 year old dude with a problem thats around 7 or 8 years old. Yes its a girl, who i'm truly madly deeply in love with. She's seeing this guy from down the country and lived with him for the summer, that was fine cos it was easier f...
A. 13 February 2007: I think there's a lot more going on in your mind than just her. Apart from this woman, how is your life going at the moment? Why would you ever wish for death? Are you being serious here or just over dramatic? Email me if you want to talk about ... (read in full...)
Are there really principled men out there?
Q. I'm a married lady; been married for nearly 10 years now. I'm mostly happy with my husband, and don't want to leave the marriage. Last year i met a great guy i had chemistry with. At the time, we were both honest about our feelings. But as i tol...
A. 13 February 2007: I don't think it's about principles as much as about logic and common sense. He gets mixed up with a married woman, what does that spell? Hassle and baggage and emotional pressures he could well do without! He's only being sensible and doing ... (read in full...)
I think my husband has Erectile Dysfunction. Anyone out there had this problem or had to deal with it in their husband's?
Q. Has anyone out there got any experience of dealing with Erectile Dysfunction in their husband. Did it take a long time for the husband to admit he had a problem and what treatment did he get. I suspect my husband has got a form of ED, he can get an ...
A. 13 February 2007: Erectile disfunction is a common problem for at least one in every ten men in the UK. It's thought that 70 per cent of cases have physical causes and the remaining 30 per cent have psychological causes. Most men experience occasional erectile ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has just dumped me, I think she wants to sample the scenery. How do I move on?
Q. Relationship has finally ended after 7 months and this is the third time we have split. The day before valentines day and 2 weeks before my 21st birthday. We had an hour chat over the phone. Her feelings no longer exist for me, she has tried ha...
A. 13 February 2007: It's always sad when a relationship breaks up, especially for the one on the receiving end who has to pick up the pieces and move on alone but hey... it happens all the time, you're not a single statistic but one of thousands. You have 2 options ... (read in full...)
I feel the age gap is just too much. I want to go out and do things, he seems content to stay at home. I'm thinking of calling it a day... Any advice?
Q. Hi, I have been seeing my bf now for neally 2 years. I live with him in his house and have been doing so for about a year now. Thing is he is 19 years older than me, I'm 20 he's 38. He has his career, his house, lived his life etc etc so when he ...
A. 13 February 2007: I think the age is part of it, at 20 you want to go out and hit the town, party and enjoy yourself and although he might feel like doing this sometimes, he might not feel he has enough energy during the week and is quite happy just to sit back and ... (read in full...)
How can I reassure my boyfriend that I'm not interested in my ex, it's HIM I love?
Q. Hi there, I have a bit of a problem, I have been going out with my bf for over 2 years, however, I get texts from an old flame who thinks that he might be in with a chance (though I have been clear to him that it's not going to happen) - I have...
A. 13 February 2007: Your boyfriend seems very insecure about your ex, maybe even a little jealous of him because he's been with you too. All he needs is reassurance from you and changing your phone number was an excellent start. I would make him FEEL loved. Kiss him ... (read in full...)
I like this girl so much but I'm so mixed up in my head. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Q. I was just wondering if u offered relationship help, because I've got myself worked up over a girl, and i really dont know what to do. I started a new job last year, and one of my old friends from school worked there too. I got to know every...
A. 13 February 2007: You've gotten in touch with her and left the ball in her court. Now you WAIT! Don't end up making a fool of yourself saying how you feel and continuing to text/call/email her. She's GOT the message now and it's over to her. Now what you need to ... (read in full...)
she is the one and I hate myself for being who I was how can I prove it??
Q. Right where do i start im martin 34 and my girlfriend ended the relationship nearly 3 weeks ago now. She ended it because she didnt trust me and i lied about so many things. firstly i lied about having a job i had lost it but didnt tell i had los...
A. 13 February 2007: First of all can I say WELL DONE to you. First of all you've admitted you have a problem and secondly you're already going to counselling for it. That in itself would have been a big step for you but you did it. In time you'll be able to get over ... (read in full...)
Why is it scary for me to be ill treated by someone?
Q. Why does it matter for me if i am in the spotlight and i am judged or criticized by others in public? Many people don't care even if they are hated by many in general, then why should it be scary for me to be ill treated by someone? ...
A. 13 February 2007: It can be a scary world out there. Society can put a lot of pressure on us to "act" in a certain way. I would advise you just to be your own person and be confident in yourself and who you are. Don't feel you have to act a certain way for anyone.
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I like a guy and he likes me too, only problem is he friend also likes me so he won't act!
Q. I like a guy who likes me too, the only problem is that his best friend likes me too, so he won't act on his feelings. I feel like I'm backed into a corner, what should I do?...
A. 13 February 2007: You are still very young so I would steer clear of any serious relationships at the moment. Be friends with both of them. As your friendships grow you might find you're more attracted to the other friend's personality more than the one you like. ... (read in full...)
I don't feel the same about my girlfriend any more but don't want to hurt her. Any ideas of how to break it gently to her?
Q. Hi I have been in a relationship for little over a year now and I am begining to lose interest in the girl. After the first six months of the relationship I thought this girl was the one. But recently I have not felt the same way. She wants to ...
A. 13 February 2007: It's always difficult to know the right thing to say when you want to break up with someone. Let her know that you really like and respect her as a person but she's just not the right person for you and you're sure she'll meet that person in time. ... (read in full...)
When you are in a love relationship...what is your thoughts on how things should be?
Q. relationship between two people in love what is your definition of how things should be? i have tried to explain it's meaning to my bf and he still doesn't seem to get it. ...
A. 13 February 2007: Here is my definition of what true love really means -
If you truly love someone then you respect them for who they are, warts and all. You want to look after them and protect them, you look out for them and put them first. You feel happy an... (read in full...)
How long does an orgasm last?
Q. on average, how long is an orgasm supposed to last? when i orgasm, it will only last about 3-5 seconds so it always seems a big disappointment. is this normal or is there something wrong with me?...
A. 13 February 2007: Here is a great link telling you all about the Female Orgasm, I'm sure you'll find it helpful, it answers your question and a lot more besides.
http://www.whitelotuseast.com/FemaleOrgasm.htm
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Is my husband gay or bi???
Q. I have been married for 5 years on my second marriage i love him dearly sex was fantasic before i got pregant with my daughter now 2. He never seems to want sex or if we do its a quick wam ban,which frustrates me as im highly sexual,i purchase...
A. 13 February 2007: I suggest you try "role play" where you are the boss and he is the submissive. He has got to do EVERYTHING you say and that includes of course you giving him anal. If you're clever you'll find out for yourself whether he's gay or not! If YOU are ... (read in full...)
Seeing my friend makes me feel worthless!!
Q. Hi, I really need help! I am having a crisis of confidence, and I dont seem able to deal with it. I was out with 3 friends a couple of months ago, We'd been for a meal, and my friend Jane was driving. As we left, Jane got into the car, and I ...
A. 13 February 2007: Jane is probably a very confident self assertive woman and you feel worthless in comparison with her. This all stems back to your childhood but it's all just in your mind. You can be whatever you choose to be! You said earlier in your post that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is curently married and my gut feeling thinks that they are still seeing each other. Should I be concernd?
Q. hi cupid, my question is: my boyfriend is currently married and my gut feeling thinks that there still seeing each other, should i be concernd? When ever i bring up her name he gets all defensive and yells then he leaves, when he comes home work ...
A. 13 February 2007: Yes, I would certainly say you could be concerned. The fact he yells at you when you bring up her name is his guilt acting out. Here are some ways you can find out...
One way to tell if he's cheating is to catch him lying about a matter. ... (read in full...)
I just lost my virginity...and the sex was awful!! Will it get better?
Q. i just lost my virginity, is it normal for it to do nothing for you? i didnt enjoy it at all! and im not thinking wil i ever enjoy sex!?...
A. 12 February 2007: It was awful because you were with the wrong person, the feelings just weren't there. You were maybe too tense too. Once you're with someone you REALLY love and care for it will be magic! :o)
Eve... (read in full...)
I'm married, but have a crush on my best friend - should I tell her to stay honest w/ her, or let it go?
Q. Hi, I'll try and keep a long story as short as possible! I'm 33 and have been married 8 years. My best mate is a girl I work with and have known for 4 years. Although I have a pretty big crush on her, the last thing I want to do is wreck our ...
A. 12 February 2007: You need to think first and foremost what you could be throwing away here and I'm not talking about your friendship with her, I'm talking about your marriage! Do you feel your marriage is so bad that you don't want it any more? Is this just some ... (read in full...)
I want to break up w/ my fiance, but his tears and begging get the best of me! How do I break up w/ him??
Q. i am 20 my fiancee is 23 we have been together for three and a half years and been engaged three year. recently I have become less and less attracted to him and although I love him, i'm just not in love with him anymore. We have talked about it ...
A. 12 February 2007: You need to be strong and tell him that although you really like and respect him as a person you know he's not the one for you. 3 years is a long time and it's obviously become more of a habit, you being together more than anything else. Here are ... (read in full...)
My Mum has joined my disaster Dad is dissapproving and its making me ill!
Q. Hello, a little while ago I wrote in and got advice ("Should I let my bf meet my disasterous Dad??") It's the first problem on the "age differences" page. Anyway my problem seems to be getting worse now. I was very upset that my Dad was respondi...
A. 12 February 2007: Let your friend know about your concerns and let him show by his actions that he has no alterior motives towards you. He could even write your parents a letter and give it to you to give to them, letting them know that he thoroughly enjoys your ... (read in full...)
Kissed my friend and now she's 'off' with me!!
Q. My best friend is a girl and ive liked her for sometime now she knows this to. She said that we couldnt get together before because of our friendship - she don't want to lose a friend but,over the weekend we kissed a number of times and one kiss ...
A. 12 February 2007: Maybe she has realised she does have feelings for you and she thinks you don't feel the same or maybe she now knows she doesn't want to get involved romantically with you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
You need to take the initiati... (read in full...)
Am i doing the 'rebound thing'?
Q. Hello! Im just getting out of a 2 year relationship with someone who first started out as my best friend. Towards the end of the relationship, we even started acting just as best friends, so i feel that the in-love factor has been gone for a while....
A. 12 February 2007: I think it would be a lot healthier for you to forget guys, for at least a while and concentrate on other things in your life. Find yourself again, who you really are and what you really want from life. (See link below)
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Shall I get everything out in the open??
Q. 5 days ago my "girlfriend" Stephanie dumped me. We were in a relationship that started out almost a year ago with me letting her know I was interested in her while she had been in a one-way relationship with Jim for almost three years. Soon after, ...
A. 12 February 2007: This is what you write....
"Hi Stephanie,
I have thought long and hard about this and want to let you know that I have always considered you as more than just a friend. Even although that is all you want to be with me I'm afraid I can't be just ... (read in full...)
How do I get help to open up??
Q. Dear cupid, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together since June 2006. I have Avoidant Personality Disorder and it is creating problems for me and my boyfriend. We are not as close as we should be and we do not know eachother as well as ...
A. 12 February 2007: I don't work for them lol, I just watched it, same as I'm telling you to do and it made a big impact in my life. You will have an email from them saying you paid your money so you haven't lost it, it's still there for you to watch and you won't ... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to relax more?
Q. My girlfriend is really starting too irritate me now. She makes things so difficult for me, such as making decisions. I feel too scared too say 'no' otherwise she will go all stubborn and moody on me. She can't accept a no and if things don't alw...
A. 12 February 2007: She's trying unknowingly to undermine you and control you yet she doesn't even know it. She sounds very insecure and is bringing you down with her. She's being so selfish it's unbelievable. You need to be more in control and stand up to her more. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex lover out of my mind?
Q. Okay Guys heres a problem that i could really use your advice with. I have been married(mostly happily) for ten years but the past 18months have been really difficult.I lost both my remaining grandparents,had trouble galore getting my young...
A. 12 February 2007: Why are you spending so much time thinking about this ex lover when he's not even as good in bed as your husband? This lover lusts after you, your husband LOVES you and you waste time thinking about the lover???
Come on girl, BIG wake up call now... (read in full...)
I can't take it any more, I feel sooooooo neglected.
Q. I know ppl are supposed to get stressed and depressed around valentines day but i cant hep thinking that its different this year. Ive recently moved to a new college where ive become quite popular with the guys buts as their friend rather than a ...
A. 12 February 2007: First of all I'm sure you weren't the cause of your dad leaving so don't feel guilty about that at all. This has obviously put pressure on you though making you feel insecure as a person. You are also at that age when you're noticing boys a lot ... (read in full...)
What is the average sized penis for a guy?
Q. hi, im 15. my gfs 17. i was talking to her about penis size, and started going thru them and what she though eg(1 inch? 2 inch? 3INch?), well i said my penis size and she laughed at it, im 4 inch 5. she laughed at all other sizes up to 4.5 an sed 5 ...
A. 12 February 2007: You have to take into account the age of the male and the weight of the male. Here's a link (3 pages long) which will help you a great deal. On page 3 it tells you the average size of a man's penis.
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How do I kiss a girl?
Q. i really like dis girl and wana kiss her! but how? first tym! i will meet her quickley on valentines to give her sum suprise flowers! plz help as many ppl as possible asap. fanx oh ye were 16...
A. 12 February 2007: If you're meeting her for the first time you don't want to give her a big kiss anyway. A kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips is fine at this stage. Don't worry about it though, just go with what feels right.
Eve... (read in full...)
I want to get a girl some flowers, do I get a card too? If so what do I put on the card?
Q. i wana give a girl i like some flowers. is a card essential? wot can i write? i reli like her but have noooo clue if she likes me! so shall i write card as a friend or lover? wot do i write? if she dont like me wont it be embarrassing if she doesnt ...
A. 12 February 2007: If I were you I would have one red rose delivered to her home with a little card saying "I like you and would love to get to know you better..." Signed (your name) That's all you need to do. Better a single rose than a big bunch of flowers as ... (read in full...)
How do I get help to open up??
Q. Dear cupid, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together since June 2006. I have Avoidant Personality Disorder and it is creating problems for me and my boyfriend. We are not as close as we should be and we do not know eachother as well as ...
A. 12 February 2007: The video is geared for EVERYONE no matter where they live and you can watch it "RIGHT NOW" as soon as you click your PC on, you don't have to wait 3 weeks to buy it!! I'm in the UK too and I watched it immediately. (And it's only £2.50) I could ... (read in full...)
I am still so damn confused!!!
Q. This is to thank those of you who took the time to email me back. I haven't had sex with this married man. It just seems as though he and his wife live seperate lives. She does her thing he does his? I really don't know if I should just dump him ...
A. 11 February 2007: I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss Pam. I can't begin to imagine how you must have felt (feel). Seeing a married man is not the answer though and I think you know this. He's taken, pure and simple. Unless he's willing to move out and make a ... (read in full...)
Due to cultural conflicts, I ended my relationship with him but I really miss him! What can I do?
Q. I am with a man from a middle eastern country. I love him dearly but can feel claustrophobic because of his expectations from a woman, which are different from my own western ways. I became very frustrated recently and got very drunk waking up with ...
A. 11 February 2007: You know you'll probably never get him to change his ways? You either agree with what he wants (and feel unhappy and trapped) or you break it off with him. I think you made the right choice and it will be hard at first for you to move on but in ... (read in full...)
I feel like he contributes nothing and I cant do this on my own!!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 years and have a beautiful 11 month old daughter. I love him so very much but I feel as though he contributes nothing to our relationship or daughter. He works, but as for actually being part and taking p...
A. 11 February 2007: You need to talk to him and I mean really talk! Choose a time when your little one is in bed. Let him know you have something you want to get off your chest and would he mind taking time out (without the TV on) to listen to you? Saying it to him ... (read in full...)
I love her but she says there is no spark!
Q. Im in love with this beautiful girl but she doesnt know my full feeling for her, we have kissed before. I have said to her that i want to have sex with her but now shes saying that friends is all she wants because theres no spark. I really love ...
A. 11 February 2007: Jeeeeeeeeeeze you need to learn how to talk to a woman. Saying you'd like to have sex with her is NOT the way to win a woman's heart. She might think you only want her for her body. That was really a shallow silly thing to say to her. I know I ... (read in full...)
Was he just playing or did he feel the same??
Q. Well I know this guy who I meet trough my friends,we spoke couple of time and thats it and i never actually felt attracted to him or anything. So last weekend when I went to my friends 15th birthday party, he was there. We started a conversa...
A. 11 February 2007: Next time you see him in school go up to him and say "Great party last week, did you enjoy it?" It's an opening for him to reply. Keep the conversation going and let him know he's cool and you really enjoyed his company. "I'd like to hang out ... (read in full...)
I want more from my 'friend with benefits' but he's not ready!!
Q. I really like this guy i meet a few months ago and he liked me , so we slept together after a few weeks anyway , after that he told me he just wants to be mates who pleasure each other , which i agreed to at first but now i really fallen for him and ...
A. 11 February 2007: That's the problem when you sleep with someone saying there are no strings attached, emotions kick in and one starts to like the other as more than just friends. He's already told you he doesn't want anything serious and you know he's seeing other ... (read in full...)
I feel like i've reached my limit!
Q. Hi, I've kind of got to the stage where I need some advice. I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for 5 years. I do love her, but recently i've been seriously considering ending it. I did date girls before her, but she was my first...
A. 11 February 2007: Well I think you've given this relationship your all but it's still not right for you. I can understand that you don't want to hurt her but sometimes we need to go through the "hurting" process before we heal. I'm sure you'll be hurt inside too, ... (read in full...)
How do I get help to open up??
Q. Dear cupid, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together since June 2006. I have Avoidant Personality Disorder and it is creating problems for me and my boyfriend. We are not as close as we should be and we do not know eachother as well as ...
A. 11 February 2007: I read what you said with interest, you said "I'm set in my ways." Now, if that's the case then your relationship won't work and you will never be able to beat it. Do you know you can achieve WHATEVER YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE? You just have to BELIEVE ... (read in full...)
Horrified that I kissed my good friend's husband, while I was drunk! I feel badly about this- am I obliged to tell her?
Q. I kissed my best friend's husband and I am feeling horrific On Friday night, my best friend, her husband and me got very drunk. We ended up skinnny dipping and when she went inside the house, her husband and I kissed. The problem is that I rememb...
A. 11 February 2007: How do you think your best friend would handle it if you told her? YOU know there was nothing in it, YOU know nothing will come of it, YOU know you were drunk and YOU know it was a drunken silly mistake. It's done, over with, in the past!!
Telli... (read in full...)
I am still so damn confused!!!
Q. This is to thank those of you who took the time to email me back. I haven't had sex with this married man. It just seems as though he and his wife live seperate lives. She does her thing he does his? I really don't know if I should just dump him ...
A. 11 February 2007: Pam,
That last answer didn't read very well did it? lol I'll try it again. If you want any more advice on this then send the link from your last question to this, your latest post okay?
Eve... (read in full...)
I am still so damn confused!!!
Q. This is to thank those of you who took the time to email me back. I haven't had sex with this married man. It just seems as though he and his wife live seperate lives. She does her thing he does his? I really don't know if I should just dump him ...
A. 11 February 2007: Pam, if you want any more advise on this then send the link to your last question to your latest post okay?
Eve... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)
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