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Can my mum put him in jail when we have had no sexual or really physical contact what so ever???
Q. ok I am 16 years old, I hate guys my age they're too immature... I recently started dating this 20 year old guy and me and him have done nothing but talk but my mom called him up threatening to put him in jail for just talking to me...the funny ...
A. 4 July 2007: no she can not because even if you were it is not like he is forceing you... (read in full...)
Can my mum put him in jail when we have had no sexual or really physical contact what so ever???
Q. ok I am 16 years old, I hate guys my age they're too immature... I recently started dating this 20 year old guy and me and him have done nothing but talk but my mom called him up threatening to put him in jail for just talking to me...the funny ...
A. 4 July 2007: no she can not because even if you were it is not like he is forceing you... (read in full...)
If I do end up forgiving her if she wants to be my best friend again it will take me ages to trust her again.
Q. dear cupid, I know I just asked you a question about me and my bestfriend but I have another question 4 you.. If I do end up forgiving her if she wants to be my best friend again it will take me ages to trust her again IF I even can and I don't kn...
A. 4 July 2007: I agree with yummy mummy. do you want to be friends and plus trust really does not happen over night you both have to want to be friends and trust each other for it to work.
if you need more advice add me and we will privete message... (read in full...)
Is this online guy stringing me along??
Q. So... i met this guy on myspace a few weeks ago and he then added me on MSN and we spoke at least 4-5 hours a day on it to get to know each other. Ive seen him on webcam and got his number so i know he's real. I'm 14 and he's 15 and we both live ...
A. 2 July 2007: I think that you should be careful. Because he could be faking and then again he could be truthful so be VERY careful.... (read in full...)
I got a phone call from my ex's friend; I don't know what's going on
Q. My bf finished things about 6 months ago, it had been a long distance relationship for 2 years. He really didn't give me a proper reason for the split and he did it by text. Anyway there have been times where I felt upset and on one occassion I ...
A. 1 July 2007: I think that you should see what is going on. good luck... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual but I don't know how to pleasure a girl
Q. im a 17 year old girl. recently finding out im bisexual. i really like this girl i have been kissing. she wants me to stay over at her new house next weekend, the thing is. ive never slept with a girl before and im scared i do it wrong and she gets ...
A. 29 June 2007: I agree with yummy mummy.enjoy it and experiment she tell what she wants and does not want!... (read in full...)
We're going to sell up, move away and start again, opinions on this would be appreciated.
Q. Hi guys, It would be nice to get some opinions on my situation as it is at the moment please. My husband and I were going through some business and financial difficulties early part of last year and it caused us to lose sight of each other. My ...
A. 29 June 2007: yes i think that is good to start over and FORGET the past
good luck sweetie... (read in full...)
I really care for him and I want to keep him interested and show what a fun person I really am. Please help.
Q. A couple weeks after I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, I hooked up with another guy through a mutual friend of ours. We had a fun night and have since then seen each other quite a few times. Although we kiss and occasionally have sex, we are ...
A. 29 June 2007: I think that you should be who you are. If that is not what he likes forget it he does not deserve you. You need a man that likes you for you.... (read in full...)
I have another chance of making a go of it with her.
Q. So I am about to go see this girl that I once kinda had a thing with. We weren't together but we acted like it. She kinda treated me bad and then just stopped talking to me. I was really upset. Then I found out she was moving and somehow we started ...
A. 29 June 2007: I think that you should give her a chance at least she had the guts to tell you she was sorry. So give her a nother chance and if she fails forget her. She is a bad pick for you.... (read in full...)
I thought we could make something out of this... Now I feel that I was wrong. Any advice?
Q. Okay, we are not children, I'm 40, he's 45. We met through mutual friends and there is definitely attraction and we have just begun seeing each other. He found my site on Match.com after our first date, and now has created a page there as well. I ...
A. 29 June 2007: I think you should trust your gut. if you bodie is saying no and you are reconsidering this then forget it. Jesus might be trying to tell you something.... (read in full...)
Update:She went away for 4 months and I missed her terribly. Now she's dumped me. What can I do? She now wants to be friends.
Q. hi again plz read my other question: She went away for 4 months and I missed her terribly. Now she's dumped me. What can I do? iv tryed giving her space but she txt me last night saying "hope your doing ok" but i didnt txt back. So she phoned ...
A. 29 June 2007: Well I think you should be her friends if you really have felings for her and you will consider her choice. At least she wants to be friends. SHe could hate you and never want to see you again so be thankful.... (read in full...)
I fancy my ex's best friend. We had a one night stand when I was drunk but I have feelings for him.
Q. Here's the deal: I do really stupid things when I am drunk (that is, when I "overdrink"). A few weeks ago I was so out of it that I briefly slept with the best friend of my (now ex) boyfriend. Only problem is, it wasn't just a crazy night - I ...
A. 29 June 2007: I agree 100% with yummy mummy. You need to stop drinking. Ask this guy that you have feelings about him. And talk hang out and be friends. Chances are unless he was drunk as well he has feelings for you as well if he slept with you. So talk to him ... (read in full...)
If I dump him, no one will be my friend - but I don't love him.
Q. elloo I have been with my boyfriend for ages now. And it's the 5th time I've dumped him and I got back with him 3 days ago and i don't love him. But if i dump him nobody will be my friend. please help me quick xxx...
A. 29 June 2007: I agree with yummy mummy dump him. A beside who cares if you have no friends. you want friends that are there for you no matter who you are or are not dating. So dump him and find better friends then them. And get a better man.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a male friend to ask me about my sexual past?
Q. Today, on the phone I was talking to my boy friend thad. And we got into a convo about sex. and sex jokes and kissing ect... Well we got to laughing a talking about each other. Well he was like asking me if i ever went all the way. And things like ...
A. 28 June 2007: thax for the info although he was my boy firends not a friends. is that normal though that my bf ask that... (read in full...)
He dumped me and I am lost!
Q. Hey! erm my boyfriend of 16 months broke up with me last tuesday by text...and it wasn't asif i was expecting it he had been fine with me. He text me saying he doesn't want anything to do with me and that has really f**ked me up because he wasn't ...
A. 28 June 2007: Forget his ass. If he did not have the nerve to come up to you and break up and TELL YOU why then he is a waste of time. Move on. ... (read in full...)
I'm also so tempted to just use her, tell her I still love her and have a ton of sex then move away (as wrong as it is).
Q. Six years after I met this girl (lets call her P) I am still confused. I think I instantly fell in love with her, she was the complete opposite to me and a perfect compliment to my personality. We were at college together (17/18 years old...
A. 28 June 2007: If you use this girl then that would be WRONG not to mention it ould hurt her. her and using her for sex HELL no. I have been down that way and if you new how bad the feeling that that girl will get then you really would not use her. if she is to ... (read in full...)
My 12 year old stepdaughter has a myspace account and is talking about having sex! What do I do here?
Q. My 12 year old stepdaughter has a myspace and she gave me the password so I can put pictures on it for her. I have been reading her mail and for the second time I have found emails between her and a friend (that stays all night at her house ...
A. 28 June 2007: Well I think that you should let her know IN PRIVETE that you know about her mail on myspace. But tell her that you are going to be kool about it and not tell dad or mom. But you promise not to have sex until you are older. That is how i would ... (read in full...)
I love her so much but broke up with her because we will be in different states for a while.
Q. I met probably one of the greatest girls of all time last summer. We met in stats class and began going out from there on. after a couple of weeks of getting to know each other we started dating and I asked her to be my girlfriend. Around our three ...
A. 28 June 2007: Well I think that you should tell her that you want to give it a break until she comes back. Then get back toegther. Just becasue that you are in a long distance relation ship that you can not still love each other.
PS check out my colum if you ... (read in full...)
How can I make it clear to them that I JUST want to be friends.
Q. Oi, I need help, aunts! Okay. Let me start off by saying I am in a relationship with a guy whom I love very much, and who loves me. We are happy together, and things are going smoothly. My relationship at home is not my problem. However, I'm sta...
A. 28 June 2007: Hey well just tell them when they try to move farther NO i have a boyfriend. It is ok if they talk about you there is nothing wrong about that.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a penis enlargement....does anyone have any info on this?
Q. Apologies for the extremely long post but I want to get this out the way... it's been worrying me for 4 weeks now. I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend's 23. Recently he's been complaining our sex life's not good enough, even though I think it's good....
A. 27 June 2007: well i think that he wants thwe enlargement because he feels like he is not pleaseing you during sex talk to him... (read in full...)
Does he like me or is nothing going to happen because of his friend?
Q. I've been with this guy for 7 years on and off and recently we agreed we were board and decided to take a break which i am surprisingly enjoying previously i use to get upset but im not really bothered if he called me or not infact i think i would ...
A. 27 June 2007: Well if he really likes you then somthing will happen but you can not ask him just give signs. that should help and if does not work then give up and move on... (read in full...)
I feel nothing when having sex!
Q. why can't i feel noting when i have sex? does this mean im never going to have an orgasm?...
A. 27 June 2007: well i think that yummy mummy is right he may not be hitting you spots the right way. each girl is different and needs to be touched diffrently in oreder have an orgasm... (read in full...)
She used me then started meeting up w/ her ex and lying about it! I split w/ her, but want her to realize the pain she put me through.
Q. My "ex" gf doesn't always log out of her yahoo email account properly so I checked her email after she uses the PC. I have been doing this for a little while now without her knowing and realise she has been meeting up with her ex. I told her tha...
A. 27 June 2007: Well she proberly wants you to feel bad and down in the dumps but do not give in. it feels like power to her when she sees you so sad and hurt. stand tall and move on that will make her so mad that you are standing up to her. ... (read in full...)
After 4 years together, he confessed he cheated. Then they moved in together. He seems so unhappy and I want him back!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had been together for 4yrs.One day he made a confession to me and told me he had cheated on me with this other girl,and now they live together.But here is the twist,he still has his clothes at my house with his important ...
A. 27 June 2007: well i think that yu should tell him that he looks unhappy and that you still have feelings for him. If he wantst he other girl then forget him and move on he is a waste of your time.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand how upset his porn viewing makes me!
Q. My boyfriend doesnt understand how I get hurt if he watches porn, pictures of naked females and mastrubates to it... Hello, my bf of 2 years and i broke up 9 days ago. We want to get back together but only after we both read the book on a relati...
A. 27 June 2007: well i agree with you that is just wrong. but see when a guy gets horney and looks up porn then it is either because they want to with you or do want to ask. or maybe he wants to look at other women which is very wrong. i know you want to get back ... (read in full...)
He ejaculated on the outside of me. Can I still get pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend the other night, and although he didn't ejaculate inside of me...he did on the outside of my vagina. Immediately I took the sheet and wiped all of it off. Is it possible for me to get pregnant anyway? Any help ...
A. 27 June 2007: HI girl all i can say is to get a preg. test. I do not think that you are preg. but be sure and test it.
good luck hun and best wish to you... (read in full...)
I cheated on my girlfriend and lost my virginity to another girl!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. I'm in love with her(even though I haven't told her yet) and I ended up cheating on her with someone else. On top of that I was a virgin before it happened. The girl I was with was a friend of mine, ...
A. 26 June 2007: Sorry but I think that if you had true love for you gf then you would have sex with someone else that is not what love is about. you need to tell her the truth or your love for her in not true.... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have unprotected sex during your period?
Q. this is so stupid but I have been having protected sex for months now but i wondered if you can have unprotected sex during your period?...
A. 26 June 2007: No it is not because you can still get HIV and AIDS... (read in full...)
He ejaculated on the outside of me. Can I still get pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend the other night, and although he didn't ejaculate inside of me...he did on the outside of my vagina. Immediately I took the sheet and wiped all of it off. Is it possible for me to get pregnant anyway? Any help ...
A. 26 June 2007: hey girl well as long as it did not leak into you you are ok get a preg. test and if it is pos. then talk to your rents'... (read in full...)
How do I make her want to be my girlfriend?
Q. me and my girlfriend were dateing for almost three months, and then we took a break. i still love her very much and really wish to go back out with her. she still loves me too and she even told me that she still loves me, the only problem is she's ...
A. 26 June 2007: Well girls i know are confusing because i am one. but see give her time as long as she still loves you you are still in the hot seat for her so keep it real until she is ready but if she stops loving you then win her bacjk with romantic gives and ... (read in full...)
I am in love with two men. How do I choose?
Q. Love 2 people? I have a boyfriend (Jake), known him for 2 years and a good friend (Tom), known him for 1 year. I am in love with Jake, but during the year I have developed strong feelings for Tom and recently found out that he has feels very highg...
A. 26 June 2007: Hi well tehe best way to choose is that you need to notice which one you trust more and which one treats you better. ... (read in full...)
I struggle to keep my erection during sex, but it comes back when I stop--help?
Q. My penis starts losing it's erection while i'm having sex, and if I pull out it starts erecting again. Any idea why it loses it's erection?...
A. 26 June 2007: I do not know why it does that but instead og intercourse why do you not try oral sex that might help alot.... (read in full...)
She wont tell me why we are breaking up!
Q. my girlfriend refuses to talk about why we are spliting up and i just can't live without her what can i do...
A. 26 June 2007: Hi, I am a girl maybe i can help. Well either the girl is embarssed or scared why she split up or she has seen another man that she likes and lost interest in you. Or she is mad at you for something her girlfriend told her or that you did and she ... (read in full...)
I feel sad all the time and I don't have a clue as to why.
Q. i feel sad all the time but i do not know whats wrong with me or why i feel this way,i have no or little self confidence at the moment , i do not ever tell my mum or friends they just assume i am the happiest person in the world but i really am not. ...
A. 26 June 2007: Hi, being sad all the time means your hormones are being crazy and you are deprested because of them. Give them some more time and then if the sadness does not go away go to the doctor.... (read in full...)
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