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I live in Maryland(USA)

I'm in a loving relationship

Is there any chance to get my relationship back?

Q.   After 3 years and 7 months my fiancee broke up with me. Honestly I have never been so miserable. We fought a lot but i know i can change, and I really want her back. Is there any hope for us to renew our relationship? If there is how could I do it?...

A.   3 November 2010: The main reasons we broke up was because of fighting, i have anger problems but for the most part i can keep them under control, when something does get under my skin i do tend to blow things way out of proportion. She had said she thinks that a ... (read in full...)

Do breaks ever help a relationship?

Q.   Do breaks ever help a relationship? My fiancee and I have been together for about 3.5 years, a little over a week ago she suggested we take a break, but still remain monogamous.. since then she has been to a party with several people and got real...

A.   29 October 2010: She gets time with her friends but a couple weeks before our "break" she would just get up and leave for 2-5 hours a day and not tell me anything until she got home (where she went, what happened etc.) i am 20, and she is 19.... (read in full...)

What is happening in my relationship?

Q.   hi i'm having trouble with my relationship i keep pulling away from my boyfriend and i'm always getting angry for no real reason it can be the tiniest thing and i just blow it out of proportion, i want to make it work but i just can't seem to be ...

A.   30 October 2009: just explain how your feeling, and if things aren't right they're just not right you can't force yourself to like and be attracted to someone.... (read in full...)

She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!

Q.   so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...

A.   25 July 2009: so, i was just curious, but is it normal that i feel almost completely better now that i beat the living hell out of the kid?... (read in full...)

She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!

Q.   so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...

A.   22 July 2009: so, i recently was talking to her best friend about it. (not the one she made out with bc if i ever see him im gonna smash his face) but her friend told me that she had known about it too. and apparently on this occasion he had felt her up which she ... (read in full...)

She didn't tell me she cheated but says I should just "let it go" and I can't!

Q.   so, i just found out by looking through my friends phone that my fiancee of just over 2 years had made out with her "best friend" an ex bf i might add. When i called her out on it she said she was going to tell me "eventually" and said it was only ...

A.   29 June 2009: so, for the most part things are better, but she is still not willing to talk about it, i spoke to my best friend about it and she told me to break up with her, i decided not to because everybody makes mistakes right? the only thing is, the unwi... (read in full...)

3 questions on [teenager] masturbation

Q.   hi, i just have a few masturbation questions.im a fifteen year old boy just to let you know. question 1: is it normal to have your legs bent while masturbating?when i lay my legs flat, im still able to cum, but i have to work a lot harder. questi...

A.   10 March 2009: 1:) i agree completely with the post before me 2:) it's nothing to worry about for me it mostly depends how often i masturbate 3:) try to get some "material" that always makes it a bit easier... (read in full...)

I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned..

Q.   After some snooping which I feel horrible about I came across this and I didn't know what to think and I want to know wether or not I should be concerned... I am trax, and the rest is kind of self explanatory... Look "ex bf", I love you a...

A.   9 March 2009: yeah, i want to talk to the guy but she wont let me know where he lives, and she only hangs out with him when im at work. she also wont tell him that we're engaged... (read in full...)

I want to stand up for him but I'm worried I might get bullied too.

Q.   My friends and other classmates pick on this (cute) new boy. He has trouble making friends and he is very shy so that makes him a easy target. Almost everyone in my grade say hes a loser. The girls once put a note with (she knows that he has a cr...

A.   26 November 2008: well it would be the right thing to do, stand up for him that is, and you should also help him get his own voice, I'm not telling you to get him going around and bullying people back but get him to be more vocal and stand up for himself, and from ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and I can't even be mad at him!

Q.   my boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and then he comes to me like nothing is wrong and i try to be mad at him but i can't and i want to break up with him but i cant i love him way too much to do that i need help ...

A.   26 November 2008: well i think you should definitely be mad at him this is unacceptable, i used to have this problem myself, and after enough times of getting yelled at i eventually stopped doing it. but if you definitely love him you should tell him how you feel ... (read in full...)

When, where and HOW to propose???

Q.   I've been dating a girl for the past year and a half now, we've had time to grow up, fight, cry, laugh and all the other good stuff together and I'm ready to tie the knot but the problem is, I don't know how to do it, do I do it on a holiday with ...

A.   25 November 2008: i know it's early to get engaged but i was thinking of a long engagement.. would that help to clarify my actions?... (read in full...)

Questions I have as I get closer to loosing my virginity.

Q.   Simple to the point questions that are worrying me as i get closer to losing my virginity. 1-Does size matter? 2-What do I do?(stupid i know but im not too bright) 3-What if I don't last very long? Those are some pretty stupid things...

A.   22 October 2007: haha somethingeasy, last time i drank and tried to have sex i didn't have any of those things on my mind but i still couldn't get it up... (read in full...)

Questions I have as I get closer to loosing my virginity.

Q.   Simple to the point questions that are worrying me as i get closer to losing my virginity. 1-Does size matter? 2-What do I do?(stupid i know but im not too bright) 3-What if I don't last very long? Those are some pretty stupid things...

A.   21 October 2007: Well my girl and i have tried having sex before but i just get too damn nervous and can't "get it up".... (read in full...)

I lied to her and she won't forgive me...

Q.   i don't know how to say this without sounding like a shallow a-hole... but my girlfriend and i got in a fight because i lied to her, today i bought her flowers and a card but she still hasn't forgiven me(can't say i blame her) but her frien...

A.   19 October 2007: well i'm aware that i sould like an a-hole, and i DO want her for more than sex, the only thing that really bothers me is that her friend is chiming in... (read in full...)

I lied to her and she won't forgive me...

Q.   i don't know how to say this without sounding like a shallow a-hole... but my girlfriend and i got in a fight because i lied to her, today i bought her flowers and a card but she still hasn't forgiven me(can't say i blame her) but her frien...

A.   18 October 2007: I lied to her about my age, a hobby of mine and a job i never had, I really do love her and if i have to I will spend the rest of my life apologizing to her. The punishment doesn't bother me so much as her pulling her friend into it. I want her for ... (read in full...)

I lied to her and she won't forgive me...

Q.   i don't know how to say this without sounding like a shallow a-hole... but my girlfriend and i got in a fight because i lied to her, today i bought her flowers and a card but she still hasn't forgiven me(can't say i blame her) but her frien...

A.   18 October 2007: lila, that could just make things worse than they already are... but if she does og off and start flirting or messing around with other guys then i will know what to do...... (read in full...)

I lied to her and she won't forgive me...

Q.   i don't know how to say this without sounding like a shallow a-hole... but my girlfriend and i got in a fight because i lied to her, today i bought her flowers and a card but she still hasn't forgiven me(can't say i blame her) but her frien...

A.   18 October 2007: i know but her friend is (or at least claims to be straight) but her friend didn't just jump into the issue, my girl said it to me and now her friend is just repeatedly rubbing it in my face.. it's in a joking manner but i feel truly insulted... ... (read in full...)

How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out?

Q.   How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out? She is so hot. Wow! HOT!...

A.   18 October 2007: well first off, wanting to be with someone just because of looks is shallow and will ge tyou nowhere but a one night stand. and second you're between the ages of 10 and 12, come on you don't need a girlfriend yet, wait till you are at least 13, but ... (read in full...)

His mom says he shouldn't get in a serious relation with anyone since he's joining the military...

Q.   well i have a question for you all out there...me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months 2 weeks and 3 days...we are both in love...but now his mom has a problem with us dating...she says that since he's joining the military he shouldn't get ...

A.   17 October 2007: well i understand how you feel... kind of... but how can you be so sure that you are in love so early in a relationship? It is completely up to you whether or not you want to continue seeing him or not, and if he is not willing to put the extra ef... (read in full...)

I lover her, how do I get her to trust me again. I'm a pathological lier.

Q.   i (a pathological liar) have been with a girl for nearly 4 and a half months which is a while for me, i have realized that i have fallen quite in love with her, well she recently found out i lied about a few things (my age, hobbies, and lack of a ...

A.   15 October 2007: it's all stuff i want/wish i did but tonight i came out and told her everything that was a lie... after the police took me home (yes the police) i called her and she didn't seem interested in talking to me, but she still said she loves me... (read in full...)

Would it be unfair to move with my son out of the country?

Q.   I am considering leaving our marriage but we have a 16 month old so I need to feel I have exhausted all options. We have been together 8 years now. In that time my husband has always done 'odd' stuff. I put it down to stress related to work, or ...

A.   15 October 2007: personally if you really do love him i say to try to help him through his issues, but if he hints at harming you or the child you need to leave him immediately... and if hes hurting himself try to put a stop to that too...... (read in full...)

I can't tell if this relation will be good for me.

Q.   I posted here a few months back about my last relationship. Just to clarify for those who read that post,this question is about a new guy. So I started dating this guy after a painful relationship with my ex about a month and a half ago (I'm over ...

A.   15 October 2007: well it seems you just need to talk to him about how what he is doing is making you feel. As for the when you don't want to be touched if he keeps doing it, physically distance yourself from him until you feel you can be touched again, he won't ... (read in full...)

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