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ok. So I'm single. I love to play footie and I'm a Goth. I've been told many a time to write a column to help people, cause i do it alot at school. People don't tske that long to understandwho I am and what I'm like.

My girlfriend confessed to having an affair and is pregnant help!

Q.   My girlfriend confessed to having an affair and is pregnant help!...

A.   6 March 2007: ok man. stay calm. If the girl i pregnant then the child must come first. after all it isn't the childs fault. If the child isn't yours, but you love this girl, then support her. I know it sounds daft but trust me, it happened to my sister and the ... (read in full...)

I think I might be gay! How can you tell if you're gay? Realm????

Q.   ok.I'm confussed. I might be gay, but I'm not sure. I like always hug boys.......like all the time.....and i had feelings for one once. any ideas?...

A.   6 March 2007: cheers guys. I'm sure it will sort out soon. Time will tell, it always does.... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of my feelings for my ex girlfriend?

Q.   how do i get rid of my feelings for my ex girlfriend? i still love her...

A.   2 March 2007: ok it's so hard. But you have to reilise that there are other women out there. I recently split from my girl and she has a new lad who are always "there" in my face. move on dude. find a new goal for your life, take some time out from gilr, and then ... (read in full...)

Is he lying when he says he doesnt flirt or fancy other girls ?

Q.   if your boyfriend tells you he loves you n the relationship is perfect is it possible for him to be flirty n fancie other girls. i'm quite stupid in the sense that because i'm not flirty n don't fancie other guys that i think he doesn't but is he ...

A.   2 March 2007: erm. yes. Sorry to tell you but as a lad i must say, he's lying. he may not be flirting, but he proberley fancy other women., sorry to tell you. move on.... (read in full...)

He called me a spiteful bitch so I dumped him, should I take him back?

Q.   Well all i ca say is it isnt my first time of breaking up, so why is it so god damn hard? I've been with Gav a year ad a half things was great..(thats how it is) and month after month we was getting fed up of each other, he knew i wasnt happy but i ...

A.   26 February 2007: No way. Never go back for that. he's not worth it. talking to you like that is over the top. no way dont go back to him. NEVER!!!!... (read in full...)

How can I get him to talk to me more and get closer to him? Any ideas?

Q.   i really like this boy iv liked him for years but he is 18 now and i am 15 nearly 16 ,i cnt tell whether he likes me i always ring him and joke and talk dirty lol he goes along with it but when i see him in person he dont seem to bother he always ...

A.   22 February 2007: ok. so just drop some hints. make your self, irresistble. Make urself, that he wants to be with you. try to get close to him and see how it works out.... (read in full...)

My partner has just said I am too needy!!! I dont understand we are getting married in June!?

Q.   my bloke of two years has just told me i am too needy, what is that supposed to mean? we are supposed to be getting married in June.!! He feels he has to send me texts etc. I'm not needy at all. I don't sit waiting for phone calls or texts, i am ove...

A.   22 February 2007: Ask him what he's tryin to do. tell him that he has to understand you if your gettin married. and if he's sending you texts, I think he's the needy one. Just ask him and tell him to sort it out.... (read in full...)

My ex and her new bf are always kissing in my face! What do I do??

Q.   ok so, my Ex girl-friend has a new lad. They're always kissing etc. which sounds ok, but they always do it in my face. What do I do? any ideas?...

A.   21 February 2007: thanks for the advise. I wish it was that simply, but she has no morals. everytime they do, she looks at me as if to say " hahaha, I win you lonley loser". perhaps its me i don't know. Thank you for your help.... (read in full...)

We slept together, he didnt want anything serious, we stayed mates, now he's got a new GF, should I stay friends with him ?

Q.   i started seeing this guy a few months ago and we started as mates going to the pub and talking , anyway we did eventually sleep together and after we decided to stay mates . anyway i had feelings for him and he kept saying i dont want a seri...

A.   21 February 2007: I agree with both of the above. Just break away from him and just make a fresh start. Don't do the wedding if you don't feel like it, but it sounds like this boy has used you. My mate did the same to another girl and now, three years on, no girl ... (read in full...)

Should I forget about him altogether and move on or work at it?

Q.   Dear Cupid, A month ago I met a guy that I instantly hit it off with. He was a fresh change from the past of complete unavailable "jerks" that I was accustomed to -- he held as much respect for me as I did for him, and I could still remain int...

A.   21 February 2007: Seems strange I know. But you must weight up the pros and con's of each man. If one of them wants alone time, then maybe some space is whats needed. but be careful not to drifted too far apart, because it will make it harder to get back together if ... (read in full...)

I left my wife and my sister in law left her husband, purely coincidental I might add! We have, through the course of time gotten together and the family think it was planned! It wasn't at all. Are we so wrong?

Q.   Here is my situation. My wife's brother's wife, decided to leave him, they have a daughter. At the same time I was going to leave my wife, we have two daughters. I felt i had to wait because the rest of the family would think that she and I had an ...

A.   21 February 2007: If you love each other, then no it's not wrong. The family will have to deal with what you have decided. Good luck . hope it works out.... (read in full...)

How do girls like to be kissed? Is there that perfect way to do it?

Q.   hey I was wondering how do girls prefer to be kissed? My ex gf said i kissed perfectly but i have my doubts considering I had never kissed a girl before or even went out with 1 ya anyways a little feedback on what kind of ways girls like guys ...

A.   21 February 2007: There is no right or wrong way. If you kiss someone, work out what they like, and try to adapt. seems silly, but it works. good luck.... (read in full...)

My ex gf has moved on, she wants me to leave her alone. It hurts so bad! Help!

Q.   me and my girlfriend broke up recently after 11 months, we fought a lot, bt we always seemed to make up. We both did things we weren't proud of, but recently she decided she wanted it to be over. She went out within a few days and has already kissed ...

A.   21 February 2007: James. I'm going through the same. My ex has a new Boyfriend and even as I write this, there outside kissing. Dude you have to remeber that it just wasn't meant to be for you guys. If she's doing all the stuff you say, then it ain't worth getting ... (read in full...)

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