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| | *isarocksyoursocksoff's profile:i'm from lil ole liverpool, england.
i don't claim to be an expert just that i am very interested in psycholgy, and have an A-level in it and am currently completing a HNC in drama which means i am even more interested in the way people tick, i hate ignorant and close-minded people and so i believe that i try to give open-minded points of view.
i have had alot of experience with dealing with social relationships, and have had my major highs and lows.
and remember age does not equal experience
take care
i'm also doing the Cancer Research UK Race for life in memory of my wonderful nanna on the 15th July this year
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Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl?
Q. I need a lot of people's opinions on this subject so if you could give me your perspective it would be great. Ok...Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl? I mean if the girl is hitting him on his head because she is so mad at ...
A. 4 September 2007: violence from either a boy or girl is bad
if a girl is hitting him first then a boy SHOULD NOT hit him back
even if she is antogonizing him, doesn't mean he's right to hit her... it just means SHE's wrong... (read in full...)
I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when she is on her period and I insist that she sits on my face...
Q. hello my name is vince and I am curious to know whether anybody else out there believes in vampires, I believe I am of this origin. I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when ...
A. 2 September 2007: whether this is a wind up or not... i'm sure there are people who enjoy this, but maybe it's not because you like vampires, maybe it just turns you on for other reasons, such as power, good positioning and the added lubricant! aslong as your... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of tricking him into fatherhood!
Q. I have been seeing a man for nearly 1 year, I do not have romantic feelings for him and neither does he for me, he is special to me and I class him as a friend more than anything, we purely have each other for sexual satisfaction. I am however ...
A. 2 September 2007: you know that by doing this you would be doing something very immoral otherwise you wouldn't be asking you would be tricking someone who you call your 'friend' into something that would chaneg his life without him being even aware of it. maybe ... (read in full...)
Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex. My girlfriend said no. I don't want to pressure her but i want it sooo bad. I really love her but i don't know if i should break up with her. please help me i don't know what to do....
A. 2 September 2007: if you love her then you can wait sex can be very emotional so you need to treat this girl with repsect, if you dont you could end up hurting her feelings and affecting her life alot more than you may ever be able to realise plus you're onl... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my partner to go on holiday with her father and our sons a regular basis without me?
Q. I am in love with a woman who at times is the highlight of my life. We have one son together and she has one son from a previous relationship. Is it normal for a woman to want to go away with her father and my sons on a regular basis( vacations, ...
A. 15 August 2007: is her father single/widower maybe she's just trying to ensure that her father is felt loved and that he can spend some quality time with his daughter and grandchildren maybe you could sit her down and explain that you'd also lik eot go on va... (read in full...)
Why would he not feel that other men might be interested in me?
Q. I asked my boyfriend if he ever thought that other men were attracted to me. He said no and said that he felt that other men would not be attracted to me. He never even gave it a thought. I see women who are attracted to him and he is always ...
A. 15 July 2007: maybe what he emans is that he just trusts you.. so he doesn not worry about othe rmen being attracted to you
maybe he is just trying to ignore that men might be attracted to you
it's not as if he doesn't find you attractive because he has t... (read in full...)
Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl?
Q. I need a lot of people's opinions on this subject so if you could give me your perspective it would be great. Ok...Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl? I mean if the girl is hitting him on his head because she is so mad at ...
A. 15 July 2007: good question.. because although it is men who are more likely to be abusive, women can be too... however poeple would not excuse a man hitting a woman, when they might do otherwise... this probably due to the fact that (most commonly) men are ... (read in full...)
I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?
Q. hi i am a 17 year old guy. I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?...
A. 8 July 2007: i agree with Dr.Pete about some of the answers on here, a person comes on here asking for help, and yet people can do nothing but be nasty... in my mind that makes them a bad person.
you yourself know that the situtaion is unusual, which is why... (read in full...)
I'm 27, he's 22. Is there a problem?
Q. hello, i met a nice young man who is 22 years old he is mentally mature and understands me he tells me that he likes me and wants a future with me.I like him too and we both like the same things .But iam 27 do you think the age difference is a ...
A. 8 July 2007: not in the slightest.... x... (read in full...)
If I dump him, no one will be my friend - but I don't love him.
Q. elloo I have been with my boyfriend for ages now. And it's the 5th time I've dumped him and I got back with him 3 days ago and i don't love him. But if i dump him nobody will be my friend. please help me quick xxx...
A. 28 June 2007: then they're obviously not your true friends.. and aren't you being very unfair to your boyfrienmd by constantly hurting him and even worse that he thinks you may care about him if you can't see your self falling for him in future then you need ... (read in full...)
I thought we could make something out of this... Now I feel that I was wrong. Any advice?
Q. Okay, we are not children, I'm 40, he's 45. We met through mutual friends and there is definitely attraction and we have just begun seeing each other. He found my site on Match.com after our first date, and now has created a page there as well. I ...
A. 28 June 2007: i'd say don't throw in the towel just yet, afterall you two aren't even that serious yet, so technically he's done nothing wrong, right? if you feel that you can't trust him.. then i'd suggest thinking about where he stands in your life.... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?
Q. Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???...
A. 26 June 2007: go to GP to be sure....!
you can get pregannt first time.. surely it's worth just getting checked... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship with a married couple - I am deeply in love with the guy, but sometimes see the woman as competition! I can't take it!
Q. i am in a relationship with a married couple, i am deeply in love with the man as i met him first and have known him longer, the wife however who is born the day after me but 8 years older, sometimes i like her but other times i see her as ...
A. 26 June 2007: people have got so caught up with bickering over their own point of views here.. that they've forgotten about the real issue... which is that this girl is asking for advice... (read in full...)
What label do I put on her?
Q. I'm kinda lost, There is this girl but i'm not sure what she is to me.. Like.. My mum has a sister.. which is my aunt.. but my aunts husband's brother is the father of the girl.. what is she to me?...
A. 17 June 2007: it depends what you see it has, most people would just say she was family, very distantly linked
but technically she... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Call for new volunteer moderators (please read carefully)
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING! Moderators approve new questions, think up of interesting and accurate titles and approve/reject a...
A. 15 June 2007: i check this site everyday, i absolutely love it and find it very theraputic.
i have just finished college and would be more available to check questions
Lisa
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Other people's views on marriage being burdensome is overwhelming me! How do I get through this?
Q. I feel that i am anxious about my marriage mainly because there is an overwhelming burdensome feeling that marriage is doomed to lead to miseries especially in the region where is live.. I sometimes get overwhelmed by this popular sentiment and give ...
A. 13 June 2007: i suffer from an anxiety disorder so i can relate, and can have learnt from similiar experiences.
are these people actually telling you this in a negative way, or just joking about it?
if they are making you feel horrible about your marraige,... (read in full...)
What are the dating rules for belching and farting?
Q. I need your help. I have started the process of dating after being widowed. I am now in my mid 40's and dating has changed significantly... I recently met a man online and we have been seeing each other for 2 months now. Things are going...
A. 13 June 2007: well ther are the rules of manners? that's all i can think of
i just think that this man and you have been brought up differently, if it bothers you let him know, and see what he says and vice versa he may think you're overreacting.
i think... (read in full...)
He gets hard during O but can't keep it up when it comes to full on sex... he cries after each attempt... should I dump him now and get this over with!?
Q. My boyfriend suffers from erectile dysfunction. He becomes erect with oral sex, but as soon as we try the other his erection disappears. He says he wants to do it, and has been to his doctor who has ruled out physical causes, and has referred him to ...
A. 13 June 2007: if you really like this guy then you need to know what is your priority... sex or him... if he can get hard in the first place, it's probbaly not a physical thing.. but an emotional thing, maybe(as mentioned) a lack of confidence... if you like him ... (read in full...)
We f*ck, we s*ag, we s*rew each other senseless... but we don't "make love" - is there something wrong with me?
Q. I think i have a problem. My husband and i were discussing our sex life and he said that we have NEVER "made love". Come to think of it...i have never been able to make love to anyone? Is there something wrong with me? i Love having sex- don't get ...
A. 13 June 2007: i agree, you don't have to like it in slow motion to soft music to be making love. making love can be just the fact that you two are together, you bodies together and you are sharing a 'sensless' experience as you describe it.
we all vary what we ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship with a married couple - I am deeply in love with the guy, but sometimes see the woman as competition! I can't take it!
Q. i am in a relationship with a married couple, i am deeply in love with the man as i met him first and have known him longer, the wife however who is born the day after me but 8 years older, sometimes i like her but other times i see her as ...
A. 13 June 2007: hun, i don't understand your situation.. neither does anyone in the world... because it is individual to you. people can relate and have very similiar circumstances...
i can understand, that no matter how you got involved in this situatio... (read in full...)
Should a guy go back to his pregnant ex, even if he loves someone else?
Q. Tell me something, if a man breaks up with someone, decides to move on, finds a new girlfriend and they are both happy, and then suddenly the ex says that she is pregnant with his child does he have to leave this new love and go back to the other ...
A. 13 June 2007: i'd liek to add.. i agree with DV1... there must be a reason why they broke up in the first place, and so (depending on why) would it be a good idea to re-enter that r/ship after he has built a new life?... (read in full...)
Should a guy go back to his pregnant ex, even if he loves someone else?
Q. Tell me something, if a man breaks up with someone, decides to move on, finds a new girlfriend and they are both happy, and then suddenly the ex says that she is pregnant with his child does he have to leave this new love and go back to the other ...
A. 13 June 2007: who says that gping back with his ex WOULD be the right thing?
i think it's safe to say that it is down to each individual situation. society is changing, not long ago you were expected to marry teh parent of your child, however that does't m... (read in full...)
My friend told me her dad beats her... I tried telling her to tell someone but she doesn't want me to get involved...
Q. ave got a female friend she is 16 and clamed to me that her dad has beating her up twice she doesnt want me to get involved i wnat her to tell some one but i dont no how to convince her...
A. 11 June 2007: if you get in touch with a child protection agency and let them know they can assess what is best for your friend, she may be afraid of the stigman attached to child abuse and thinks that the only other option is to go to a home, when in fact she ... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 10 June 2007: i haven't spoken to you in the past, but it's obvious how helpful you've been to others.
i'm so sorry for your loss and i hope/am sure that you and your children find great comfort in each other
xxxxxx... (read in full...)
My friend told me her dad beats her... I tried telling her to tell someone but she doesn't want me to get involved...
Q. ave got a female friend she is 16 and clamed to me that her dad has beating her up twice she doesnt want me to get involved i wnat her to tell some one but i dont no how to convince her...
A. 10 June 2007: if your friend really didn't want you involved then she wouldn't have told you!!!
she is now probably either doubting her decision to tell you or she is trying to protect herself if her dad finds out she has told, she may say that becaus ehse has... (read in full...)
I am addicted to watching sex movies and yet i am only 12.
Q. Hi, I am addicted to watching sex movies and yet i am only 12. I am a girl as well, and i watch lesbian porn. I am the straightest of straightest girl ever but lesbian porn, turns me on. I am addicted to sex, but when my bofriend who is 2 years ...
A. 10 June 2007: you're at an age where your body is changing dramatically, so to me it sounds normal to be curious about how you may look when your older by watching porn, and discover different things about your body. if you're really worried that you think you ... (read in full...)
My husband is unsure that he is in love with me! What do I do???
Q. My husband is unsure that he is in love with me we have been married for 6 years and we are in the military so he is gone a lot. he went away for school for a few weeks and came back saying he does not know if he loves me anymore. just before h...
A. 10 June 2007: it sounds like he himself is very confused, it'snot fair on you that you have to hear this, but it seems that the reason he is saying it is not because he doens't love you, but because of another reason. people who experience from depression can ... (read in full...)
How can I moan more when having sex with my husband without getting all embarrassed?
Q. i have a question? i am very shy to moan during sex with my husband, i wanted to get some advice to help me open up to moaning for him. i love to have sex a lot just shy to moan. please help me? Tabitha...
A. 10 June 2007: i'm sure that this is a very comon problem, because sex itself can be very embarrassing for people. but you have to remember that this is a very special thing that you share with your husband. you should be able to feel comfortable, maybe if you ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant??
Q. Hi everyone. My boyfriend and i had sex just over a month ago. We used a condom and he did not cum. I got my period a week later but now my period is very late. Like 2 weeks. Is there a chance i'm pregnant? Please write back ...
A. 10 June 2007: as DrPsych said, pregnant women can still have a period. i'd just check with your doctor if you're reallly worried though, however i know some girls whose menstrual cycle where altered after there fist tome having sex... i don't know if it is a ... (read in full...)
I am due to go through a major event in my life and it's worrying me sick...
Q. I am due to go through a major event in my life, though most of you would think it is nothing if I said. I have been worrying about this event that I have blown everything out of proportion and gained a deep anxiety from it which has affected my ...
A. 8 June 2007: ah it sounds like you are suffering from panic attacks or some sort of anxiety disorder?
anxiety can be often dehabilitating an you feel there is nothing you can do to change your mind set, and it is extremely common; so trust me you're not alon... (read in full...)
I went for him, then found out he's been w/ someone else for three years! He still says he loves me, but can't see me b/c of her!! Now I'm VERY confused.
Q. I posted a question here a few weeks ago because of an attraction with a much older man - he is 36 and I am 18. I decided to go for it, but found to my horror that he is with another woman who he has been with openly for three years. I asked him ...
A. 7 June 2007: you deserve someone who will always choose you... if he doesn't choose you then i promise you will find someone who will. but if it's obvious he can't be with you, then you need to start mourning the end of this relationship, before you are hurt ... (read in full...)
Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?
Q. Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...
A. 5 June 2007: i'm not saying he will... but if he is capable of doing it in the first place, then he is probabaly not a good man ... (read in full...)
I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past.
Q. My situation is about some trust issues. I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past. When I am with him, and he goes out with friends (without me) I am perfectly fine. When I am away from him, this is where the problem is. I had ...
A. 4 June 2007: i think it's important to remember that although other people can give good advice who have experienced similiar situations; no two situations are the same so remember to make their answers relatable and not necessarily take them word for word... (read in full...)
He seems to only like me when he's drunk! Is he worth it or should I let him go?
Q. Hey hey, The guy that I have been seeing for 7 months only lets himself go when he's drinking. When he's sober, he doesn't speak to me as often. And it's almost like he only likes me when he's drunk. He said from the beginning that he's not a bi...
A. 4 June 2007: just because he is more open when he is drunk, doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't have feelings for you... don't you feel more unhibited and sexual when you have had a drink or two? if you haevn't drank yet then maybe you can understand that it is ... (read in full...)
I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?
Q. hi i am a 17 year old guy. I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?...
A. 4 June 2007: have you had previous relationships? you're only seventeen so your body is still changing and dealing with emotions, it is possible that seeing a naked woman, no matter who it was would have caused these feelings. try and approach it like that, if ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my daughter's friend.
Q. I know this may seem wrong, but I'm in love with my daughters friend. I divorced my daughter (Ashley)'s mother about 2 years ago and I guess I've been looking for someone to be with. But there's more than one problem with that. First, She's 17. ...
A. 20 May 2007: this is an extremely delicate situation, especially when emotions become involved.
i suggest that before things roller coaster out of control, you sit down and look at your options, and prioritize what is most important.
because you may lose you... (read in full...)
I dont know how to end it... what have I done?
Q. What can i do?I had an affair last year with a close friend..He swore that it was only a bit of harmless fun on the side and that no-one would get hurt but i began to fall for him. i knew that it could nt go on so i finished it but recently he ...
A. 20 May 2007: hey although yes, what you did wasn't the right thing to do, before you can make a decision with what to do with your husband and your friend, you need to come to terms with it yourself.
you will feel guilty as long as you have to until you can ... (read in full...)
Is a condom enough or should it be combined with pills?
Q. Is using a condom enough whilst having sex or should I go on the pill too? ...
A. 17 May 2007: the pill is around 97% protection from unwanted pregnancies and condoms are around 97% protection from pregnancies and sti's (although don't quote me on the stat's) it is still pretty high percentage and unlikely that you will get pregnant from ... (read in full...)
She slept with someone else just to get back at me. Am I correct to have doubts about getting back together with her?
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up (mutually agreed upon) for irreconcilable differences. No cheating on either part. However, after I moved out (having lived together for two and a half years), I tried to get through the split-up as best I could, after ...
A. 17 May 2007: i think she's being unreasonable but i think it's also important to understand why she might have done it. maybe she was just hurt that you were able to move on and get over her or even just show signs that you were over her.
it can be hard for... (read in full...)
How do I keep her interested until I can be with her again?
Q. me and my girlfriend had been going out for 4 months, but ever since the start of our relationship it was kind of hard because i wasn't able to drive to see her as often as i wanted to because my license was suspended. and lately it has been really ...
A. 17 May 2007: i can completely relate to this, you broke up to save getting hurt by not seeing each other, but it still hurts even more now. if you both still love each other in a year's time then that would be great but chances are emotions will change. i ... (read in full...)
I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past.
Q. My situation is about some trust issues. I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past. When I am with him, and he goes out with friends (without me) I am perfectly fine. When I am away from him, this is where the problem is. I had ...
A. 13 May 2007: do you mean because of what past boyfriends ahev doen to you or th epast as in when he told you he was with a boy when he was with a girl?
i think you should try and get your self out of this negative way of looking ta things, for your own sake... (read in full...)
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