Chance to get back with my ex from a long distance relationship?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship with my ex about a year and half from the beginning. We were best friends and soul mates that I had a no doubt I would end up with her until death do us apart. I'm a college student, so I only could visit...
A. 20 February 2009: I think that it is good that you do not contact her. She has said that she would like to be free. You are both very young and the best thing you can do is move on with your life. You don't have to get into another relationship but you do have to ... (read in full...)
Should I date my ex-friend's ex-husband?
Q. I was reasonably good friends with a girl for almost 10 years until almost 6 months ago when she tried to cause trouble between myself and a guy that I had started seeing. Her and her husband have broken up in the meantime and he has been showing ...
A. 19 February 2009: yes! I think that you should steer clear for at least 6-8 months after the final DIVORCE has been granted. Even though she is your ex-friend I am sure you still care about her. 10 years is a long time to throw a friendship that may be able to be ... (read in full...)
Back to the ex just for sex!
Q. how do i keep from going back with my ex just for sex? That's really all I use him for, I don't know if he knows that. But every now and then I would text him to see if he wants to hang for a lil bit.. and of course he's a guy.. So of course he's ...
A. 2 February 2009: Ahhh...I see your problem. Well my dear when you ask him if he needs a ride offer someone else a ride too and drop him off first, that will help with your gam situation. As for having the same class together...I'm sure you don't have sex in class ... (read in full...)
Is there a point where its too late?
Q. Allright long story short there's a girl in my class I've been crushing on for a while. Specifically like 3 months. Maybe more. Anyhoo we get along great, there seems to be some connection, currently friends (though not GREAT ones), yada yada but ...
A. 1 February 2009: You only live once and you dont want to have to live with the question of what it for the rest of your life. Remain the charming confident guy that you are and playfully ask her during the next one of your flirt sessions if she would mind if you ... (read in full...)
Back to the ex just for sex!
Q. how do i keep from going back with my ex just for sex? That's really all I use him for, I don't know if he knows that. But every now and then I would text him to see if he wants to hang for a lil bit.. and of course he's a guy.. So of course he's ...
A. 1 February 2009: When you have those urges try to occupy yourself with other things or call one of your girlfriends to see if she would like to hang. If he is not around you then you wont find yourself in that situation. Also consider how you would feel if someone ... (read in full...)
How do you make guys like/approach you?
Q. I've tried it all. They ask for my number but never call. They look but never approach. Am I not attractive or is it just because I'm not from around here? help..... I dont know what to do....
A. 29 January 2009: Perhaps you are trying too hard. Stop trying. Hang out with your girlfriends. Go to the school athletics ( football, basket ball, games etc.) Join a school sport or organization as well. Be involved with the school activities and believe me..it'll ... (read in full...)
He's moving too fast for me.
Q. I've been dating this lad for a few week but we haven't met yet. I know it probably seems stupid but I've seen him in person before but didn't really talk to him properly and now he keeps asking to meet me and I just want him to lay off for a bit. I...
A. 29 January 2009: The best way is to just tell him the truth. Say that you have other obligations that are stressing you a bit and right now is not a good time to meet. You like him but you don't want to rush into anything. Ask him to please respect your feelings at ... (read in full...)
Strange headaches
Q. Since I was young I've been having these terrible headaches which sometimes lead on to migranes, I've tried glassess twice, been to the doctors etc, even been in hospital at one stage they were so bad. They stopped for a while but the headache...
A. 29 January 2009: Have you been to a specialist? You might request to see a doctor who specializes in matters of your case rather than just a general practicioner. It could be that your nerves are being pinched at the base of your neck which is causing your migranes. ... (read in full...)
Is he jealous since I don't like him or is he just mean to me?
Q. Hi everyone, I need your advice! I have two guyfriends; their names are Tony and Kelvin. I really like Kelvin even he has a gf, and I think not only Kelvin knows I have a crush on him but also Tony. My question is that whether Tony got jealous...
A. 29 January 2009: it sounds as if he could be jealous. Have you talked to him about the way you feel he is treating you? It may help if you talk to him. Good Luck! I hope this helps!... (read in full...)
Guy wants a booty call but I don't want to be one, how do I tell him?
Q. This guy Im friends with and am attracted to has been hot and cold with me, calling me recently only when he wants a booty call. We used to talk about everything from school to friends to family but now, he only talks when he wants 'some'. I do...
A. 29 January 2009: you can tell him that you appreciate and value his friendship but you don't want to continue in intamacy because you feel it could ruin your friendship in the future. I hope this helps! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I need a primer in sexual techniques, please help?
Q. I would just like to know. I have never gone more than making out with my girlfriend. If we are ready to move on what would be the best way to like lick her pussy? like would should i do to make it feel good for her to make her want to give me a ...
A. 28 January 2009: Firstly I have to ask...how do you know she is ready to move on? Have you both talked about it? Are you using sexual contraceptives? It sounds as if you are still in high school and the first thing I will ask you is are you ready to have a baby? Can ... (read in full...)
She walks all over me because she knows she can
Q. ok,i have answered a few questions recently on this to give people advice but now its my turn to ask anyone reading this for advice. the answer to my problem might seem obvious but please try and think of my situation before answering. thank you. ...
A. 28 January 2009: Here are my thoughts....I am not an expert just another user hoping to shed some light on the situation. I feel that she is a person who needs her space to be who she is. It is the type of person she is. Have you read up on her astrological chart? ... (read in full...)
Should I give the bracelet back to him or should I keep it?
Q. My boyfriend gave me a $700 bracelet that has his name engraved in it. The only problem is that this bracelet was given to him by his ex. He says that he loves me and he wanted to let me know how serious he was about me. I thought it was sweet but ...
A. 27 January 2009: If you feel uncomfortable as any woman would wearing something their ex gave them I would say thank you you really love the thought he put into it but would he mind if you and him sold it and used the money to buy something else! I hope this helps ... (read in full...)
Can you make love for 5 hours and NOT be in a loving relationship?
Q. Is it possible to make love constantly for 5 hours and not be in a relationship that is based on true love?? ...
A. 27 January 2009: yes, this is possible. You may not truly be in-love...but you probably have a genuine care about the person or else you would both get your fix quickly and move on with your day. I hope this helps... (read in full...)
I'm really concerned about the chance that I might have HIV or Hepatitis and could use a little guidance.
Q. Hello all, I'm really concerned about the chance that I might have HIV or Hepatitis and could use a little guidance. I realize that this isn't a replacement for medical advice, but I would like to know if anyone can share some advice with me. ...
A. 27 January 2009: It is very inlikely that you have contracted anything from simply kissing. I think the most commonly transmitted diesease from open mouth kissing is herpies. I think in order to ease your mind you should be checked for Hep. I am sure that you will ... (read in full...)
I am confused... Please suggest
Q. I am 27 years old, mother of 2 kids. I met my husband about 8 years ago. He told me he loved me, I didn't feel like that initially but after 1 year, I felt I had met the love of my life. My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. Ever...
A. 27 January 2009: Honey...I am sorry that this has happend to you. I would strongly advise that you both seek councel. I know that you really love him but sex is not just about the physical it is about the emotional. He has hurt you emotionally and who knows if he ... (read in full...)
Can you really take back an ex....?
Q. I broke up with my b/f of 3 yrs approxmately 8 months ago because he didn't seem to voalize his love for me and he seemed to wanna me with his buddies more often then me. We both dated other people during the break and rarely spoke to each other. ...
A. 26 January 2009: Honey... I say if your heart tells you to go for it you should! You only live once right! Besides if you don't you will have to live with the what ifs for the rest of your life. Good Luck I wish you much luck and happiness in whatever road you ... (read in full...)
How do I go about solving a problem at home?
Q. I'm currently thirteen years old, and I want to control the amount of violence spurred at my house. My mother isn't the most caring mother, but I mind her just as well because she has taken care of me all of my life. She loves me and cares for me. ...
A. 26 January 2009: Have you talked to your parents about the way you feel your sister is affecting the house hold? Maybe you should bring up the situation to a school councelor that can help you assess the situation better if you don't feel you can go to your parents. ... (read in full...)
Whyy am I still single??
Q. i'm 15,i'm a sophmore in high school and i was wondering.is it normal to never have a boyfriend.i mean i've been on a date,i've been kissed,i've done hook-ups,but i never had a boyfriend and i really wanna know why probably because. i always flirt...
A. 26 January 2009: you are still very young and you probably intimidate many of the young men that you come into contact with. You are smart, beautiful, confident, and driven and guys love that but they are afraid of it at the same time because it makes them feel ... (read in full...)
We have FWB relationship, I want more, he still has feelings for ex!
Q. Hi Everyone! Iam so sad and disappointed at the moment and really dont know what to do. Please tell me what the best thing I have to do right now. I have been with a man for 4 months, I really had fun with him, and of course we had sex ( great...
A. 25 January 2009: Hi hun,
I want you to take a look at the situation. Analyse what it is that you love about this man. I don't think it is him that you love, I think that you love the way he makes you feel. People come in and out of our lives for reasons, seasons,... (read in full...)
We're fighting alot, living apart and I'm not happy with the situation
Q. Well first off i'm 18 yrs old! Will be married a year in Febuary! We have been together for two years and have a 10 month old together and he is a Marine! What i need help is with what i should do and if we will make it! Well my and my husband a...
A. 25 January 2009: awww sweetie...you need to think of your safety first and foremost. I know that you love this man but it is not a healthy relationship for you or your daughter to be in at this point. I know that this is a very tough period for you but no matter ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my ex b/f
Q. Short version: We were together for a short time but he's made such an impact on me that I can't imagine my life without him. It was passionate, real, so much love. We talked about moving in together, marriage and kids. He is 36 and I'm 33. He b...
A. 25 January 2009: I am in a similar situation such as yourself and all I can say is what I am being told which is follow your heart and even if it breaks at least you'll know for sure and you wont be stuck with the should've could've would'ves of life. Good luck! I ... (read in full...)
I don't condsider him boyfriend material so I want to cut him off sexually but still be friends.
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been having an on/off 'relationship' with a friend who is emotionally unavailable. He is insular and he and not very giving of himself. Recently we've been seeing each other but I feel that it is on his terms. I do not want to be ...
A. 24 January 2009: Is this man an aquarius? He sounds like one...they are intellectually stimulated but not too much in the bedroom. They prefer long conversations that stimulate their emotions and intellect rather than their physical self. Anywho...you are right to ... (read in full...)
We like each other and kissed but she doesn't know if she wants to go out with me. Is she being awkward??
Q. right.... me and her have liked each other for ages, ahes told me, i told her. we went out the other day, and we kissed (more than once). after i asked her out and she just said i dunno. and then later i asked her about it on msn and she said i ...
A. 24 January 2009: Tell her you have deep feelings for her and you need to know if she wants to be with you because if she does not then you need to know so that you can move on and can just remain as friends and hope for nothing more. I hope that this helps! Good ... (read in full...)
I feel like he doesn't respect me...is this marriage worth saving??
Q. Is there any hope for my marriage? I have been married for 23 years. Throughout most of the marriage my husband has done just about anything he's wanted. He doesn't feel as if he should be accountable to me. He has lost large amounts of money in ...
A. 24 January 2009: Have you talked to him about these feelings you have. Maybe you should try a seperation. Talk to him and see how he feels. I am sorry that you have these feelings of neglect and disrespect. I am sure that he has similar feelings that you do but ... (read in full...)
My new boss seems to expect me to work 7 days a week. How can I sort this without losing my job?
Q. Ive just started a job, after 10 yrs of being a full time mum. I understood it to be 5 days over 7. And understood that she wanted someone that will work saturdays and sundays. For various reasons, I had to take the job. I like it, but its become a...
A. 24 January 2009: suggest to your boss that she hire a part time worker for the weekends. Tell her that you really enjoy your job and you do it very well however you can not neglect your family responsibilities as a mother and you need at least two days in the week ... (read in full...)
Nothing left to talk about?
Q. I've been friends with this guy for about 6 months, we would always go to the mall or the library and sit and talk for...hours? But lately the conversation has been going dry, I feel like he knows everything about me, vice versa. So during school we ...
A. 24 January 2009: Have you talked about your futures? What will happen after school? Where you see yourselves in 5, 10, 20 years from now? Have you talked about college? Starting your own business? Ask about his interests. Join a club or school organization together. ... (read in full...)
Why has hegone off me sexually? I haven't changed
Q. I am a mother of 3 aged 45. I am attractive and in good shape and very indepedent with a good job. Why has my boyfriend gone off me. Its been 9 months since we last had sex and normally we are so good together. April he took me to a hotel an...
A. 24 January 2009: It may not have anything to do with you or the way you look. You said you are beautiful with a good paying job and previously had no problems right? How is his life status? Does he make less than you? Is he able to freely conversate with others as ... (read in full...)
I haven't had a relationship in 5 years and my self confidence/esteem is so low
Q. ok my life is one big mess im hurting so bad inside it killing my emotions. i cant have a relationship cuz i blow it everytime. my self-esteem and self confedence is so low and i dont know what to say or do while talking with a gurl. i always get to ...
A. 24 January 2009: I feel for you. I understand that you are an emotional person and very passionate about love and anything to do with respecting and cherishing a woman who is of interest to you. I want to start off by asking you if you have done any astrological ... (read in full...)
Safest time to have sex?
Q. I've noticed that i get very horny right before i get my period. and my boyfriend and i are sexually active, and i was wondering when is the best time to have sex? like, the most safe with a condom of course. right before my period or right after?...
A. 24 January 2009: There really is no "Safe time" to have sex. I know that this is not the answer you are looking for but its the only one that is available. I am glad that you are using protection but it is not 100%. Are you on any additonal contraceptives like a ... (read in full...)
I'm in a weird situation and really don't know what to do
Q. i was in a 4 year relationship with my ex charles when i became friends with nicholas, he was dating a girl named lizzy who he recently got pregnant about 9 months ago. we became really close and over the summer we had our first kiss, it felt ...
A. 24 January 2009: Jessica...sweetie...you have to take a look at the situation and see what your underlying feeling is about this whole situation. I would also suggest that you look into your astrological signs to try to get a better understanding of his character. I ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to make the first move without getting humiliated?
Q. I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. But there is always a possibility that he doesn't. So I don't want to make the first move and suggest meeting up outside of school, in case he rejects me. Also I have this thing where the guy has ...
A. 23 January 2009: Its o.k. for girls to make the first move...guys actually like that. You have to be confident with yourself. Know your worth and exude confidence in your everyday dealings. When you talk to this boy touch his arm with yours and see how he reacts if ... (read in full...)
I like him but I don't know how to talk to him!
Q. Please Help! Im 17 btw. Ok, so there is a guy that i really like, but i just dont know how to talk to him. i notice him staring at me a lot, and when i am not facing in his direction, i notice that he walks by me a lot more, and talks to my frie...
A. 23 January 2009: maybe next time he stands behind you and makes loud noises you could turn around in a joking way and say...."are you trying to get my attention?" with a smile and twinkle in your eye. He will if he is a shy guy which it doesn't seem he is be very ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on what my next move should be?
Q. Okay, it would be nice to get some advice on this shit, I like this girl, really like her not some stupid girl like the usual, I care deeply for her and I want to ask her out, I talked to her and did the normal thing, I told her I TOOK A LIKING TO ...
A. 23 January 2009: O.k. I'm glad I could help! Don't forget to come back and let me know how things went. Be confident but not cocky! Think positive and I think you'll get the girl!... (read in full...)
If I walk away now I'm afraid I'll lose her
Q. My ex girlfriend and i went out for about a year and a half before we broke up about 2 months ago. we broke up because she said she didnt want a relationship anymore. we were really close to getting back together until she read a text that i sent my ...
A. 23 January 2009: She has made it clear that you are a man of convienence which means its convienent to have you around when no one else is and she knows she can get comfort from you when she is lacking it while she is waiting to find out if you are the one or if ... (read in full...)
Is it unrealistic to tell her to stop having contact with this guy?
Q. I don't usually do this but I got to summarise this and get an unbiased opinion. I will try my best not to be biased and favour myself. Ok, where do I begin? I hooked up with this girl about 3 years ago when I was about 19 at a pub, we saw each...
A. 23 January 2009: I think that you know the answer. If you can live with her putting her friends first then go for it but I think you should respect the way you feel and tell her that if she is going to continue to be inconsiderate and thoughtless with her actions ... (read in full...)
Married but pregnant with my exes child, what should I do now?
Q. I have been in this relationship with my husband since I was 17 years old. Last year we started having problems nothing too major, but big enough for me to reach out to an old friend. Long story short I broke up with my ex to be with my now husband ...
A. 23 January 2009: the doctor can't be absolutly sure that that was the date of conception. The way the gauge is is they start your forty weeks from the First day of your last period. Did you accuratly give that date to your doctor? If that was a guestimate and you ... (read in full...)
I thought she was the one but now I don't think she's the one
Q. i have been dating her for over two years. we lived together for 1 and a half of those. she has a beautiful daughter i love to death. i have three boys also whom live with their mom most of the time. all young. ranging from 6-13 years old. i moved ...
A. 23 January 2009: it seems that you really do love her. Do you really want to let her go or are there just certain things that could use some work and if you worked on them consiously and together would that make a difference. Are you still in love with her. There is ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on what my next move should be?
Q. Okay, it would be nice to get some advice on this shit, I like this girl, really like her not some stupid girl like the usual, I care deeply for her and I want to ask her out, I talked to her and did the normal thing, I told her I TOOK A LIKING TO ...
A. 23 January 2009: How long have you known this girl? Wjen you talk and you touch or brush her skin with yours does she pull away quickly or does she linger as long as you do. Next time you talk sit next to eachother and let your leg touch hers or let your arm rest ... (read in full...)
Its always up to me to make the first move
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year now. It seems that I always have to make the first move every single time to call her or even ask her out, and when she is feeling moody due to work, she doesn'...
A. 23 January 2009: I think it is something that you should both talk about. Have you done some astrology research? What is your sign what is her sign. Check it out it tells you a lot about some of the characteristics of a person with that sign and it may help you to ... (read in full...)
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