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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.)
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)
I know he just uses me for sex, but I want to tell him how I really feel about him. What should I do?
Q. im 17 and started having feelings for a 22 year old. we got really close and ended up having sex but he didnt want anything serious just fun. we have ended up having sex regulary but now my feelings have become really strong for him. i want to tell ...
A. 21 February 2007: That's the problem when you have sex with no strings attached. What do you do? You know he doesn't want anything serious so you stop letting him use you in this way and let him know that you don't want to do this any more. You don't need to give ... (read in full...)
Every time I think I'm ready to cum I find I need the loo, I would die of humiliation if I wee'd instead. Help!
Q. I cant cum. I dont know why but when i have sex with my boyfriend and i feel like im about to cum i just keep thinking i need the toilet, it feels as though i need a wee and ive learnt to hold back and not cum, now i dont know how to because i would ...
A. 21 February 2007: Your getting yourself all worked up and anxious about it and because of this you're holding back. You need to relax more, don't think about it and just have your orgasm when you feel it's there. Remember, it takes women longer to heat up than it ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)
she is the one and I hate myself for being who I was how can I prove it??
Q. Right where do i start im martin 34 and my girlfriend ended the relationship nearly 3 weeks ago now. She ended it because she didnt trust me and i lied about so many things. firstly i lied about having a job i had lost it but didnt tell i had los...
A. 21 February 2007: Send her a card and keep it simple. Get one saying "wishing you well" or "wishing you every happiness in your future" something like that. Let her know in it that you are sorry you lied, you admit to the lying and now you are going to counselling ... (read in full...)
Is he still holding out for this female friend or am I still in with a chance?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about two months now. He lives about 2 hours away, so we've went out about 6 times. He's quite shy, especially at first, and has only had one girlfriend who broke up with him 3 years ago. After the first date, he was ...
A. 21 February 2007: He got scared because he's realised he does have feelings for you. He probably didn't realise how emotions can grab you as deeply as they do. Although he asked you out to begin with he still seems a bit overwhelmed about the intensity a ... (read in full...)
The text he got ended with "x," but it was from a male, so I called an a woman answered! I think my husband is cheating!!
Q. i have been having a nagging feeling that my husband has been cheating since just before christmas, you know the tight gut feeling you get? well thats what i have had for so long, little things have not been adding up, ive been checking his phone ...
A. 21 February 2007: I would ask him who the phone number belongs to, if he says a friend (male) then ask to call him. If he says "do you not trust me?" say... "nope" and ring the number. You could also do your own detective work.
One way to tell if he's cheating... (read in full...)
I feel sick to my stomach when I think about my guy being around other women - what can I do?
Q. Been with my man for a while. I know that there are so many other girls out there. Ones that are smarter, funnier and more outgoing than me. I think I get scared that he's going to find another girl. I always get this nasty feeling in my stomach ...
A. 21 February 2007: What you are lacking is confidence in yourself! He chose YOU, not them! What you see as good looking won't necessarily appeal to someone else. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Do you trust him? Has he ever went off with anyone else before? ... (read in full...)
My gf took an overdose when I went out w/ friends. Now she claims she's pregnant to keep me from going out!
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for about 6 months but i don't feel for her what i used to. we get on but she's making me feel claustrophobic, she's stopped seeing her friends and wants to spend all her time with me. last year she took an overdose ...
A. 21 February 2007: She sounds immature, unbalanced and "needy." You can't be responsible for her for the rest of your life. If you want to stay in this relationship then you know you will be responsible for her and will have to be very careful about doing things ... (read in full...)
I think my ex has a brother I was never told about. I want to know for my son's sake. I don't want to upset anyone, so what should I do?
Q. I was looking into my ex husband's family tree for my son. I found a photograph of a teenage boy with the exact same surname as my ex husband and looking like him exactly. The looks are very distinctive and singular. My son thought it was h...
A. 21 February 2007: Are you positive this isn't a picture of your ex husband that you just haven't seen? Was there a different christian name to the picture? If you want to get to the bottom of it then you'll need to ask your ex husband or one of his family, plain ... (read in full...)
I just want to be left alone by everyone except my husband, I don't feel like this all the time but I do sometimes. Am I abnormal for feeling like this?
Q. Hello everyone - I'm not sure if it's just because of my personality or if it's deeper than that, but sometimes I find that I just want to be left alone by everyone except for my husband. Like sometimes I feel it's a chore to talk to my friends and ...
A. 21 February 2007: I think you've more or less answered your original question. There isn't anything abnormal with you at all. You love your husband very much and you're quite happy with your life. You seem to handle life at a very lackadaisical pace. I suggest you ... (read in full...)
Did my last relationship f*** with my head? Why do I feel extrovert one minute then a loner the next?
Q. Any opinions on the following: I am just a average 34 y/o guy. I have only had one serious relationship which lasted about 8 years (I have known her however since I was 18 - first 5 just friends. She then broke up and we just split up. (To be...
A. 21 February 2007: You really liked this girl, she was like your first love, you spent a long time together even although a lot of the time you worked away but there was obviously a deep connection. Now you're older and more mature, you can see where it went wrong. ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity but sex bores me!!!
Q. Hello. I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend of a couple of months. The first time we had sex, I didn't feel a thing. I faked that I liked it but I really didn't. I finally told him the truth and from then on we've been trying everything. I ...
A. 21 February 2007: Okay first of all you're far too young to be having sex! The reason you didn't enjoy it was because you're not ready for that kind of relationship. It meant nothing to you because you didn't have feelings for the guy. I hope you used ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told he he'd went out with another woman, I called him to talk about this and a WOMAN picked up! What do I say to him?
Q. On V-day my b/f and i didn't do anything because I had to work, but he called me in the morning and sent me flowers and a card. Then the next day I went to his apartment and he told me the worst news ever. He went out with another girl. He swears up ...
A. 21 February 2007: You need to be strong here and keep it all together. Don't break down in front of him if it kills you. Tell him you need to speak with him (face to face), then when he least expects it... ASK HIM OUTRIGHT! "Who was the woman who picked up the ... (read in full...)
Can a guy that has cheated in the past and promised before God to turn a new leaf, hold his urge to cheat again?
Q. Can a guy that has cheated in the past and promised before God to turn a new leaf, hold his urge to cheat again? I ask because i have a very pretty gf and she comes over all the time. I know she's attractive so im sure my husband must think so too. ...
A. 21 February 2007: This is where trust comes into a relationship. There are lots of beautiful people on this earth, whether it is your friend or seeing someone on the street, if he really loves you and respects you then he wouldn't be interested if it was put there ... (read in full...)
I think I feel jealous as my girlfriend's had more 'experience' than I have.
Q. i just wanted to know,i've just got my first gf. i've been with her for nearly 3 months now. i'm her longest relationship so far and we're both virgins. one night me and her went out for a meal and she started telling me about a few other guys she ...
A. 21 February 2007: Hey don't worry about it at all. You really like her and the thought of her kissing someone else made you feel a bit jealous. That was all in the past though, she's with YOU now! She has never slept with any of these guys which is even better. ... (read in full...)
He wants to break up with her and be with me but he's grown so fond of her children (they're not his)
Q. This guy I've liked for so many years and he wants to leave his current girlfriend due to many arguements which i know about. We have spoken and he wants to be with me and his son but the problem is that the woman has two children which he is very ...
A. 21 February 2007: Tell him how you feel about him but it is entirely up to him whether or not he feels he can leave her if he feels so attached to her children. Don't pressure him here one way or the other. It's got to be HIS decision. Tell him you'll give him ... (read in full...)
Please define "the marrying type?"
Q. i was recently talking to a friend and she said she was no longer engaged as her bloke admitted he wasnt the marrying type,what is the marrying type exactly?as im a little puzzled...
A. 21 February 2007: Someone who is the "marrying type", has maybe played the field and sown his/her wild oats and now wants to settle down with one special person and be committed to them and only them. They want the responsibility of living with a significant other ... (read in full...)
I like this guy, we pulled, then he pulls my friend, now I think he likes her more than me? Please help!
Q. Hiya Guys ... Im 14 but need some boy advice ... why are they so confusing? The story so far ... i like this boy ... he says he likes me 2 ... theres a party, we pull and then he pulls my friend and then me again without telling me he had pulled ...
A. 21 February 2007: First of all you don't love this boy, you can't possibly love him knowing him so short a time. Secondly, you shouldn't have been so "easy" letting him touch you so intimately so quickly. Have some respect for yourself! He probably preferred your ... (read in full...)
How do I get over jealousy?
Q. how to get over jealousy??????...
A. 21 February 2007: Feelings such as jealousy are based on fear and do not come from love at all, we say we feel like this BECAUSE we love the person but this isn't the case at all. Jealousy comes from wanting to possess and wanting to own or have. One cannot own ... (read in full...)
I just want to be left alone by everyone except my husband, I don't feel like this all the time but I do sometimes. Am I abnormal for feeling like this?
Q. Hello everyone - I'm not sure if it's just because of my personality or if it's deeper than that, but sometimes I find that I just want to be left alone by everyone except for my husband. Like sometimes I feel it's a chore to talk to my friends and ...
A. 20 February 2007: Okay, first of all I want to ask you some questions, then I want you to get back to me if anything I have asked rings true or strikes a chord with you okay? Read them carefully and answer TRUTHFULLY...
Has anything traumatic ever happened in your ... (read in full...)
I feel ugly and insecure about myself. How can I stop feeling this way?
Q. Lately, I have been thinking about this guy who I had a fling with a few months ago. I can't seem to get over him. I thought I could get over him by finding someone else...but I can't find anyone else. This makes me feel ugly and insecure about my...
A. 20 February 2007: Hey there's more to life then guys! And I'm sure you are a lovely person and good looking with it, it's just all in your head. Have a good look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself what you would like to change. Set yourself a timetable ... (read in full...)
Do you think my daughter is really in love with this boy?
Q. Hello. My daughter is 17 and she has a boyfriend. I think they have been together for around 2 months now. I am really not sure how teenagers act when they are in love but I think she may be falling in love with this boy. She is always asking if...
A. 20 February 2007: They have known each other for almost 2 months so they are obviously very much in the "honeymoon" period of their relationship. They are spending as much time as they can with one another, getting to know one another and finding out that hormones ... (read in full...)
What do guys in their mid-30s want in a girl??
Q. I really like this older guy a lot. I think I know he digs me too, but I do not know how to make a move. He is like 7-10 years my senior and we don’t have too much stuff in common. What do early to mid 30 year old guys want in a girl? What do the ...
A. 20 February 2007: How do you know you don't have much in common? Have you spoken with him before or is it just because he's a bit older than you are? Some guys in their mid 30's are looking for their perfect woman to settle down with, others are enjoying just ... (read in full...)
I've been with my girlfriend 2 years now and she's scared to have penetrative sex with me in case it hurts, any advice would be truly appreciated.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 and a half years now. We've had our highs and lows, but we have a really strong connection, and I do love her and I know she loves me. However, one issue I think it starting to put us at a distance. We ...
A. 20 February 2007: Having penetrative sex can be painful for some women and can be painless for others. If you feel you are both ready to have sex for the first time you can help your girlfriend by stretching the hymen (thin skin that stretches over the opening of ... (read in full...)
He's 18 but finds it hard to maintain an erection.
Q. I am 20 and my boyfriend of six months is 18. we started off having great sex even though he was a virgin. However, now once hes got an erection, its a fight against time to penetrate me before he loses it. Once inside me it goes soft. i know this ...
A. 20 February 2007: I wouldn't worry about it too much, I think he's very nervous and probably feels your disappointment when he can't hold an erection and the more he thinks about it the more anxious he's becoming, hence the reason for him going flacid on you. Give ... (read in full...)
My jealousy drove him away, how can I get him back?
Q. I was seeing someone up until recently...when we were together, it was completely amazing, and we both agreed that we had this brilliant connection. Id had bad relationship experiences in the past, being led up the garden path and such, and I knew ...
A. 20 February 2007: I would send him a card and tell him he's right, you have been stupid and selfish and jealous because of the distance. Let him know that you realise that now and you trust him more than anything else. You also love him very much and miss him so ... (read in full...)
Why can't I shake these feelings of doubt?
Q. I'm an 18 year old high school student, and I know it seems semi-juvenile for me to be acting this way, but I can't shake it, and I've tried everything. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year (one year exactly in May.) and although...
A. 20 February 2007: Because she doesn't see her friends as often she IS excited when they hang out. Doesn't mean she's cheating on you though. When she tells you things she'll get the vibes that you're not that interested, even a bit jealous so she's only toning ... (read in full...)
My fiance told me he had sex with a prostitute just before he met me. It really bothers me that he did this. Should I forget about it?
Q. My fiance told me he had sex twice with a prostitute just before he met me. This makes me sick to my stomach - but it was before we met. I believe he would not ever cheat on me but it still bothers me that he did this. Should I let it ruin our ...
A. 20 February 2007: I'm sure he didn't need to go to a prostitute, he could have had some one night stands and used some poor woman for his own selfish reasons but he didn't! He did the mature thing, and had a no strings "session" twice with a prostitute. He loves ... (read in full...)
What exactly did he mean be saying he was "flattered" and do you think he likes me?
Q. i asked a man out and he said he is really flattered, and yes he is sure we will go for a drink when a certain situation is over in a couple of months could you please explain what flattered means and do you think that he likes me that way ? thanks...
A. 20 February 2007: Now that you have explained the situation regarding why he has to wait before going out with you then it all makes perfect sense. He does like you and he is flattered (took it as a compliment) that you asked him out. I'm sure he'll keep to his ... (read in full...)
I have a serious crush, how do I get over it? I can't eat or sleep or anything.
Q. i went recently bumped into a really famous asian rapper, i took picture with him and spoke to him he even hugged me!!! well ever since ive met him i cant sleep or eat or do nothing, hes always on my mind...i know this is really stupid cos hes like ...
A. 20 February 2007: Everyone who is anyone has had a crush at one time in their lives. They are a normal part of growing up. YOU are growing up, your hormones are going overboard just now and you're infatuated with him. Here is a link all about crushes and how to ... (read in full...)
Is he being totally honest with me or should I be worried?
Q. I met this guy 1.5 years ago, he was on a dating site and we wrote to each other. He is very well off and has his own buisness. We ended up living together after only 4 months of getting to know each other. (which is very unsual for me to do this) I ...
A. 20 February 2007: If you are in constant touch with him I really don't think you have anything to worry about here. If he didn't have any intentions of coming back or if he was cheating on you I don't think he would continue with his responsibilities to you. The ... (read in full...)
After 6 months of marriage my husband has asked for time out to clear his head! I'm so hurt, I don't think I have any tears left...
Q. Hi, after serious discussion and after just 6 months of marriage, my husband has decided there is something wrong in our relationship and wants a break to see if he can clear his head, he moved out last night, i also felt that there was something ...
A. 19 February 2007: Don't blame yourself here, it takes TWO for a relationship not to work properly. All you can do is give him his space to sort his head out.
So let's think of the reasons... it could be, he's seeing someone else and he doesn't know how to tell ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're in love?
Q. how do you know when ur in love???...
A. 19 February 2007: To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love" with them but of course this can't be, they love the idea of who they are but if they've never met them then it's just ... (read in full...)
I am an extremely jealous person, how can I change?
Q. I have had this problem for a while, and I think it's time I do something about it. I, am an EXTREMELY jealous person. Now, I am not one for blaming others for my own problems, but I always thought my past had a big part in this. I have only had one ...
A. 19 February 2007: First of all can I say congratulations and well done on leaving your abusive ex, you certainly did the right thing there. Your new man sounds lovely too and I can see how you feel a bit paranoid about him watching other women even on TV and how you ... (read in full...)
Help!!!! I really don't know what to do here.
Q. Ok i have this guy friend that i have of course fallen for. A few months back like back in november i was talking to his bestfriend about how i like his friend. Anyways he asked his friend i guess if he liked me or something all that line..........
A. 19 February 2007: The next time he calls you, TELL him you like him. He used to want you to be friends only but it sounds as if he wants to be more than just friends with you now and he's too nervous to ask in case you turn him down. Take the initiative her and ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I move on?
Q. hi..i need help plz guys..i just broked up with my bf. last year we went out for very short time but i did liked him then he said lets just be friends then, i said ok but i wasn't happy and now i still like him i havent moved on yet can someone help ...
A. 19 February 2007: It's always difficult when a relationship breaks up but you're young and there's plenty more men out there who will love you and make you feel good. You'll probably have a few more relationships before you finally settle down, it happens to us all ... (read in full...)
I have acted like an idiot, should I text him back and tell him I'm sorry?
Q. Hi, I wonder if you might give me some advice as Ive acted really foolishly over a guy and feel so bad about it. In December I had a one night fling with a married friend of mine who Ive known for a long time. We both knew it was wrong and afterw...
A. 19 February 2007: The man used you to sleep with but he doesn't want his wife to know about it and doesn't want anything more to do with you. He doesn't want to get involved with you at all, hence the reason he's not replying. DON'T text him back again, you've made ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend of 5 years but am very attracted to this other guy. What should I do?
Q. i have a boyfriend of 5 years. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago and i really like him and he likes me. i get feelings for him that i never get with my current boyfriend. he makes me laugh what shall i do or is this just lust? help...
A. 19 February 2007: If you're starting to have feelings for another man then what you have with your boyfriend isn't love but habit! You really need to re-evaluate your feelings and what you have with your current boyfriend. Things seem to be a bit stale, stagnant ... (read in full...)
Do you think we should split up or work this out?
Q. the other day my boyfriend said he didn't think he was ready for a long term relationship after 2 and a half years, and ive recently found messages from another girl on his phone saying that they miss each other etc. ive suggested that we dont split ...
A. 19 February 2007: I definitely don't think it's a good idea to have an open relationship, it will only end in resentment for the other person and a tremendous amount of hurt and feelings of worthlessness. He's seeing someone else, he's hinted at you that he doesn't ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be hurt again, should I text him or just leave it?
Q. Theres a lad I fancy loads and I dont know how he feels for me. I slept with him 6 months ago, just as a one night stand, and every time I have seen him since then we have both been drunk and end up kissing. We get on really well when we see each ...
A. 19 February 2007: If he liked you enough to want to be in a relationship with you he'd definitely call you! What he's looking for is another one night stand. He's all over you when he's drunk but can't (or doesn't want to) call you when he's sober.
Forge... (read in full...)
Should I give it a go with him, I think he may be too clingy and I don't want to hurt him
Q. Hi Cupids, I do not have a clue what is up with me. I really liked a guy for some time back when I was at uni, about 5 years ago, we went on a couple of dates but nothing serious came of it as I really enjoyed going out having fun and neither ...
A. 19 February 2007: You seen this man as a challenge, now that you know he's smitten with you, the challenge has gone! I would tell him you like and respect him as a person but you don't want to have another serious relationship with ANYONE at the moment. If you feel ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)
Is he still holding out for this female friend or am I still in with a chance?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about two months now. He lives about 2 hours away, so we've went out about 6 times. He's quite shy, especially at first, and has only had one girlfriend who broke up with him 3 years ago. After the first date, he was ...
A. 17 February 2007: You have scared him off when you said you thought kissing was making a commitment to you. Just the very word "commitment" to some guys makes them want to run a mile. Next time he brings up this "friend," ask him how he feels about her. Tell him ... (read in full...)
she is the one and I hate myself for being who I was how can I prove it??
Q. Right where do i start im martin 34 and my girlfriend ended the relationship nearly 3 weeks ago now. She ended it because she didnt trust me and i lied about so many things. firstly i lied about having a job i had lost it but didnt tell i had los...
A. 13 February 2007: First of all can I say WELL DONE to you. First of all you've admitted you have a problem and secondly you're already going to counselling for it. That in itself would have been a big step for you but you did it. In time you'll be able to get over ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)
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