Is this guy really into me or is he just wasting my time?
Q. hi i'm just wondering if this guy is even into me or not or am i just wasting my time.he calls and talks to me all time but i have only seen him once in a month and the two other times i was supposed to see him it did not happen the problem is i'm ...
A. 12 April 2007: Well he calls you all the time so that would suggest that he is interested in you. I would think that if he was not interested then he wouldn't be the one calling you. But... he also could be calling you as a friend. It is hard to tell without ... (read in full...)
Some woman my guy knew is calling me and harrassing us...how do I deal with the stress?
Q. I'm new and not sure how to post. I have a problem and need help bad, so I’m going to write to you. December 9th of 07 I met my boyfriend online. This man was calling me 4, 5 and sometimes 7 times a day to chat. Then 3 times in the past four months ...
A. 12 April 2007: He might have told his sister in spanish to be quiet about moving to Florida because he knew that the conversation would upset you and he didn't want to discuss it. It might not have been a big deal. If he loves you then he probablly isn't ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and unhappy with the way my bf treats me! What should I do?
Q. Hi I don't know if I am over reacting but my boyfriend is really bugging me 'cause he keeps sending messages to his ex, it's nothing flirty but it bothers me 'cause I am pregnant right now and he keeps on calling her Aunt Sara and things in the ...
A. 12 April 2007: You might be over reacting a little because you are pregnant and your hormones are out of whack. Things that normally wouldn't bother you might seem like a bigger deal to you now. I think that your boyfriend is excited about becoming a dad and he ... (read in full...)
Some woman my guy knew is calling me and harrassing us...how do I deal with the stress?
Q. I'm new and not sure how to post. I have a problem and need help bad, so I’m going to write to you. December 9th of 07 I met my boyfriend online. This man was calling me 4, 5 and sometimes 7 times a day to chat. Then 3 times in the past four months ...
A. 10 April 2007: You have to stop answreing her calls. She is a stalker and she is trying as hard as she can to break the two of you up and it sounds like it is starting to work. If you want the relationship to work then you have to form your own opinions about ... (read in full...)
His best female friend is now single.....is he going to feel differently towards her now?
Q. Hi, Im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months, we have a really good relationship and i am really happy with him. Recently however, his best female friend has just split up with her boyfriend (I believe they were together for a g...
A. 10 April 2007: Rule of thumb that I use to make sure that I stay faithful is to not allow myself to be alone with someone of the opposite sex just because temptation does happen. If he is going out with her and a group of other friends you have to be able to ... (read in full...)
Do you bleed the first time?
Q. I'm a virgin and what i'd like to know is if you definetly bleed the first time you have sex? And also if you bleed still when you've broke your virginity? Thanks...
A. 10 April 2007: I didn't bleed my first time until afterwards when I went to the bathroom there was a little bit of blood when I wiped but that is all. Maybie I am just a rare case or something ;)... (read in full...)
He says he never wants to see me again because I lied to him! But I was afraid to lose him if I told him the truth! What should I do?
Q. ive been romantically involved with a man on and off for 5 years.he doesnt want a commitment yet says im one of his best friends. ive accepted that because i love him so much ill take anything i can get from him recently he had suspicions i was ...
A. 29 March 2007: You told him that he asked you out (which is more than I would have done in an "open" relationship). You don't have to give him all the details about your relationships if you are not committed. If he is getting jealous about this guy calling you, ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me and I feel the trust will never come back into our relationship... Any advice here?
Q. My wife had an affair 2 years ago. She lied that she was going to her sister's house, but went to the hotel with someone else several times. We have since tried to reconcile, and are doing marriage counseling trying to save what's left of our ...
A. 8 March 2007: Don't stay together because of the kids. If you can not look at her the same because of what she did to you & if you know deep down in your heart that you can not truly forgive her for cheating on you, then you need to divorce her. You shouldn't ... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling for my ex's best mate!!!
Q. i need some advice i think im falling for my exs best mate and i dont know what to do even before i got with ma ex also ma lil boys dad i knew there was some kinda feelings i had for jay, rob only became mates with jay bout 6months after we got ...
A. 8 March 2007: You are going to have to write this in english or spell correctly. I can't understand what you are saying at all.... (read in full...)
I want to go out with her and I really like her but I can't have my friends finding out! What should I do?
Q. Hi...I like this girl and i know she likes me (that way) and i want to go for it with her...but i dont want the people at school and my friends to know about it....i just cant be dealing with that right now..and i dont want to ask her not to tell ...
A. 2 March 2007: Why do you want it kept a secret? I think she would be hurt if you tell her not to tell anyone.... (read in full...)
She's only using him so should I let the new guy know shes dating know exactly whats shes like ??
Q. Hi, I hope you would be able help me with this, I separated from the partner of two years, never had a chance to talk things over proper, as she never gave me chance. I thought we had something special between us, but soon I realize how wron...
A. 2 March 2007: I don't think that you need to talk to her or her boyfriend. You should just try & move on. If you happen to run into them, then just walk by them. If she used you in the past, she could try & use you more. Just let her go. It'll be worth it in ... (read in full...)
What is this clear liquid from my sore breasts?
Q. I had my last child thirteen years ago and my breast milk stopped a while after. I was then sterilised. But today my breast had a little clear liquid come out when i was checing for lumps. They are sore too and have become larger. Can you help ...
A. 28 February 2007: You need to go see a professional to have this checked thoroughly. You will need a mammogram, sonogram, good breast examination and possibly a biopsy. ... (read in full...)
I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.
Q. I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know ...
A. 27 February 2007: I don't think that is mentally cheating. I think that is just cheating! Don't put up with it. If I were you I would talk to your husband and give him the option to end communication with her, or you are leaving him. If he says he will end it ... (read in full...)
He stares at me then turns away as if he's afraid. What will I do?
Q. i like this boy and i told his best friend to tell him. he said he liked me a little but all he does when he sees me in the hall way is stare at me and then he just turns away like he's afarid. what should i do?????? ...
A. 27 February 2007: Seems like he is just shy. Take the initiative & go talk to him. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why do I find it impossible to ask anyone out?
Q. Dear Cupid, I find it completely impossible to ask anyone out. even if I am alone with them and chatting about stuff I just don't seem to be able to ask them. do you have any advice?...
A. 27 February 2007: It would be easier to start by asking them if they want to go out with a group of friends first. It'll be easier to ask once you have been out. Plus you can get to know them better. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Why do I find it impossible to ask anyone out?
Q. Dear Cupid, I find it completely impossible to ask anyone out. even if I am alone with them and chatting about stuff I just don't seem to be able to ask them. do you have any advice?...
A. 27 February 2007: Maybe it would be easier if you asked if he/she would like to go out with a group of you first. Go out bowling or do something fun. That will allow you to get to know him/her better & it'll be easier to ask him/her to go out again. The more that ... (read in full...)
When meeting guys in the future, do you think there is anything wrong with 'not' telling them about past sexual experiences?
Q. Hi everyone I've recently lost a partner because he couldnt deal with the number of one night stands I had (4) before meeting him. When meeting guys in the future, do you think there is anything wrong with NOT telling them about that stuff (i...
A. 26 February 2007: I would say don't tell unless you are asked & if you are asked then say as little as possible. I would start with saying "it doesn't matter" the first couple times he asked. (Especially if you haven't been with them long)... (read in full...)
How can I stop masturbating? This is really serious!
Q. Im 39yrs old and a virgin, my problem is i masturbate a lot, 3/4 times a day sometimes it can be more to the point im sore, anyway reason im posting here is i need advice, i have a major problem which is scaring me and upsetting friends or losing ...
A. 24 February 2007: First of all, you should ground yourself from world of warcraft until you have this problem solved because you are totally right about the child thing. Now that you are aware of it, don't do it. Stay away from strip clubs, unplug your computer, ... (read in full...)
I love him but hearing about dirty past has changed me! How do I cope?
Q. i love my boyfriend of a year v.much,but he recently divulged his past to me. he slept with a woman who was a complete whore nd indulged her rough forced sex fantasies. i cant get these filthy images out of my head. its destroying our sex life and ...
A. 24 February 2007: Try not to let it bother you. It happened before he was with you. Also, guys exaggerate. For all you know he could have had a one night stand & she didn't call the next day. You never know... Seriously, just try & move past it. You have been ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to give a gift card to someone instead of an actual gift?
Q. Hi..I wanted to ask if giving a gift card instead of an actual gift is considered good form. Because, in my opinion, it is very impersonal and shows that you couldn't be bothered enough to take the time to put some thought into getting the person ...
A. 24 February 2007: I think kids like opening alot of gifts at least until they are around 8. Then they like buying their own stuff, and picking it out, so gift cards are good up until 16. And adults are all different. I just ask them what they want. I don't get ... (read in full...)
Is it normal still to have feelings for your first love, even when you're married?
Q. I am 26 years old and have been married for 3 years. I love my husband very much and never want to be without him, but I am feeling very guilty and confused. I recently ran into my high school boyfriend/first love and found myself thinking about ...
A. 24 February 2007: I think that it is wrong if your husband doesn't know about it. I think that if you feel that you have to hide it from your husband, then you have other intentions with your ex that you really should not pursue. I think that contacting him at this ... (read in full...)
I think about sex all day long! Is this normal and are there any other women out there like me?
Q. Do other women really think about sex ALL day long? I do and want to know if it's normal. I pretty much see something sexual in Everything! I swear i'm like a guy just thinking 'bout sex all day long. Any other women out there like me? ...
A. 24 February 2007: If you think that you have a problem you can have a few kids, get married, get a couple of jobs, & buy a house, and maybie get a cat, & a couple of dogs. Well, that is going a tad overboard, but as life goes on... it'll fade away. Well, not ... (read in full...)
After puking in my car, my ex told me 'he loved me' but was drunk! I want him back..what can I do?
Q. i split with ex 10mths ago and have slept with him twice. I saw him 2nights ago when there was a leaving party. I didn't drink. I spoke to him and said i was sick of the way he treated me. I was better than him and I won't ever let anyone treat me ...
A. 24 February 2007: Can you get him back... I guess the question is do you want him back? Are you sick of the way he treated you? Do you want to continue being treated that way? Of cource not, so I'd have to agree with India on this one. Take your car in to get ... (read in full...)
What does EMPHAZIMAR mean?
Q. Hi Do you know what E M P H A Z I M A R means Is it spelt right?...
A. 24 February 2007: Do you mean emphazima? That is a disease of the lung tissue caused by smoking where you have trouble breathing.... (read in full...)
She's getting married! I can't even imagine a future without her. Is there anything I can do to bring her back??
Q. I'm in love with a girl who was mine up until 8 months ago. At that time, because I was already in a relationship which is now ending - and because I was only in her town occasionally - she met a guy there and decided that she needed someone who was ...
A. 23 February 2007: It was wrong for her to continue giving you the hope that she wants to be with you by continuing to sleep with you while she was in a relationship. I think that you need to refuse to sleep with her any longer because she is going to get married. ... (read in full...)
I like this guy as a friend but I feel he's coming on too strong, what should I do?
Q. I am 17 turning 18 in a couple of months and this week I started my degree at university. This week was all just intro sorta stuff so eveyrone could get to know each other. This random guy who is doing the same degree as me came up to me and started ...
A. 23 February 2007: The friend that moved told you to move on, so you should try to get him out of your head & think about this new guy. It sounds to me that you get along with him good if you can open up around him & you seemed to have fun on your first date. I ... (read in full...)
I ended up having sex with my flirty roomate even though he has a girlfriend! I've been thinking about him ever since. What do I do?
Q. My roommate and I have always had a friendly and flirtatious relationship, as I do with my other male roommate. I've found him attractive, but put this out of my mind, because we lived together and he had a girlfriend. Than, one day about 3 weeks ...
A. 23 February 2007: Well, you can't be with him because as you stated, he has a girlfriend. So, all you can do is be his friend. Who knows, something might happen in the future for you, but as for now, he is taken & you have to respect that. Next time that he tells ... (read in full...)
I was going to have my first lesbian experience when...something terrible happened. Please help!
Q. Dear cupid, I'm 18 and a very unfortunate thing has happened to me and I need your kind words to get me through it all. (I am in tears as I write this). I am bi-curious and I wanted to turn my fantassy into a reality. I met a woman on the internet...
A. 23 February 2007: How do you know that she was talking about you? You might want to make sure before sending her that email. You stated in your email that she seemed sympathetic & understanding. You might want to just ask her about it first in case she wasn't ... (read in full...)
My hubby worships his ex and I feel threatened! Should I contact her?
Q. My husband has an ex that he worshipped. Even though we've been married for years, I still feel threatened by her. I found her profile on myspace. Why would I want to contact her and should I?...
A. 22 February 2007: Is there any reason for you to be having these feelings now after being married for so many years? I am trying to understand why you are thinking about his ex now. Does he still keep in contact with her or something? Do you feel he may be ... (read in full...)
I like him as a friend but he wants to marry me! Should I just move on?
Q. Hi all, I'm currently in university and have run into a "relationship" problem. One of my guy friends has told me he loves me and that he wants me to be his girlfriend. This is good and all, however, I don't really have feelings for him. This is...
A. 22 February 2007: You shouldn't be with someone that you don't have feelings for. Just tell him you want to stay friends.... (read in full...)
Broken up but she still loves me!!
Q. Im writing is as I am in need of help and advice ASAP Basically me and my girl split up 2 weeks ago. We've been together for nearly 3 years, in that time we have split up 3 times. I truley love her and am certain she loves me. Up until a week bef...
A. 22 February 2007: I would suggest that you stop telling her that you love her & miss her. I think that if she wants a break, then you should give her one. If you continue to hold hands and have sex & tell eachother how much that you want to be with eachother, then ... (read in full...)
I think my ex has a brother I was never told about. I want to know for my son's sake. I don't want to upset anyone, so what should I do?
Q. I was looking into my ex husband's family tree for my son. I found a photograph of a teenage boy with the exact same surname as my ex husband and looking like him exactly. The looks are very distinctive and singular. My son thought it was h...
A. 21 February 2007: Why don't you just ask your ex-husband? Tell him you are working on a family tree...... (read in full...)
I'm very ill and I'm sick all the time. I can't hold any food down. What's wrong with me?!!
Q. I dont think Im normal Because over the past 3 months , I have felt sick every day. Im only 14 and I get all shaky and cold and I go all pale. Also I get really bad coughing fits. When i start coughing , I cant stop until Im Sick. I havent been to ...
A. 20 February 2007: You need to tell your mom to take you to the doctor. I don't know why she is mad about you missing school. You are sick. If she wants you in school so bad, she should try to get you some medical attention so that you are well enough to go back. ... (read in full...)
I may have kissed my friend's bf, but nobody clearly remembers! How can I make it up to her?
Q. My parents went away at the weekend, so I had a party. I definately had too much to drink and did some stupid things. Most dont bother me, but I only found out today (3 days later) that I may have kissed my friend's boyfriend. I dont remember it nor ...
A. 20 February 2007: Just deny it. If you don't remember anything happening, then it probably didn't happen. If it did, well... you were drunk. Just don't tell people that you don't remember. Stick to telling everyone that nothing happened. If something did happen, ... (read in full...)
Would it be weird to hook-up??
Q. My aunt, who married my mothers brother so she isnt related to me by blood, has a lot of nieces and nephews. Now, they all live pretty far away, about 10 hours from where I live in Australia. I actually just met a lot them about 2 weeks ago. The ...
A. 20 February 2007: Yes, it would be fine. You have nothing to worry about. ;)... (read in full...)
It went so well and now nothing!!
Q. Hello My names Dan and i have been seeing this girl recently, shes 17 and im 18, she goes to college and i work for a courier company in the offices. I met the girl called Sarah at christmas time, we both met at a mates party, we was both complet...
A. 20 February 2007: You keep saying that the dates are going bad, but she keeps going out with you, so they can't be going too bad. Maybe you need to just gain some confidence in yourself. It has only been 3 days since you have seen her. Have you tried talking to ... (read in full...)
My fiancee was caught kissing and cuddling another women!!
Q. Hi Dear, My fiancee was caught with another woman cuddling and kissing each other by my friend and her husband in a night club,she alerted me immediately and when i confronted him he denied and decided to stop communicating with me.He only called m...
A. 20 February 2007: Good thing that you didn't get married & then find out he was cheating. Looks like he has moved on & it is time for you to move on as well. I'd suggest that you pawn that engagement ring & go to the spa! Get a nice back rub from a sexy man & ... (read in full...)
I like my boyfriend's friend but when I told him he continued as if nothing happened. Now he treats me indifferently and I don't know what to think. Advice?
Q. i live with my boyfriend of over year we have five kids between us 3 are his 2 are mine.after about three months of us going out i met his friend i instantly started to like him but ignored my feelings as i thought they would fizzle out and i did ...
A. 20 February 2007: The relationship will not work out with your boyfriends friend. When you told him you were interested, his responce to you was perfect... You should not be thinking things like that. He is your boyfriends friend and he is spoken for. He is a ... (read in full...)
He's too tall for me to kiss him! What should I do?
Q. hi i really wanna kiss my bf! but how? he is about a head taller than me so i cant just go for it cos he is too tall. even if i reach up on tip toes i wouldnt be able to reach to kiss him. we havent kissed yet. how do i make the move and kiss hi...
A. 20 February 2007: If you want to kiss him while you are standing up then just put your hand on the back of his neck, look into his eyes, and smile. Maybie rub his neck, or wrap your arms around him. He will get the message and bend his head down and kiss you.... (read in full...)
He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!
Q. hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...
A. 20 February 2007: I don't think that you should call him. You shouldn't chase after a guy who hit you. I wouldn't go back to someone if I ever got hit. Even if it was only once, but I can't tell you what to do, it is your decision. It sounds like you are still ... (read in full...)
He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!
Q. hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...
A. 20 February 2007: I don't think that you should call him. You shouldn't chase after a guy who hit you. I wouldn't go back to someone if I ever got hit. Even if it was only once, but I can't tell you what to do, it is your decision. It sounds like you are still ... (read in full...)
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