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How do I get all the trouble with my ex to stop and start getting over her?

Q.   So me and my now ex-gf have been going through a pretty ugly split. We argue and insult each other and try to sabotage each others self-esteem. She was bad to me during the relationship and now even when Im trying to get out of it she still torments ...

A.   17 July 2009: you know to talk with her , you are doing no favours to each other by being nasty and its only going to cause more pain, why put up with that? walk away with your head held high, tell her to please stop getting in touch and stirring things with your ... (read in full...)

I want to get out of this relationship, yet I am terribly scared!

Q.   I am way to attached to my boyfriend for my own good. We hang out almost everyday, I automatically clear my schedule for him, and I don't make forsure plans with anybody incase he calls. When he doesn't call me, I get really paranoid and I w...

A.   10 July 2009: Hi i think because of your age, you havent learnt your own independence and nor has he. I think that the reason you are holding on to your boyfriend is because you fear that you will end up depressed! I think that you will be fine, your still ... (read in full...)

Can I win her back or is it too late?

Q.   im 30yrs of age been in a 5yr relationship with a girl who means the world to me we lived togeather ive got a 6 yr old boy by a previous relationship which wasnt a problem to her she accepted him and was like a mum to him every thing been good with ...

A.   5 July 2009: i am in a similar situation although i didnt cheat on my ex just didnt treat him so well. I think she has given you the chances she could and finally doesnt want to be treated that way any more. She probably needs time to reassess the relationship ... (read in full...)

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