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"If we open our hearts-to the world, to those around us, and to ourselves-then we can be hurt, but then we can also grow"
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I'm not happy in my marriage and don't know whether to stay or leave...
Q. I have been married almost 5 years but we have been together for 10, we have a child together. Lately I am just not happy with anything in our reletionship he tries really hard, but he just talks to me and I roll my eyes, I never want to have sex ...
A. 18 March 2007: I don’t know the exact reason why you feel unhappy knowing that your husband is reaching out to you as best as he could. Whatever is the basis of such emotions, I’ll respect it. Yet let me share something...
Love is not based on feelings alone. T... (read in full...)
Do you think he will ever get over this and will he ever trust me again?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for about six months now, but on xmas eve last year I kissed another lad who I work with. I like this other lad a lot but love my boyfriend and would never cheat on him again and since xmas eve our relationship has ...
A. 17 March 2007: I am very sorry to hear what you are going through.Men in nature do not want others, especially us females, to step on their egos. I believe you've hurt his ego that's why he was acting that way. We could not tell when he will be ok completely. ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do for the best here, stay together or break up?
Q. I want to go back out with him but I'm afraid that we are just going to keep breaking up. we've been going off and on for about 2 years and I've asked you several questions before and the answers really helped! Anyway should I just go back out with...
A. 17 March 2007: For two years, you’ve been on and off initiated by silly arguments. Still, congratulations! Why? Don’t you realize how this relationship is precious for the two of you? From your statements, you still like each other very much until now despite the ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him, do you think he's angry with me?
Q. Dear Cupid, A few days ago, my crush (whom I have been deeply in love with for the past two years...no, not just puppy love...I felt for him like I've never felt for anyone else in my entire life) was basically forced against his will to move to ...
A. 16 March 2007: He is definitely not angry because you havent been doing anything that would make him feel that way. He might not be talking to you because of the poem, your profession of love, which he just read and definitely understood. I am not saying that it's ... (read in full...)
Is a man-women relationship always about sex?
Q. Is a man-women relationship always about sex? If not, why at every other time I try to get to know a girl closely do they pressurize me to enter into something sexual? ...
A. 16 March 2007: I have male friends who talk about themselves being the ones who get agressive first. Now, your case is different because girls make the first move. Interesting. Now let me say something about the importance of sexual intercourse in a relationship. ... (read in full...)
Any ideas why I always feel ill??
Q. Hi, I have a problem. I recently moved schools and I'm loving it, but at my old school I used to have really bad attendance and I wanted that to change at my new school. I'm really trying but I constantly feel ill and I think my parents think I fake ...
A. 14 March 2007: If your illness is associated with constant tiredness,then maybe there is lack of "iron" in your body and could be having iron deficiency syndrome. To be sure, visit your doctor for consultation.... (read in full...)
Now he tells me that I am leading him on, should I change how I act around him?
Q. i am currently in a relationship, but on saturday my best friend told me he truely loves me. i am unsure of my feelings towards him, i do love him and more than a friend but i love my partner. wot should i do? we were kissing each other on saturday...
A. 13 March 2007: First, give yourself some time to decide whether you would still continue your relationship with your guy or have someone new, your bestfriend. Girl, it is not always easy to detach yourself from something you are most likely getting pleasure from. ... (read in full...)
How often do women think of their past sexual partners?
Q. I have general questions for women. How often do women think of their past sexual partners? I'm curious because my girlfriend seems to bring up(in converstaion) people she has slept with at random moments. ...
A. 9 March 2007: Honestly, I have no enough knowledge on this but as a female who finds your question quite interesting, here's my opinion about it:
How often do we think about our past relationships? Well, as long as we want to talk about them because we are t... (read in full...)
He wants me to send him naughty pics but I don't want to, I don't feel comfortable with it, what should I do?
Q. guys..my bf wants me 2 send him naughty pics. i trust him sooo much but i'm not ready 2 do that jus yet. its not that i feel uncomfortable cos of him.. i just think its kinda gross.but he has sent me stuff and is expecting me to send him. this...
A. 9 March 2007: I'm glad to hear that both of you are now ok. See? Now you know that he really loves you and he did not actually mean to offend you having that request. It only shows that COMMUNICATION matters in a relationship. Sometimes, men cannot read between ... (read in full...)
He wants me to send him naughty pics but I don't want to, I don't feel comfortable with it, what should I do?
Q. guys..my bf wants me 2 send him naughty pics. i trust him sooo much but i'm not ready 2 do that jus yet. its not that i feel uncomfortable cos of him.. i just think its kinda gross.but he has sent me stuff and is expecting me to send him. this...
A. 9 March 2007: Giving him naughty pics means you are submitting to his commands and this will only give him an idea that you are also enjoying this kind of stuff. If you will be providing him such pics, what comes next might be that your boyfriend will ask you to ... (read in full...)
Im 13, would it be okay to ask a boy out or should I wait for him to ask me ?
Q. i am thirteen and i like a boy in my year my friends say he likes me because he flirts and looks at me a lot is it ok to ask a boy out or should i wait for him to ask me out? ...
A. 4 March 2007: If you think that asking him for a serious date for the two of you makes you anxious, then why not set up a group date? In this way, you and your friends will know him better and can even lead to MORE dates as you get along with him. For your age, ... (read in full...)
I was forced to have sex with this boy, my friend now doesnt want to know me, and I feel I have no one to talk to!!!
Q. i feel as if i am alone i have no one to talk to i am due to go to counselling in a few weeks i feel as if i cant go through with pretending everythings ok when its not. i was forced to have sex with a boy. my best friend tried to help me but ...
A. 4 March 2007: Since things have been very difficult for you knowing that a close friend of yours does not want to talk to you anymore about this, it is time to ask an urgent help from a guidance counselor in your school or from "someone" who can do something on ... (read in full...)
He seems more interested in this other woman (who's married) than he does me!
Q. The man I have been dating seems to constantly talk about a woman he works closely with. Although she is married with small children, he seems interested but doesn't persue becaus she's married. He seems to find every opportunity to talk about her ...
A. 27 February 2007: I believe you are not insecure, just normal to feel that way. In fact, I can't see the reason why he doesn't want to let others know that he is dating you. In the first place, more rumors can build up if he constantly sees a married woman instead of ... (read in full...)
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