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Why has he not called after the great time we had together?

Q.   Hi,i met this fella through a friend,we arranged to meet up and seemed to both get on really great, so much so he stayed with me for nearly 4 days,took a day off work and also cancelled a previous arrangement.Anyway he has gone home now and although ...

A.   18 April 2008: He's "not that into you" like the book of the same name. Plain and simple. Your intuition is right on this one. I suggest you read this book - it is by Greg Behrendt. It will change your life like it did mine, and lend a new perspective on this ... (read in full...)

Does anyone else agree with me talking about another man's wife's boobs should be off limits?

Q.   I'm 25 and just started seeing a new guy. He is 30 and all of his friends are married. We went to a social gathering at a married friend's house. They were nice people and had great kids. I thought it was going great until the wife of the host ...

A.   10 March 2008: Yes that comment from him was totally un-called-for and you were justified in feeling offended by it. If I were the mother, I would have been offended too! I agree with hello1 - breastfeeding is not a sexual thing and not to be mocked. Your ... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever done what my co-worker did and not use a condom for first-time sex with someone?

Q.   One of my co-workers was talking about her new boyfriend the other day amongst several of us women during our lunch break. We knew she usually didn't have sex right away when dating a new guy. She really likes the guy she has currently started ...

A.   10 March 2008: Double M, you stated: "among healthy and reasonably prudent people who do not have relations with slutty people, intravenous drug users or bi- homosexual individuals, the likelihood of getting anything really bad, or anything at all, is usually ... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever done what my co-worker did and not use a condom for first-time sex with someone?

Q.   One of my co-workers was talking about her new boyfriend the other day amongst several of us women during our lunch break. We knew she usually didn't have sex right away when dating a new guy. She really likes the guy she has currently started ...

A.   7 March 2008: WOW these are some good answers but not what I was expecting. I agree she was smart to get him to take a blood test for STDs but I know for a fact that some STDs do not show up on a blood test such as it taking 10 years for someone to appear HIV ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is never in the mood. Is he bored of me?

Q.   hi, my boyfirend is almost 17 and im 15. we've been together for almost 2 years now and have always moved slowly on the whole sexual front. We still havent had sex but we do pretty much everything else. But latley we have been getting on perfectly ...

A.   4 March 2008: I don't agree with the statement about always being available every time he calls. Men love to chase and there is nothing more attractive to them instinctually than an unavailable woman! This has happened to me time and again and it WORKS! DO NOT ... (read in full...)

Leaving marriage for affair partner is that a good thing??

Q.   I'm pretty much down to my last option. I'm a 37 year old married man, with two children. Have been married for 8 years, have been together for 15. I am in the middle of an affair. Not real proud of it, it is with a co-worker and it just happened...

A.   4 March 2008: One of the posters on here said "good people do not have affairs with married men and your relationship has a very low chance of surviving your divorce". This is not always true as every situation is different, and I know this first hand. I have ... (read in full...)

Leaving marriage for affair partner is that a good thing??

Q.   I'm pretty much down to my last option. I'm a 37 year old married man, with two children. Have been married for 8 years, have been together for 15. I am in the middle of an affair. Not real proud of it, it is with a co-worker and it just happened...

A.   3 March 2008: I am confused. You said this was "not a sexual relationship because it went deeper than that". Then later you said you did have sex but have taken a break from that now. So how long have you actually been having sex with her? Please elaborate ... (read in full...)

Am I thinking too much into things?

Q.   I am 23 and have been dating a man who is 27 divorced and has two children for 10 months now. I love him and his children very much and the Ex factor really isnt a factor. Things have been great for the first 8 months, I moved in with him and for a ...

A.   3 March 2008: Go with your gut. You say he "wants to make this work" but it is obvious he has no consideration for your feelings at all anymore. Emotions are 99% of a relationship and if he has no regard for yours, then you deserve better. Also, no one can ... (read in full...)

Does anyone know any good sex songs?

Q.   does anyone know any good sex songs (non romantic) that would be fun to play at a party?...

A.   3 March 2008: Push It - Salt 'n Pepa Push - Enrique Iglesias Ice Cream - New Young Pony Club Cream - Prince Let's Get It On - Marvin Gaye I Touch Myself - Divinyls Sex and Candy - Marcy Playground Cherry Pie - Warrant ... (read in full...)

Does anyone find French Kissing weird or are you ok with it? (done right)

Q.   Does anyone on here NOT like to French Kiss? I have met some people who don't like to and I find that pretty disturbing and weird. I am talking GOOD, sensual, non-sloppy kissing when each partner has clean teeth and good breath. This can be ...

A.   29 February 2008: Well I had in mind just what I asked but for some reason only 2 people thought it was interesting enough to respond. I really appreciate it though. This topic weighs heavily on my mind so I thought it might for a LOT of other people but I guess ... (read in full...)

How can I get the pill?

Q.   This might sound stupid, but I'm really worried about getting pregnant. It would be of great help to me if I could be on the pill. So could someone please explain where I can get it from? I cant see a doctor because my mam would have to take me ...

A.   28 February 2008: You are a smart woman to take personal responsibility for your reproductive health and preventing unplanned pregnancies. Here in the US you can go to somewhere like Planned Parenthood and they will give you the pill prescription, either free or for ... (read in full...)

Does anyone find French Kissing weird or are you ok with it? (done right)

Q.   Does anyone on here NOT like to French Kiss? I have met some people who don't like to and I find that pretty disturbing and weird. I am talking GOOD, sensual, non-sloppy kissing when each partner has clean teeth and good breath. This can be ...

A.   28 February 2008: Thanks for the two people who responded. I wish I would have gotten more responses! But you 2 were great - thanks again.... (read in full...)

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