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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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Some tips for a happy marriage!
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20 questions to ask someone on a date!
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Why do you think marriages break up more now than in the past?
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16 October 2008: Do you remember years ago when families used to sit in at nights? They had no TV, no computer games, no telephones, no DVD's, no video recorders etc etc. They had one another! They had TIME to get to know one another, to BE with one another to ...
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.)
Eve... (read in full...)
My ex says I refuse to allow him contact with our kids, and refuses to talk to me! How do I deal with him?
Q. i've been seperated from my ex for about 6 months now,we have 2 kids and we argue about everything concerning them, especialy since we slept together about 3 weeks ago. He now tells people that i refuse to allow him contact with our kids, and ...
A. 30 March 2007: You are doing the right thing but don't be his "bit on the side", he's only using you and you're agreeing to be used by sleeping with him!
Let him know he's welcome to see the kids whenever he wants to, that is his right. If he's already living w... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)
I can't wear tampons and don't want my new boyfriend to notice I am wearing pads... help!!!
Q. Well i come on my period today and i am out with my new boyfriend sunday night and i don't know what to do as i have tried and tried and tried to wear tampons and just cant seem to get it right! and i dont want to wear a pad so im really stuck! any ...
A. 10 February 2007: No, I wouldn't take the pill just for that, it will upset your system. There are pads you can buy now that are very slim but very effective. Have you tried the tampons with the applicator? They are much easier to use than tampons without one. ... (read in full...)
Is being "friends with benefits" a good idea?
Q. is being friends with benifits ok?...this guy at my skewl wants to be more than friends but he doesn't want a relationship...i really like him but i'm afraid i'm gunna get hurt...like if he finds sumone he wants to be with and just forgets about ...
A. 10 February 2007: Friends with benefits is NEVER a good idea. Once sex comes into the equation someone always gets hurt. Have more respect for yourself and don't just "give" yourself to people so easily.
Eve... (read in full...)
Enough is enough and something has to be done... but what???
Q. Me and my bf have been split for coming upto a year now, and things havent been good since my new bf came into the picture. Gradually over the passing months things between me and him have been getting progressively worst and last wednesday was the ...
A. 10 February 2007: That's easy! Make sure you are NEVER in your ex's company again, the guy's a loser and doesn't deserve your friendship. Move on with your life away from him.
Eve... (read in full...)
I cant get her out of my mind!
Q. This is a bit strange for me to be doing this, but i just want to hear what everyone else things. I met this lovely women 6 months ago, we really hit it off so well.After a few months she asked me to move in with her and the kids.I of course s...
A. 9 February 2007: She told you she was seeing someone else, (however casual). You're right to let her stew! I would let Valentine's day go by without sending her a card. She'll be expecting one from you, taking it for granted that you are crazy on her no doubt but ... (read in full...)
Who should I go with?
Q. hi, i just want to ask some question. whom would you prefer to go with in the church, your bestfriend or your boyfriend? ...
A. 9 February 2007: Ah okay, I get what you mean now. When you go to church you really should go to listen shouldn't you so it doesn't really matter who you go with. Don't worry about her chatting with her friend though, she's probably just been catching up the way ... (read in full...)
Want to make a move with this girl on Valentines day... but don't want to scare her off. Any tips?
Q. I'm a thirtysomething man who's not had a real gf other than short term (mostly drunken) 'encounters'. We have a group of friends that have been hanging out for a few years now, the men the same age as me, the ladies in their early twenties (my best ...
A. 9 February 2007: I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Let me know how it goes okay? ;o)
Eve... (read in full...)
Should I confess to my husband what happened or should I forget it?
Q. I am a 28-year-old married woman and have a one year old child. My husband is a nice guy but he has some how lost interest in romance and sex. Conversation too has gone down really low because of his eratic shifts. Even if we do have sex, he just ...
A. 9 February 2007: When was the last time your husband told you he loved you? When was the last time you, your child and him all went for a walk? When was the last time you sat together laughing? When was the last time you both spent quality time together? Seems to ... (read in full...)
Is my mother in law coming on to me? I'm her daughter in law!!!! Helppp!!!!!
Q. New developments into my problem/dilemma with my mother in law(she is 68, I am 57) so I copied my previous post for reference. I am even more confused now as she did something. Anyway, she calls on Sunday and tells me that she wants us to go for a ...
A. 9 February 2007: She is your children's grandmother! What are you thinking of??? Do you want to totally screw up your children not to mention yourself??? Fantasies are all fair and well but they should remain that.... Fantasies!
There is something not quite ri... (read in full...)
My wife and I have seperated, should I still send her flowers for Valentine's Day?
Q. Hi, please help me on this, for two years I dedicated my life to this girl, I loved her, care for her, look after her, did everything in my power for her to be happy, and it was never enough. I married her last year. Our arguments continue...
A. 9 February 2007: I wouldn't send her flowers love, she's told you it's over and she wants a divorce. You said she may even be seeing someone else. What more do you need to hear before you will believe it's over.
You seem a lovely sensitive person with a lot of l... (read in full...)
What's going on? Do I just wait around for him to call me?
Q. Dearc Cupid I have been without my boyfriend for a week now he refuses to pick up my phone calls and he never calls or comes a sees me. In the past we have alot of trust issues and we argue and fight most of the time I feel like he is Dr Jeckle ...
A. 9 February 2007: Your boyfriend is obviously having second thoughts about your relationship and has asked that you give him some space so I would respect that and give him the space he needs for now. Wait a couple of weeks to see if he gets back in touch with you ... (read in full...)
How can I ask him out?
Q. I fancy this boy who's one year younger than me (he's 14), but dont know how to ask him out. we were on talking terms untill he decided to "zap" me every time he saw me(he pokes me hard in the waist so i-embarasingly- collapse). how should i ask him ...
A. 9 February 2007: You have to take the initiative here and ask him if he fancies hanging it after school or does he want to go for a coke at the weekend, something like that. Keep it light and friendly. If he says no just say "okay, no big deal."
Eve... (read in full...)
Who should I go with?
Q. hi, i just want to ask some question. whom would you prefer to go with in the church, your bestfriend or your boyfriend? ...
A. 9 February 2007: Are you asking who would I prefer to go to church with? You are male and you say boyfriend? Are you gay? Can you be a little bit more specific with your question please. Is one of them annoyed that you want to go with the other?
Why can't yo... (read in full...)
Crush on actress character, but she took it personally, what can I do?
Q. i have a crush on an actress's carector unfortionaly she has taken it personaly to herself .i have had cast cards and i have meet her , i'v tried to exsplain and ihave apoligised . but now i think i have been blaklisted or something .i only whant ...
A. 9 February 2007: I'm sorry, I don't completely understand what you mean.
You have a crush on an actress and she thinks now you're stalking her is that right? What did you need to apologise to her for? What is this actress freaking out about? Can you give me more... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my best friend and the girl of my dreams all in one!
Q. So one of my best friends (college buddies, known each other for over 3 years, would do anything for the guy) recently came out and told me that he hooked up several times over the past year with my ex girlfriend, starting 3 months after we broke up ...
A. 9 February 2007: Then I would send him an instant message. Ask him if it's okay for you to call him, that way you can both talk one to one. Let him see that you're over her and that you value his friendship more than any woman's. If he wants to hang about with ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my wife's sex ban will drive a permanent wedge between us...
Q. My partner of 6 years and I recently split up. There were a couple of problems, sex (or lack of it) being a major cause of a lot of them. She wouldnt have sex with me for months at a time and I basically cracked and left her. We have had 3 kids ...
A. 9 February 2007: I was so pleased to read that things are going well for you. With a lot of patience and understanding (from both sides) then you'll get on the right track again. Continue to talk to one another and BE there to LISTEN. Women love to talk, you may ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my jealousy? Is it time for therapy?
Q. How do I get over my jealousy? My ex of over 7 yrs. cheated on me. I can't get over him and I think part of it is because since he's with someone else and Im not, It makes me obsess about it more. As if he's Mr perfect now because he's with ...
A. 9 February 2007: You really need to move on and find other interests, things that will keep you busy and take your mind off him. You have too much free time on your hands just now and that's why you're thinking about him so much. Being jealous is not getting you ... (read in full...)
Are there certain things I can look out for a guy's behaviour that show he likes you
Q. how can u tell if a guy likes u? are there certain things i can look out for in his behaviour? i really like someone but ive been turned down and hurt in the past so i really want to make sure this time before i make a move...
A. 9 February 2007: He'll watch you all the time when he thinks you aren't looking. He come up and talk to you and laugh loudest when you tell a joke. He'll say you look nice, even if you don't think so.
Do you know what star sign he is? Email me and let me know ... (read in full...)
My ex says I refuse to allow him contact with our kids, and refuses to talk to me! How do I deal with him?
Q. i've been seperated from my ex for about 6 months now,we have 2 kids and we argue about everything concerning them, especialy since we slept together about 3 weeks ago. He now tells people that i refuse to allow him contact with our kids, and ...
A. 9 February 2007: Why on earth did you end up sleeping with each other if you argue all the time? How did that come about? Did you say to him during one of your arguments that you were refusing him contact with the kids? (Truth now!)
I think you two are acting l... (read in full...)
I like him but he does drugs! What should I do?
Q. well... i like someone from work... but... he does drugs.. (Weed) i dont know what to do... he says he likes me and i make him happy... but its the drugs... he doesn't wanna give it up.....
A. 9 February 2007: Give it a good couple of months then and see for yourself. Ask around and see if anyone can confirm that he's been clean for a while. Watch him yourself if you're out and you see him and judge for yourself.
Eve... (read in full...)
As I try to get closer she pulls away, yet when I give her what she wants she comes running back. What's up with this girl?
Q. Maybe its her who is afraid of commitment maybe its me, but as the relationship seems to get more serious she asks for more space. We see each other only once or twice a week at the moment. I ask her to see me and she rejects me usally saying sh...
A. 9 February 2007: Wow! Does she really say "she would rather stay and chill at home with her family or go out with her freinds dancing with men?" I think that's your answer don't you?
I think she enjoys the attention from you, then when you leave it for a bit an... (read in full...)
Is he just not interested in a relationship or is he shy? Any advice?
Q. I'm almost completely certain that one of my guy friends likes me as more than just a friend. However, when I try to make plans with him when it is going to be just me and him, he hesitates about it and has a hard time saying yes and making the ...
A. 9 February 2007: Make light of it and say something like "hey fancy hanging out Thursday?" or "Fancy going for a coffee/coke after school? Don't make a big thing of it, he probably IS shy and doesn't know what to say. If he does stutter and stumble say to him... ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my best friend and the girl of my dreams all in one!
Q. So one of my best friends (college buddies, known each other for over 3 years, would do anything for the guy) recently came out and told me that he hooked up several times over the past year with my ex girlfriend, starting 3 months after we broke up ...
A. 9 February 2007: I think your best friend really does like her but feel loyalty to you (now that she broke up with him) and that's why he said what he did to you. It seems to me he really likes her though.
What he should be doing is staying away from her and ... (read in full...)
What can I do to love my husband again and at the same time not lose my dear friend?
Q. Hi. It will be hard, but I will try to make it short: I am married for 4 years (total relationship 9 years), 7 months pregnant and for more then 1 year crazy in love with a 4 year younger guy from work. We never even kissed, but I know we had a sp...
A. 9 February 2007: You need to forget about this friend and try and make a go of it with your husband. The friend isn't even crazy on you, he's lukewarm, in other words he likes you, yes but he's not wanting anything serious with you... and you'd risk that for your ... (read in full...)
Do YOU believe in love at first sight?
Q. Do you believe in love at first sight? What do you think of a 15 year old dating a 23 year old? Is it wrong? Let me know! Thanks...
A. 9 February 2007: If I were 15 I wouldn't date a 23 year old! Most of them are far more experienced in life and sex. He may be really nice but you are still very young, especially if it got serious, which it probably would. You're still underage to have sex for ... (read in full...)
I like a man 22 years older than me, is the age gap too much or do we have a chance?
Q. Hi! It is bizarre to ask for some advice but maybe you girls can provide some useful tips... I adore this man much older than me, divorced with a 13-year-old son (I am 29 and he will soon turn 52 years old). He has felt attracted to me for 5 y...
A. 9 February 2007: What this man said to you about you would tire of him with him being an old man was only to feel you out! He wanted you to say don't be silly, I'd never feel that way about you, or words to that effect. He was looking for a bit of reassurance that ... (read in full...)
Help! Who should I choose?
Q. Hi my names mike and Im 13yrs old. I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months now.I was recently at the mall with my friend my friends girlfriend and one of my friends (also a girl).The first thing the girls wanted to do was to go ...
A. 9 February 2007: This girl was only teasing you. Enjoy the attention she was giving you but you like you're girlfriend so I would stick with her. If this girl can do this with you, she can do it with your friends too. Imagine she WAS your girlfriend, could you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)
I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!
Q. I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and ...
A. 9 February 2007: I wouldn't mention anything from the past. Start afresh and greet him with a big smile. Tell him he looks great! Ask him how his day was and tell him about yours. Let him know you've missed him too. Keep the conversation light and friendly, ... (read in full...)
Should I just ignore it as a viscious prank?
Q. My Husband got a Valentines Card from someone implying they are sleeping with him. Hi, I just want a little advice really. I have been with my husband for 9 years and we got married 5 months ago. Yesterday he got a Valentines card through the...
A. 9 February 2007: It was lovely to read your reply! I could tell just from reading your letter that your husband is very loving and sincere and you just confirmed it when you said he called you from work to say he's still and work and will be home soon. He's ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and I did nothing wrong! What will I do?
Q. Things were fine with us until one day she came to me asking me to break up with her. I disagree cos i did nothing. She came back the folowing day broke up with me because of what she heard about me but i still love her very much. Please what s...
A. 9 February 2007: Hmmmmm some friend Scarlet! Seems he might want your girlfriend for himself. You don't say how long you and your girlfriend were together but if you don't both have trust in a relationship then you have nothing. Do you believe what she says about ... (read in full...)
Update: I can't trust my husband..I've had enough!
Q. I CAN'T TRUST MY HUSBAND I'VE HAD ENOUGH I am responding to the 2 e-mails sent earlier. The first from Eve made a lot of sense,and thank you for your reply. the 2nd reply did not make sense,a marriage is based on trust NOT LIES. Obviously this a...
A. 9 February 2007: Hi Dawnie,
Thank you for the kind words. You really do need to give your husband a wake up call. If he sees you're serious then hopefully he'll change his ways.
You know where I am if you want to talk some more.
Eve... (read in full...)
I seem to be eternally single! Will I ever be happy in love?
Q. Hi All, I'm feeling so lonely. It's always highlighted at this time of year (Valentine's Day). I seem to be eternally single, after having dated a number of men who just haven't treated me right. To be honest, I look at myself, and I can...
A. 9 February 2007: First of all take a good long look at yourself in a mirror. How do you dress? When you go out do you dress too provocatively? Are your skirts too short? Your top too low? The way you dress can tell a lot about a woman, try not to dress so ... (read in full...)
I like him but he does drugs! What should I do?
Q. well... i like someone from work... but... he does drugs.. (Weed) i dont know what to do... he says he likes me and i make him happy... but its the drugs... he doesn't wanna give it up.....
A. 9 February 2007: If he likes you too then tell him to clean up his act. Tell him you would never date anyone who uses drugs of any description. If he likes you enough he will try and get clean but if the drugs mean more to him then he'll continue to use them.
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This guy is so good to me and loves me so much but I don't feel the same. Should I let him go knowing how well he treats me?
Q. Please give me some advice. I've been with this man for nearly a year, the time has just flown by, he is a fantastic sensitive man, generous kind, attentive and loves me so much, its great to be wanted and appreciated, we have a laugh together, ...
A. 8 February 2007: This guy you're with, nice as he is just isn't for you I'm afraid. There is no chemistry between you and you would only grow to hate him with time. You need to sit down with him and let him know that although you are fond of him and respect him as ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always seem to go for matchstick blonde women?
Q. hi i am a bit confused. it seems like only all the skinny blonde, tall girls get boyfriends! i am 16 and i weigh 8 stone :s i am about 5ft 1 Brown hair. is this any boys type? or do they only go for the skinny tall girls?...
A. 8 February 2007: Don't be intimidated by skinny blonde girls. They can be very superficial and vain. You sound lovely and have a lot of common sense so I certainly wouldn't worry about it. Different guys go for different looks, not all guys even like blondes and ... (read in full...)
I can't trust my husband any more, now I've had enough!
Q. I have been married for 15 years in April. We have 2 children. In Nov 2001 my husband went on holiday with a friend of his behind my back, he said he was going on a business trip. I found out before his flight had even landed, he returned a couple ...
A. 8 February 2007: There is something very wrong with your marriage. Your husband seems to WANT to go off on his own without you, he went to an engagement party and chose to take his friend along instead of you! Seems to me he likes the single life with his friend ... (read in full...)
I know it's meant to be
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend about 5 months ago as we decided it wouldnt work out with me goin 2 college and him staying on a sixth form as we thought we wouldnt see each other, he moved on and by the end of the month was getting together with ...
A. 8 February 2007: If your boyfriend wants you back then he'll call you or get in touch with you in some way to ask you back, plain and simple! The fact he pulls a face when your best friend asks how things are going is to spare YOUR feelings. He knows she's going ... (read in full...)
Should I just ignore it as a viscious prank?
Q. My Husband got a Valentines Card from someone implying they are sleeping with him. Hi, I just want a little advice really. I have been with my husband for 9 years and we got married 5 months ago. Yesterday he got a Valentines card through the...
A. 8 February 2007: You know your husband better than anyone else love. The fact that there's nothing personal in it about him implies they don't know him very well. It may well be your neighbours trying to wind you up.
You need to ask yourself... has he been act... (read in full...)
I think losing each other is stupid
Q. Dear Cupid Should I try to keep getting my boyfriend to be with me? I have been in a relationship for five years now and since sunday my boyfriend hasn't been returning my calls and has'nt been picking up my phone calls me and him have been arguei...
A. 8 February 2007: Sounds to me as if you have both had one fight too many! The more you try and contact him the way he's feeling just now, the more you're pushing him away. I would give him his space for the moment and let him cool down a bit.
It could be he's ... (read in full...)
I am looking for a psychic person
Q. i need help, i am looking for a phsicic person in my area so i can talk to my dad, me and my sister - 21, have been looking for ages, im 13 and cant go another month with out knowing he's okay, please help we are also trying to find out how he died, ...
A. 8 February 2007: I totally agree with Dr Psych, her advice was excellent. You have to be very careful as there are a lot of charlatans around (imposters, people who claim to be able to talk with the dead when they're only after your money.) If you do go to one, go ... (read in full...)
I can't get a boyfriend
Q. hi,im really upset because i cant get a boyfriend and every one else can what can i do?p;ease write back a.s.a.p thank you xxxxxxxxxxx...
A. 8 February 2007: What should you do??? You are only 10-12 years old and shouldn't even be THINKING of boys at this age! You should be concentrating on your studies and finding out more about yourself and what you want to be when you grow up.
There will be PLENT... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my wife's sex ban will drive a permanent wedge between us...
Q. My partner of 6 years and I recently split up. There were a couple of problems, sex (or lack of it) being a major cause of a lot of them. She wouldnt have sex with me for months at a time and I basically cracked and left her. We have had 3 kids ...
A. 8 February 2007: I would be there for your wife just now. Why don't you make enquiries about a grievance counsellor then ask her to go, tell her you'll go with her if it helps. They will help her deal with her pain so she can move on again with her life.
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Want to make a move with this girl on Valentines day... but don't want to scare her off. Any tips?
Q. I'm a thirtysomething man who's not had a real gf other than short term (mostly drunken) 'encounters'. We have a group of friends that have been hanging out for a few years now, the men the same age as me, the ladies in their early twenties (my best ...
A. 8 February 2007: Why don't you tell her you really enjoy hanging out with her and does she fancy going for dinner with you one night? Then make it valentine's night? I'm sure she'd jump at the chance. Once out with her just be yourself but go easy on the alcohol ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and I did nothing wrong! What will I do?
Q. Things were fine with us until one day she came to me asking me to break up with her. I disagree cos i did nothing. She came back the folowing day broke up with me because of what she heard about me but i still love her very much. Please what s...
A. 8 February 2007: Why did she break up with you? What were her reasons? SHE must have felt something was missing from your relationship to break up with you? Can you give some more details?
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I cant get her out of my mind!
Q. This is a bit strange for me to be doing this, but i just want to hear what everyone else things. I met this lovely women 6 months ago, we really hit it off so well.After a few months she asked me to move in with her and the kids.I of course s...
A. 6 February 2007: If I were you I'd move out of there until she gets her head together. She obviously still has feelings for her ex, she isn't over him, plain and simple. She falls out with you and it's straight on to the ex, exaggerating stories so she looks ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)
I regret breaking up w/ him, but we weren't getting along b/c of personal matters. Now he's afraid to get back together!
Q. I need some advice... I had been going out with my boyfriend for a year and broke up with him last week.. i am not sure why i did this. at the time my parents were splitting up and one of his close friends had died. we were both being crappy and ...
A. 31 January 2007: Both of you have been through quite a traumatic time, his close friend dying and your parents splitting up. I would send him a card and write in it how you feel. Tell him you respect his need for space (hence the card) but explain to him that your ... (read in full...)
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