I hate my husband's best female friend!!
Q. Let me just start by saying this. I HATE HATE HATE hubby's best female friend! Yes, she is younger, thinner and female, but that is NOT the reason I hate her so much. She has been friends with my hubby for over 20 years and she is NEEDY! It ...
A. 4 September 2007: Why not play your Husband's game,like find yourself a male friend somewhere out on the Web. and get into a loveydovey relationship with him. but do make sure that your Hubby knows that you have an ongoing,daily Web chat with your new found friend. ... (read in full...)
I want my marriage to last but I am so unhappy! How do I deal with this?
Q. I married and find myself to be unhappy and as more time go by, I seem to feel colder and colder inside. I love my wife but find myself not to be in love with her. We've been married for little over a year now and have a beautiful daughter about ...
A. 10 August 2007: You didn't marry in love,but then most of us men do just that, and that love comes along much later on in our relationships, if it comes along at all. In your case,as I see it, love for you just didn't come along, sad to say.You both could stay ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he had no problem moving on..so why can't I?
Q. Ok where do I start. My ex (which has been my friend for the past 10 years)and I will be broken up for almost 2 years. We were together for 5. Now, he calls me about once a week. He's moved on, living with her and her daughter. Me on the other ...
A. 10 August 2007: You know how to work your computer,and you also know that what you put into it is what you'll get out of it. You have the finest computer between your ears, your "BRAIN". And what you feed into your brain is what you'll get out of it. You can learn ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated and I kept him. How do I trust him again?
Q. while i was in florida, my boyfriend of 2 an 1/2 years cheated on me...i found out 3 months later, and ever since then have not been the same. I have chosen to stay with him. I know he loves me and feels awful and he just wants it to go away, but i ...
A. 10 August 2007: You both will be going off to two different colleges,right. Well, He isn't going to remain faithful to your relationship, as he has already shown in his past sexual affair, that is quite plain to see. So why not the both of you agree to dating ... (read in full...)
I do stuff to my friend but it makes me feel weird
Q. ok, i m a virgin, but i don't have a boyfriend yet. but i have a really good friend that lets me do stuff 2 him, he has done stuff 2 me also, but everytime we do something, i fell really weird?? why is this happening?...
A. 10 August 2007: Because you know it's WRONG, WRONG, WRONG.... (read in full...)
I don't like the fact that he smokes pot, what should I do?
Q. Hey, wonder if you can give me some advice. I've known this guy for about two years, and we've been going out for a few months. Anyway we've always been pretty good together but there's one thing that bugs me a lot about him, he smokes weed. He ...
A. 10 August 2007: The best advice anyone can give you is to dump your bf, as there really isn't any future for you staying in a losing ,Go-no-anywhere, wasting your time relationship. You would be a fool to see that he is going to give up his first love "Weed". And ... (read in full...)
My friend gave me oral sex and I returned the favour; does this make me a lesbian?
Q. i'm not too sure whether i'm a lesbian or not because i slept around my friends house the other night. we had to sleep in the same bed as there wasn't anywhere else to sleep and we both slept naked. about an hour after we'd gone to bed, i got woken...
A. 9 August 2007: Do you really want to know how women feel about Lesbian relationships? If you do, then this book is a must for you to read. "THE HITE REPORT" By Shere Hite. By Macmillan Publishinh Co, Inc. ISBN 0-02-551851-8. The best insight into female sexuality ... (read in full...)
My bf's friend is scummy and keeps hitting on me! How can I make this stop?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. His best friend, someone he's known since he was little, will not stop hitting on me. He openly asks to have sex with me, asks to see me naked, and to have threesomes with his girlfriend -- ...
A. 9 August 2007: Your bf has been told that his friend needs to go, but he won't do anything about it. So why don;t you do what your heart is telling you to do. Get rid of both of them. they both sound like losers, and if you stay with them so will you end up a ... (read in full...)
She's married, I'm a straight female, but I can't get a 'prior' kissing incident with her, out of my head!
Q. Right im 24 f and i have the best mate ever she is 37 dead down to earth easyin goin funny and SEXY.. now that the problem im straight and she is married but last year we kiss-snog it were quick but never been meantions again and i cant get her out ...
A. 9 August 2007: To be quite honest with you, I don't think that there is such a sexual-clasification as Heterosexuality or homosexuality,as I only recognize the Bisexuality of both gender.And I see it. It's perfectly normal for a man or a woman to ... (read in full...)
His best friend is female.
Q. MY BOYFRIEND HAVE A FEMALE BESTFRIEND, WHAT ADVICE CAN YOU GIVE ME?...
A. 9 August 2007: Does one have to give up friends just because we move into more permanent relationships? I would only see those other relationships as a problem. If, or when, they took away from the new, ongoing commitment that he or she is now engaged in. I have ... (read in full...)
Is this age difference wrong? She's 17 and wants us to have sex!
Q. Hi Im 26 and a girl I have known who is 17 has let me know she is interested in me and wants to have sex! I told her she was too young and my friends and family would kill me but she said 'can you not keep a secret?' Im meeting her on Friday ...
A. 9 August 2007: You would be using her, and for sure she is going to be use you. And "YES", You both are treating sex as if it were just toiletpaper to be used and thrown away.Shame on the both of you.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 8 August 2007: Thanks for the advice Andrew, Yes, I got one hit, but then the Delete button works just fine. You have a wonderful Website, keep up the great work, and God Bless tour work.... (read in full...)
My ex partner is seeking a property settlement... !
Q. Was in a 10 year relationship with my NOW Ex-partner as I agreed to finish his house off...However he has got a solicitor and asking alot more than agreed,Im really needing advice what can he claim for knowing that he got a first homers grant in ...
A. 8 August 2007: I would take ingotblue's advice, as it is the only way to fly. As you need to be looking out for your Rights under the Law. Good Luck, Do hope that things work out for you.... (read in full...)
I'm Bi and married but I can only seem to orgasm when thinking about women. Opinions please??
Q. i'm Bi married and am very attracted to women i have been in a lesbian relationship prior to meeting my now husband but when we are being intamite i find myself always thinking about women and i fantasize about being intamite w/them while i am being ...
A. 8 August 2007: Hi! I'll answer you question with a question. What is the main reason that two people have sex? To have an orgasm, right. And being as all sex begins in one's head and is played out in our genitals. Does it really matter who our Mindlover really is? ... (read in full...)
Our sex life has been boring since he got out of jail; any tips to liven things up?
Q. My husband had been in prison for 9 months. He recently got out in June. We've had sex over 60 times since he got out and now its just boring. Can you all give me some ideas that might excite our sex life?...
A. 8 August 2007: If you are going to depend on sex to keep your relationship alive and healthy, it's not going to work as you have soon discovered. Along with Sexual-BurnOut, that you both are now going through. You two are also going through Relational-Burnout a ... (read in full...)
He has trouble staying hard during sex... but not oral.. why?
Q. when i am having sex, i can give my guy oral sex and he gets erect, but when he penetrates me after a minute he goes soft, my question is why does this happen?...
A. 8 August 2007: To Answer your question can best be done by your understanding the male penis and how it works and why often it don't work during vaginal-intercourse. All us men start out as early Masturbators. By this I mean that we start out masturbating at an ... (read in full...)
My fiancee: cheated with a prostitute, can't get hard except through oral, has a short temper and leaves for days on end after an argument!
Q. I love him but am i being controlled. my fiancee and I have been together for over 2 years. he cheated on me with a prostitute after 8 months, a month before we were to be married. we went to counselling, but he could not tell me why he did it. He ...
A. 7 August 2007: Doing-Time, That's what they do in jail, but then there is such a thing as doing time in the jail of one's mind. You have the key to unlock the door to your relationalship-jail, but the fear of having no one in your life will keep that door to your ... (read in full...)
I just can't make her orgasm from penetrative sex... tell me how I can through oral?
Q. I'm in a very loving relationship with this girl, and have to ask for 2 pieces of advice here. 1. She does not orgasm during intercourse. She says she has never been able to. Being a man, I look at this as a challenge, and am continually diss...
A. 7 August 2007: To best answer your quetions, can best be done by giving the both of you some insight into her physiological make-up of her vagina It's a known fact that only one woman out of three can have an orgasm by Vaginal-Penile-Intercourse, She just may be ... (read in full...)
He loves to eye other women be it any public gathering.
Q. I have been married for the last 5 years and I share a very good relationship with my husband but there is one thing we always disagree on. He loves to eye other women be it any public gathering. I have confronted him a lot of times and I am very ...
A. 7 August 2007: So you have been married for five years to your husband, I would wonder how many years you have also been married to jealousy, Bet, Much, much longer than your have been with him. Do you think for one moment that you'll find one man who don't ... (read in full...)
girlfriend wanted to end things but we are still kissing and cuddling. is this right?
Q. Hi everyone, I would really appreciate advice on this matter as I have no idea where to turn. I'm in my early twenties and my girlfriend a few years older. We've been together for two years and living together for one. As far as I'm concerned, our ...
A. 6 August 2007: I wouldn't be able to give you sound advice as I would need to know more of the relational background between the two of you. Which would include your past, and her past relationships. If you would like to contact me through DearCupid, I'm more than ... (read in full...)
I'm having a difficult time getting past the visual of her being kissed by another man. Please help!
Q. My fiance' and I had not been really getting along and pretty much things were going down the toilet for the past month. She left for a week to spend time with one of her girlfriends that she hasn't seen in a while. While on the trip they all go ...
A. 6 August 2007: Long ago in a far off land, there lived a king by the name of "Distrust". He was a very sad king who never found a moment of peace within his heart. And sad to say all of his subjects also became "Distrustful" of each other. To make the story short. ... (read in full...)
I really want to go but i dont know what to do!
Q. Hi im 16. I have a FWB who's 18. Well...i guess he's my friend with benefits. Anyhow, he invited me to a drinking party, ive never drank before so i want to go and try some. The thing is is that we would have to sleep over because its kinda far ...
A. 6 August 2007: No he isn't your Bf. And and if he were he wouldn't be introducing you to drinking. Nor would he want to use you body just to satisfy his genital needs.The best thing for you to do in that relationship, is for you to end it now.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: We had over quarter of a million people visit the site over the past month!
Q. Just checking the site stats. We had another milestone... for the first time, in the past 30 days, we had over quarter of a million people visit the site... not 250,000 "hits" or "visits" but actual unique visitors! As counted by Google Anal...
A. 6 August 2007: Thanks Andrew and all of you Agony aunts and uncles who have helped to make DearCupid the best Help-Site on the Web.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex before I'm married?
Q. Okay I need help from all the other Christians!! I have a problem and it is really worrying me. I am a Christian and I really want to wait until I am married to have sex, but, I am worried that I will be tempted. And I want to do the right thing by ...
A. 6 August 2007: Don't ask Christians if it's okay to have sex before marriage. They are all lead by a bunch of God's Gurus and all these Gurus claim to speak for God, Himself. To me your commitment to each other is the samething as a betrothal in the eyes of God. ... (read in full...)
I believe two of my (new) friends who stayed over had sex on my bed! Should I tell my wife?
Q. My wife is away for work for an extended period. As we usually keep ourselves to ourselves, this makes her absence particularly difficult. I really don't have that many friends, I moved here about two years ago and it's been all work and family, ...
A. 6 August 2007: There will be lots of folks who will tell you that she should know about your Boo-Boo, Well I'm not one of them. You screwed up once, guess you'll also screw up again if you tell her. Let it alone, but do hope that you have learned something from ... (read in full...)
Remarried but I am lusting after my ex-husband! WHat should I do?
Q. How do I handle my feelings? When I was going to nursing school, I fell in love with one of our patients. He was 22 and had just been divorced about a year. We had a whirlwind romance after he got out of the hospital and he asked me to marry him. ...
A. 6 August 2007: The "We part" of your first relationship is quite prevalent. However you don't say too much what is going on with your new husband makes tou feel old. How come you can tell me that but not him? It seems to me that better communications between you ... (read in full...)
How do you tell if a guy is just flirting or is really interested in you?
Q. There is a man who I come into regular contact with through business who I find I am becoming increasingly attracted to. He is younger than me and also quite shy. Lately he has been asking questions about my private life in a very careful way and I ...
A. 5 August 2007: What is the age difference between you two? Has he been married before? I gather your answer is no. What about his past relationships? Were there Any other gf's? A man who is Just Flirting doesn't ask a woman about her private life. Nor would he ... (read in full...)
Should I still ask him out given that I'm 19, he's 35?
Q. I'm an 19 year old girl and I'm interested in dating someone who is 35. I think he likes me but I'm afraid that he'll say no if I ask him if he feels the same. I think this because of our age difference. Should I still ask?...
A. 5 August 2007: What does real love have to do with age? Not much, If you are say within ten years of each other. And in his case he is older and should be emotionally settled in his mindby now. Also as a woman's logevity being longer than a man's, but I see that ... (read in full...)
Is it first love or not?
Q. When I was still in elementary, I have this GUY best friend. We are really buddies, we look out for each other and stuffs... When I was already in high school, I've got this friend of mine, who has a crush on him and tried to break us apart. ...
A. 4 August 2007: Was it really first love or first infatuation? I went two years with a gf in JC. A brother sister thing,no sex,and those two years were the most unforgettable years of my life. I doubt that you can call how you felt about your past childhood friend, ... (read in full...)
Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed.
Q. Lately i have been having these feelings where i want a boyfriend so much that i get depressed. It has been going on for a long time but why do you think i have them? Please Please Help Meeee xx...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi! sweetheart, Know how you must feel, as if the whole world is passing you by. And that there is no one out there for you. You are also going through Hormonal body changes. That wants to push you into bf and gf relationships, Perhaps, sooner than ... (read in full...)
They're made for each other, but he may be in denial about his sexual orientation. Do they still go for it?
Q. Hi Guys Any views on any section will be greatly appreciated as there is so little help out there for being on the receiving end of a bi friends love when you are not them: * A's best friend is a guy and basically A and B are made for e...
A. 4 August 2007: Good Morning A From the Philippines,And this lost American hopes you have a wonderful day. And an even better future to come. There are two kinds of "LOVE" The male kind of love And the Female kind of love. The male love is centered in his ... (read in full...)
They're made for each other, but he may be in denial about his sexual orientation. Do they still go for it?
Q. Hi Guys Any views on any section will be greatly appreciated as there is so little help out there for being on the receiving end of a bi friends love when you are not them: * A's best friend is a guy and basically A and B are made for e...
A. 4 August 2007: Hi! If you two want to remain in your relationship. you both will have to do some Mind-Bending when it comes to your sexuality. By Mind-Bending I mean that you'll have to accept your own sexuality for what it really is, and his ditto, for what it ... (read in full...)
They're made for each other, but he may be in denial about his sexual orientation. Do they still go for it?
Q. Hi Guys Any views on any section will be greatly appreciated as there is so little help out there for being on the receiving end of a bi friends love when you are not them: * A's best friend is a guy and basically A and B are made for e...
A. 3 August 2007: I for one do not see the sexual classification of Hetrosexuality and homosexuality as being valid. And the only valid classification that I see is "Bi-sexuality'. And both gender comes under that same sexual-classification. who and what we become in ... (read in full...)
Should I just end it now to stop further pain and before we get more close or should I stay with her because I do think she is worth it?
Q. I have been in with my girlfriend for about 4 months and she has a 2 year old child. She takes the child to see his dad a few times a week and I am fine with that, it's just that my girlfriend is very close to her x because they went out for almost ...
A. 3 August 2007: Hi!, You are caught up in a Social-Disease called Relationalship-Addiction that knows no gender boundaries. The on-set of this disease has it's beginning in our mental and emotional attachtment, or bonding with others. However there is quite a ... (read in full...)
My ex bf's mental illness is serious. Should I ever consider a future with him?
Q. I am 24 and have been with my boyfriend (now ex) since I was 19. Our relationship has conquered many battles and each time we have came out stronger. I love this man, more than words can say. I always knew "he" had a specific fear of death, love and...
A. 3 August 2007: Hi!, It's me again. Having worked in Mental Health for over 28 years. I,m not putting down either of you, I love people regardless of what life has handed them, by this I mean, We don't often have any choice of what happens in our lives. But when we ... (read in full...)
I am trying to be ok with his porn viewing, but am having a hard time with it
Q. I can't stand it when my boyfriend looks at porn on the internet. He says he does it because they do things that I dont really do, like deep throat. I know that he is a guy and most guys masturbate to porn but then again, I wanna be a cool ...
A. 2 August 2007: No doubt he's also having a hard time with it too. This dirty old man couldn;t pass up the pun. To be serious Porn can be helpful to spice-up a relationship that is in the doldrums, but it should be a shared, viewing together. However, When ,or if, ... (read in full...)
My husband didnt cum, even after hours
Q. When we make love, it took hours then my husband never cum.. what is wrong?...
A. 2 August 2007: If he has no physical or emotional problems, then what may be going on is Insufficient-Continuing-Penile-Stimulation, to put it quite simply, He can get an erection, even get that erection into your vagina. However,If there is no ongoing, vigorous ... (read in full...)
My ex bf's mental illness is serious. Should I ever consider a future with him?
Q. I am 24 and have been with my boyfriend (now ex) since I was 19. Our relationship has conquered many battles and each time we have came out stronger. I love this man, more than words can say. I always knew "he" had a specific fear of death, love and...
A. 2 August 2007: "You got to know when to hold, know when to fold, know when to walk away, know when to run". You had better go with the "know when to to run". As I see It, There is no furture in yor present relationship. It's no-wheres-ville and it is'nt going to ... (read in full...)
My husband is a little too rough with sex, I am worried he will hurt me or our baby
Q. Hi guys. I am now 13 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are very excited about our first baby. We want to still have sex during pregnancy but he wants me to do all the work (in our sexual realtionship). Because of the baby I get tired quickly and I ...
A. 2 August 2007: Hi! Why don't you let your Husband read this E-Mail. Hi! Mr.Rough: I know that you love your wife dearly, But sometimes us men get carried away when we make love to a woman However, A Woman's body need a gentile,loving touch, unlike a man's body, ... (read in full...)
I have fallen out of love with the father of my child
Q. hi, i've been goin steady with my boyfriend for 3 and 1/2 years,, we have been living together for a year of that and have a child who'l be 2 in sep.. i loved this guy at one point but now no longer feel the same way and i dont know how to end our ...
A. 2 August 2007: I would wonder If you really know what love is all about. And was it just sex that held your relationship together for those 3 and 1/2 years? And you have now reached that point in your togetherness called, "Sexual-Burnout", or you have found ... (read in full...)
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