Im 17, she wont be 16 for 2 months, she wants to have sex, should we or should we wait ?
Q. I am 17 and my girl friend is 2 months away from being 16 and she wants to have sex. i think we should wait a while but she dose not want to wait. I am not going to lie I want to do. What should I do. ...
A. 4 April 2007: hey!:) its 2 months.. u mite as well wait... wait until she's 16.. its better and safer... its not that long.... wait... (read in full...)
I'm15-can my 33 year old bf get into trouble with the law for kissing me?
Q. Hey! im 15 and my partner is 33. we met 2 years ago and he told me that he is in love with me.i love him as well.and dont say i dont know what love is,because i do!! Last May,my mum and dad found out their was something going on between me and him ...
A. 26 March 2007: Ok this guy is double your age!!! Thats really bad. I dont know how the law works but I dont think its right! If you are a virgin.. Do you want to lose something so special like your virginity (when you're 16) to a grown man who'll be 34 years ... (read in full...)
Why does it embarrass me that I lost my virginity at 20 years old?
Q. I feel like such a loser I was a late starter and lost my virginity at the age of 20. To my currant girlfriend. You hear about and read about sex all the time and are keyed into believing that its abnormal to wait that long. My girlfriend lost hers ...
A. 24 March 2007: Done compare yourself to others. You should be proud of yourself =)... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing or am I going to live to regret it?
Q. Hi guys, I need some help with sorting out a relationship issue. I am thinking of ending a 7 year relationship and need to know if I am doing the right thing or if im going to live to regret it. My guy tells me he loves me but does not show it in ...
A. 12 March 2007: aaw well if you're not happy in this relationship, you shouldnt stay in it. you're right.. you deserve more. 7 years is a very long time. does he know that you feel this way? Maybe he doesnt realise what he is doing. Tell him straight. You were able ... (read in full...)
I think I just told my mate's boyfriend something I shouldn't have! Should I have kept my mouth shut?
Q. omg i just told my mates boyfriend ( who's also my mate) that last night she went on msn and watched some 20 year old wank on webcam . do you think i did the rite thing , they might not break up over it , but it is possible ! x x ...
A. 12 March 2007: ok that was really dumb! why would u wanna do that???? are you jealous of their relationship? Yes your friend was very wrong, but its none of your business!!! You can definitely tell her you think she was very wrong by doin that.. but what good di... (read in full...)
We hug all the time but have only kissed once, we've been together 2 and a half months. Do I have a guy who respects me here?
Q. hi i have a bf that i have been with for about 2 and a half months. we hug all the time and have only kissed once! do you think he wants to do more, example, get off with me, do sexual things etc? cos he doesnt try anything like that. he d...
A. 12 March 2007: Yeah! :D it really seems like he respects you! you got a real good guy here. Its good that things are moving slowly between you 2. but if u really wanna kiss him again, y dont u call his name, look him in the eyes and kiss him. it will be unexpect... (read in full...)
How do I stop getting noticeably aroused when I'm laying down w/ my gf??
Q. hey how do i not get a boner whenever I'm laying with my girlfriend or when I am laying with her and she is like stroking the side of face of chest? its gonna be embarrassing one of these days when I'm just holding her and i have a boner and she ...
A. 12 March 2007: u know wat.. i wud agree with shandy pop. it wudnt get me irritated or anything if my boyfriend got excited while i was with him. like shandy popo said,, i would feel honoured. its sweet. she enjoys it i'm sure. hehe hope i helped :D xxx... (read in full...)
I already have a girlfriend but have just got with this other girl, now I like both of them. Who do I choose?
Q. What do i do? I've just got with this girl while I've already got another girlfriend! Who do I choose?...
A. 8 March 2007: my opinion... you dont deserve these girls. you cheated on the first girl so she deserves better. and the poor second girl will just be taking a chance that you'll probably cheat on her with the next...... (read in full...)
What is your definition of love?
Q. My question is short and concise; What is love? I know that there is no text book definition of love, and that there's no right or wrong answer to that. I've always wondering and was just thinking what everybody else here thought. Thanks. ...
A. 6 March 2007: Oh my gosh Eve that was beautiful!!!!! hehe its such a perfect definition!... (read in full...)
This boy says he loves me but he's ugly, I would get slagged off my mates if I went out with him, what do I do?
Q. Hiyah well theres this boy and he told my mate that he said he loves me. The only thing iz .. he's ugly and i know that sounds so bad and shallow but i would get sooo slagged for going out with him what do i do?? Please Reply, Babyemm xx...
A. 6 March 2007: You havent mentioned how u feel about him. It doesnt matter if he is ugly, if u like him then give him a chance. It wouldnt be right if your fiends end your friendship or judge you because of that. Yes they may say things but if their opinions make ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Had DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? I want to hear your stories...
Q. Has DearCupid changed your life in a positive way? If so, please let me know. Either post here (anon if you prefer) or send me a private mail. Sometimes when I'm coding at midnight or tinkering with an errant database, or wondering wh...
A. 6 March 2007: hhey! yes this site has been great, it rocks!!!!
Not only are there people who help you with what you are going thru, some of them have actually experienced it and some people are experiencing the same things.
It also makes me feel better cos some... (read in full...)
He was my first boyfriend and I would love to get back with him, he says he likes me but as a friend for now. What do you think?
Q. Please somebody help me here! i am driving myself crazy!! I'm 15. This is the story and i will try shorten it as much as i can. I was dating a guy for 2 months, he dumped me a week before valentines day. i was sooo upset i literally felt l...
A. 6 March 2007: Guys ! thanks so much for your help. Its so good knowing that somewhere in this world there are people who can give me advice without judging me! :)... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because I told some friends, he and I were dating! Should I pursue him again?
Q. I really liked this guy for ages and about a month ago we hooked up and spent some time together a couple of times. One day i gave him a call and he was really cold and not that keen to chat so i just left it deleted his number and moved on. last ...
A. 6 March 2007: You really like this guy! But is it worth it? I hate to say it but maybe he is ashamed of you. It doesnt sound like he told u he wanted it private. So the normal thing for any girl is to tell her friends about it. He should hav said to you "hey... (read in full...)
I'm going out with a boy but he keeps hitting me and I can't explain the bruises to my parents.
Q. i am goin out with this boy, but he keeps hitting me and treating me like a pig. wat shall i do? i dunno how to explain 2 my parents with the bruises are HELP wb xxx...
A. 12 February 2007: hEY girl!!
wow!
Let me just ask you something... Why exactly are you with him anyway?
Seriously you are worth a lot more, you deserve someone a lot better than that. He has no respect for you. How dare he????
If he can already start all that s... (read in full...)
Does he like me or was he treating me like "one of the guys?"
Q. Okay, so there's also this guy I know from camp. He was really flirty, I guess, I'm not very good at recognizing those sort of things. He was always sneaking up behind me to startle me and when we had team-building stuff involving those little party ...
A. 12 February 2007: Ok wow!! You've got yourself in a tricky situation there. You're worried that maybe if you make the first move thinking he likes you, then you will lose the friendship you have if he doesnt feel the same way. Am i right?
It sounds like the 2 of... (read in full...)
I liked this guy but he moved to the states...how do I get over him?
Q. hey I'm thirteen, nearly 14, and i like this guy who's like 3 years older than me, and nobody knows,cos Ive never told anyone, and am not planning to, but now I'm really depressed cos he moved all the way to the states and he doesn't even really ...
A. 12 February 2007: Hey. I know this is a bit different.. but my best girl friend also moved away to the Uk. I thought i was going to die. I missed having her around. I missed the fact that I knew she was always there no matter what. It has been 4 months now and i have ... (read in full...)
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