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writes:My best friend is a girl and ive liked her for sometime now she knows this to. She said that we couldnt get together before because of our friendship - she don't want to lose a friend but,over the weekend we kissed a number of times and one kiss felt very serious. Now, on monday i feel weird with her and feel like she is bein very off wid me what can i do? plz plz help me im so confused ???????????????
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (12 February 2007):
 You both need to talk and get your feelings out in the open.
There may be an element of confusion in this situation.
Hope things work out for you.
Angel of Love
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Maybe she has realised she does have feelings for you and she thinks you don't feel the same or maybe she now knows she doesn't want to get involved romantically with you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
You need to take the initiative here and go up to her. Apologise to her for what happened and say it felt kind of weird but nice then ask her how she felt. If you get the vibes from her that she doesn't want to go there again then say to her you think it would be better just to remain friends and forget it ever happened.
Eve
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Well, she probably feels a little weird with you!
I agree with Kenny, you do need to talk to her and ask her what's going on. I'd wait until you have some private time together to do it. I think she's probably feeling sort of awkward around you now and doesn't really know how to act with you. Like friends? Like more than that? All that can help here is communication.
So, yes. I'd say talk to her and ask her if she'd like to stay friends or if she has feelings for you. Don't get angry with her for being weird to you today, she probably just doesn't know how to act around you quite yet.
Good luck, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, kenny +, writes (12 February 2007):
 I think your only option here is to talk to her, ask her why she is being off with you.
she obviously has some feelings for you, otherwise she woulden't have been kissing you over the weekend, and as you say one kiss felt serious.
Pull her aside and talk to her, and soon.
Good luck
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