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I've like to help people I do the best I can so add me and rate thank you xox ......3

I want to believe cheating boyfriend will change...

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, after the first 6 months i found out he had profiles on a bunch of dating sites online and he had been communicating with one women and saying things like he wanted to start a relationship with ...

A.   26 October 2010: You have to fine what u what u know deep down he won't change they never do I been their I was with my guy for 3 years I new he was going out on me but my love for him kep me with him I wish I got out sooner then later do what I did look deep down ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when your boyfriend calls you sexy?

Q.   My boyfriend says that i am sexy and he love my eyes....i want him to call me beautiful,cute why doesn't he? my friends say that when a boyfriend calls you sexy its because he just want you to get in your pants and he don't love you?..is it true? ...

A.   26 October 2010: Girl sexy is a good thing its way better then beautiful and cute so love it and take it..xox... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't want a label?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have dated for 4 going on 5 months and for the other 2 months he wanted to be "talking" to fix our problems. But we never got back together. We are still "talking". Now he doens't want that. He doesn't want a label on it any ...

A.   26 October 2010: Its over move on fine a new guy he's don't want u back sorry for how I'm telling u but I've been their befor so it better to move on...xox ... (read in full...)

Young & Virgin, are they really that weak?

Q.   Of course, I have never had any relationship experience, but a lot of my friends were virgin and their first bf that had sex with them always a dodgebag asshole. Although, they tend to stick with those guys for a year or two before they realize it. ...

A.   26 October 2010: No they move on their just young and still have a lot to learn..... (read in full...)

Is he just messing with my head? Why is he saying this stuff?

Q.   I'd like people's opinions on this as i'm a bit confused. My friend, who used to be a fbw/buddy a while back has been acting a bit strangley towards me. He recently was chatting online and said he thought i was amazing and he always has but he lives ...

A.   26 October 2010: I hate to say it but he just messing with u move on don't pay any mind to it fine a nice guy and don't let him use u for sex any time soon guy like that like to keep friends as plan B so move on...xox ... (read in full...)

Still single after a year and wondering what could be wrong with me?

Q.   I am at the point where I really don't understand what's wrong with me. I am too young to be so depressed and too old to be desperate over such childish things. Being gay isn't easy but this is just ridiculous. I am going crazy over the fact tha...

A.   26 October 2010: Their is nothing wrong with u look at it as a good thing your single you could do so much with ur life u don't need a guy to make u happy have fun enjoy life and if u want a guy ask him out don't wait for them to ask u but look at it as time to ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid playing guitar hero at his house will lead to sex

Q.   So I am dating this guy and I want to take it slow with him but we are both very hot for each other, but I still want to take it slow and not have sex, we've been dating for only a week. He invited me to his house to play guitar hero, but I'm afraid ...

A.   25 October 2010: Well if u go to his house take friends more then one and don't go to his house alone you will cave and take it fast a week is to soon and that may be all he wants so go out for more time and do it when your ready .... ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about her with this guy??

Q.   hey m sam!! just want some advice on a crucial matter. theres this girl i love. we have been together for almost 3 years now. we are really good friends.we go out for dates, lunch , movies but are not officially dating. recently we had a figh...

A.   23 October 2010: Well if you care for her let her know. As for the new guy he will take the place of u fill in the space and become more then just a friend...So let her know u care and u want to work stuff out cuz u love her...Good luck Xox ... (read in full...)

Do people truely ever get over their first love?

Q.   So I'm just wondering about whether people have really gotten over their "first loves." I am 19 now and in university and am generally quite happy. However, I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years, nearly a year ago and even though I have ma...

A.   11 August 2010: Well I don't think we ever get over ower first love we just move on with life but there alway have a part of ower heart that care...xox... (read in full...)

Dumped because guy thought I still liked my ex!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend only dated for 4 days but we liked each other before that... and he dumped me because he thought i still liked my ex.. what do I do? i really like him and he seems fine without me...

A.   11 August 2010: Your better off without him it hurt now but move on the way he did...He was not that in to u sorry u fine someone new....xox... (read in full...)

We've been dating a year but he still won't introduce me to his family

Q.   Hi guys i need your advice..we've been together for a year..i loved him and he loved me.we are both happy and satisfied in our relationship.but sometimes i was so confused,that he dont wanted me to introduce to his family.he felt like ashamed with ...

A.   11 August 2010: well that not a good thing if he don't take u around family...I know from my pass so Think about it but don't push it about the family he might end it so good luck...x0x ... (read in full...)

I want to take it to the next step, but everything clenches up!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for awhile, and I really want to take the next step with him, but I;m a virgin. Every time we start, I tighten up and i mean i know its going to hurt to try. It always ends up with him not being able to enter. I really ...

A.   11 August 2010: Think of him he make you happy think of how you it will be with the guy u love making love use you mine and let yourself go free with him hope it helps...xox... (read in full...)

Any advice on breaking it off cleanly with my bf..who has anger issues, in his past

Q.   Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was truly in love with him but we had several problems during the relationship. He'd get incredibly angry for any reason, specially when he drank too much, and for 2 years he was addicted to cocai...

A.   5 January 2010: well you should not brakeup in person tell him over the phone I know you might feel bad but it safe for and as for being friends that sound good but make sher there is someone with you ..xox... (read in full...)

How do I ask out girls?

Q.   I have never been the best with talking to girls as I guess im just kind of shy in some aspects. Anyways, I would love to get some advice I could use in this upcoming school year!! Thanks so very much!...

A.   5 September 2009: well im one and I know I love it whe a guy gives me a look that hot he walks up to me to say hi the I say hi so small talk the ask her if she like to go out some time or ask for her phone numberI hope it halps...Good luck xoxo... (read in full...)

Should we just keep things friendly for now because of the age difference?

Q.   I recently met a guy at work who is 24. We have gone on several dates and text one another almost daily. He knows that I am 17 for five more months, but has said multiple times he will wait for me. We are very similar and get along so well, but ...

A.   5 September 2009: keep it friends till your older or 18teen it safe for him and you so dont do any thing till then just friends good luck.xox ... (read in full...)

How do I find peace withint myself?

Q.   My question is a little vague, but I would love to hear any advice that anyone is inspired to share. Thank you in advance. How do I find peace within myself, and hold onto it? I feel like I depend too much on others to sustain my happiness, es...

A.   5 September 2009: It seem to me you have a depression I have some friends that fealt the same way latter they found out it was a depression so thats what it seem like to me well take the test and fine out even if your not its good to know..xoxo h... (read in full...)

Why hasn't he made me his girlfriend?

Q.   ive been talking to this guy for about a year now. we arent officially together but the topic of being in a relationship has come up once or twice. me and him have been through a lot....i really like him, i may even love him. hes told me that he ...

A.   4 September 2009: well that sounds like a guy friend I had but people sed he was shy well he was in some ways but he had made me feel like I was his everything he called me his princess and I became more then a friend to him but he never made me his girlfriend he ... (read in full...)

Why do I have to wait hand and foot for this guy?

Q.   I'm sick of loving my ex boyfriend. After everything he has done to me, I still wait hand and foot for him! He has broken every promise in the book. He has cheated on me, tried to control my life, broken up with me, and gotten back together with me ...

A.   4 September 2009: Well it looks like he just playing with you he knows thats you are in love with him and you do any thing to make him happy... so he going to keep playing games with your heart. and as for you baby thats to bad that he left you like that its better ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend begged me to end things because he has feelings for someone else, but now he wants to give things another go!

Q.   my boyfriend and I have been together for 14months.we've had our ups and downs like every couple but we both love each other.however he has meet this girl through a friend a couple of times and has admitted that he has started to like her.yesterday ...

A.   3 September 2009: I think You should forget him after he did that to you... Dont for get all the pain he made you feel when he was out haveing his fun you dont need a guy or man like that you are a women not a toy to be push to one side for a new women No dont do ... (read in full...)

Why plead with me to be friends and then hide the fact from his friends?

Q.   I think I should not be in any contact with my ex-boyfriend, but your input would be nice. So, we've been broken up for 14 months now. Since January this year, he has been very friendly. Last month he visited me for the weekend and then insisted I ...

A.   1 March 2009: Sweets just forget move on with your and save your time for someone who's worth it. It's HIS loss not yours. xox ... (read in full...)

More than a friend?

Q.   Okay...well i like this guy...he texts me everyday...but i dont know if he likes me. he always starts the convo and he asked me for my number and he asked me together with him and we saw a movie but with a bunch of friends but i was the one who ...

A.   1 March 2009: Well sweets, there could be a liking but you should ask him! That's the only way you will know for sure. Have fun and hope it's what you want..xox..... (read in full...)

My girl gets angry at me for silly reasons. What can I do to stop her immature behaviour?

Q.   I am 27 years old and have been in a relationship with my girl for 4 years now. We met on the internet, and at first we were just internet friends, but one thing led to another and to make the long story short, she moved from her country to my own ...

A.   1 March 2009: well there not much u could do she the one that has to stop so she must care a lot about you so just give her a bit more love........... (read in full...)

What's happening to this world?!

Q.   What's happening to this world? Every time I'm here everyone is talking about sex, even 10-11 year olds, what happened to childhood? I didn't even know what sex meant when I was 10, there must be something to do, I can't take seeing some girls ...

A.   18 November 2008: I know it seem like every thing is all about sex that something that's always the topick of every day life I'm 18 teen and it seem like I was the only 18 teen year old that did talk sex and havein sex I just don't think I should just yet and all ... (read in full...)

Anyone have any blow job tips? I want to do it for my boyfriend.

Q.   Hi... Recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob. This was the first time I ever gave a blowjob to anyone, but I did it because I love him. When I was doing it he took a while to cum and my jaw became so sore, my nose even started running, and my ...

A.   4 November 2008: I know just how u feel I did start crying my eyes got tears in them and I so had to stop I'm also new to going down on my guy but I feel so bad that each time he's so close I stop or pull out cuz I feel like I need a moment so don't feel bad u get ... (read in full...)

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