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writes:i just lost my virginity, is it normal for it to do nothing for you? i didnt enjoy it at all! and im not thinking wil i ever enjoy sex!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): yeah i agree with the person before me who called you sweetness
you always see these romantic passionate scenes on tv where they're having orgasmic sex but they're never talking
talking will make it much easier, you can say whether you're nervous, you can say whether you like it or not and most of all you can tell them that you love them
we're not born naturally knowing how to have fantastic sex so practice makes perfect (another thing i swiped from below which i agree with)
so i wish you good luck in the future and ta-ta =]
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
The first time you ever have sex will probably not be the best sex of your life. You've never done it before with each other, and it can be a little weird. Once you get more comfortable with each other it will get better. CD had good advice, have a night or two where you just concentrate on getting to know each other's bodies. What you like, what you don't like. Get used to each other - explore. Don't even bother with have sex, just have fun with each other. The sex will get better with time.
And remember, if you are having sex, communication should come easy. Talk to each other! Sex will get even better if you talk to each other and know what's going on inside of your heads.
It'll get better, sweetness. Once everyone is relaxed around each other, it'll get much better.
xxIndia
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 February 2007):
 It was awful because you were with the wrong person, the feelings just weren't there. You were maybe too tense too. Once you're with someone you REALLY love and care for it will be magic! :o)
Eve
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Practice makes perfect! And this saying applies to sex as well. The more you do it the more you'll get the hang of it and you'll both enjoy it more. Try new things and see what he likes and in time he will learn what you like. Buy a magazine with some sex tips and try them out, see which ones you like and which ones work for you.Try something new everytime. And soon you'll start enjoying it. Don't give up, hang in there! :)
If at first you don't reach orgasm, try try try again. Practice makes perfect. Don't give up.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 February 2007):
 It's totally normal, especially if the guy was a virgin too because when neither of you know what ur doing it's not a recipe for successful sex. I suggest taking nights where you concentrate solely on the other person so you can learn how to make him feel good and vice versa. It will get better I promise!
CD
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