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Ever since I can remember people have always fascinated me. I seemed to be very adept at solving people’s “life” problems and I never tired of the constant flow of friends asking for my help. I have always been a great listener and have a lot of patience and empathy for people and have written for advice columns in the past.
I am a Relationships Councillor and Life Coach and have a special aptitude with people. I have been active on this site for a number of years. I'm very much a positive thinker and hate being around negative people. Life is for living, it's too short to moan all the time. I'm determined, very spiritual, grounded, independent, strong willed and love life. Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.
If you realized just how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 May 2007: Tell him to move out, (sooner rather than later or it might be YOU he hits next time,) give him the divorce and let him see his son, he has that right (as long as he sees him sober.)
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 25 March 2007: You KNOW the answer, you said so yourself, you just need to put it into practise. For one, you admitted you have too much time on your hands and are bored. You're using this time to get on his bad side. I would advise you to find something to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I would meet with him. When he does come to the house then let him know you're glad he wanted to talk because YOU wanted to talk too. Then let him know that you had already decided that him moving back was NOT going to happen. YOU had changed your ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I was shocked to hear how you just rolled over and let him back into your home so easily! Things OBVIOUSLY aren't going well with this other woman but do you really want him back in the house the way things stand? Do you realise the life you're ... (read in full...)
How can I make my friend feel better about herself?
Q. Quick question: What do you say to a friend who has low self-esteem and thinks that the guy she's dating thinks you're prettier and sexier than she is? She's having a tough time with this relationship, this guy won't commit, and she says you've j...
A. 5 March 2007: Thanks for those kind words, I really appreciate it. Do keep me updated and let me know how it goes... and let me know if you enjoyed the movie and if it made a difference.
Eve... (read in full...)
We're so close, I really love this guy but he just wants to be friends, what can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need advice please! I am in love with this guy… and have been since I met him almost 7 months ago. After a couple of months, I told him I like him and after a while asked him how he felt. He said he only liked me as a mate. So, I wa...
A. 25 February 2007: I was so pleased to see you took my advice and smiled when I read how he kept trying to get in touch. Yep.... he missed you all right! ;o)
Well done! I hope everything works out just great for you.
Eve... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 21 February 2007: Keep yourself looking your best, go out and meet other people (like your city friend) it will keep your confidence boosted and that's what you need right now. Continue to let your ex husband see that there is more to life than HIM! Try and ... (read in full...)
Is he still holding out for this female friend or am I still in with a chance?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about two months now. He lives about 2 hours away, so we've went out about 6 times. He's quite shy, especially at first, and has only had one girlfriend who broke up with him 3 years ago. After the first date, he was ...
A. 21 February 2007: He got scared because he's realised he does have feelings for you. He probably didn't realise how emotions can grab you as deeply as they do. Although he asked you out to begin with he still seems a bit overwhelmed about the intensity a ... (read in full...)
Should I give it a go with him, I think he may be too clingy and I don't want to hurt him
Q. Hi Cupids, I do not have a clue what is up with me. I really liked a guy for some time back when I was at uni, about 5 years ago, we went on a couple of dates but nothing serious came of it as I really enjoyed going out having fun and neither ...
A. 19 February 2007: You seen this man as a challenge, now that you know he's smitten with you, the challenge has gone! I would tell him you like and respect him as a person but you don't want to have another serious relationship with ANYONE at the moment. If you feel ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do? Should I wait for her or what?
Q. Hi, I give advice to people on here but i can never seem to give myself advice if that makes sense. I'm stuck in a rutt at the moment where i'm in love with this girl who i met through a friend. We have got to know each other really well and i've...
A. 19 February 2007: There is absolutely nothing you can do here until SHE gets out of this relationship and the sooner she does the better. I would advise you to remain friends with her and stay on the side lines for a bit in case he thinks she's been seeing someone ... (read in full...)
My bfs dad caught us after oral sex and now I am so ashamed!!
Q. Well, i was at my bfs house..and well his family are big nascar fans, and since they were watching the race..my bf and i decided to have oral sex... I was receiving..so when we were done i started buttoning my pants and his dad walked in..and ...
A. 18 February 2007: You need to learn to keep your pants on girl! There will be time enough for that to happen. You have to learn to respect people's homes and people's rules. His dad was probably thoroughly disgusted with you. Now it's up to YOU to prove you're ... (read in full...)
I need help getting my homesick and bored bf to agree to do stuff.
Q. My boyfriend moved across country to be with me (I didn't ask him to, he made the decision on his own). We've now been living together a little under a year. I work full time and take a full load at college, so I don't get to spend as much time ...
A. 18 February 2007: Does your boyfriend have a job? You need to sit down and talk to him, ask him if he's happy, is he homesick? Would he like to move back home again? It seems to me there is a breakdown in communication here. Try and get him to open up to you ... (read in full...)
How can I help my bf communicate??
Q. Hello I was wondering if you could shed some light on this situation. Many of my friends have been in relationships where they have got really close to a guy and fallen in love. Only to find for whatever reason (maybe failed past relationships and ...
A. 18 February 2007: You've been with your boyfriend for 4 years but recently he seems to have become very introvert is that right? Something has happened to make him feel this way. Did you have an argument with him? Did you ask to get engaged, live together, marry ... (read in full...)
Did she just use me for attention and love??
Q. We work together. She was a good friend whom I had feelings for. She already has a guy and so turned down my overtures. But later, I found out that she has this flirtatious streak in her where she loves getting attention from guys. So I told her ...
A. 18 February 2007: If she's Indian then the marriage is probably arranged and she feels she has to go through with it which is sad. She will never be happy with this man, especially if she doesn't feel anything for him now. I think she does have feelings for you but ... (read in full...)
No sex with my 'friend with benefits'...what does this mean??
Q. Me and this guy have been together in a manner of speaking for a year. We slept with each other to start with and then became friends with benefits. Now Im confused and I think he is too because in the last 2 weeks. I have seen him a fair few time...
A. 18 February 2007: "Friends with benefits" usually means a sexual relationship with another person with no strings attached. You are friends, sleep together but there is no commitment. If you want to have some form of commitment with him then I suggest you cut out ... (read in full...)
Going out of my mind over my workmate!
Q. I am totally going out of my mind for this guy i work with, who is 30. I have been working there since the summer and am not a permanent member of staff. At first i thought he diden't like me, then something happened, he started acting differently ...
A. 18 February 2007: You need to try and talk to him for starters and not just smile at him all the time. Ask him what he's doing for lunch, he could be just as shy and scared to approach you in case YOU give him the brush off. Don't ask him out, let that come from ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 18 February 2007: Hey if you want this to work you need to listen to my advice! How many times did I tell you to play it cool with him, being friendly without being needy! The minute you get by yourself you call him and ask him over????? Jeeeeeeeeeeze.... wake up ... (read in full...)
How do you get the passion back in a relationship?
Q. How do you get the passion back in a relationship. We love each other but she said she has lost the passion....
A. 18 February 2007: Tell me more about your relationship. How long have you been together? How old are you both? Why does she get angry? What are her good points? If you can fill me in a bit more then I can try and give you some good pointers. Oh, and what are ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's 57 and married! Do you think he's using me or will he ever leave his wife?
Q. Am 17 and i have been going with a 57 year old married man for 6 months. We really love each other to bits, but i feel that he is never going to leave his wife for me! He says all the time that he wishes he doesnt have to leave me when hes going ...
A. 18 February 2007: Please listen carefully to what I have to say to you okay? HE NEVER WILL LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR YOU! You are only his bit on the side and you always will be love. He has absolutely no intentions of leaving her for you or for anyone else, you are ... (read in full...)
I am very insecure about my bf's past love relationships! Is this the norm..do others feel this way?
Q. i'm insecure over my b/f's past and i get jealous thinking about girls he spent time with, slept with, had fun with..I have been with him for almost 2 years and i still get like this..he has given me cards that in it have written things such as ...
A. 18 February 2007: He seems to love you very much. You just need to believe in yourself more and build up your confidence. It's YOU he's with, not any of these other women. How you're feeling is normal, a lot of women and men get jealous, thinking of their partners ... (read in full...)
I've asked a girl out and told her to take her friend but I don't know who I can take to be with her friend???
Q. there's this girl i really like. she's shy and really hard to talk to. i asked her last year and she said she's dont wanna be in relationship right now. since than we have progressed so much. we talk everyday on msn for at least an hour, we dont ...
A. 18 February 2007: There must be one friend you can trust to come along with you. Even if it's a friend that doesn't know her at all, just go out for the evening all 4 of you and take it slowly but the main thing is to enjoy yourselves and have fun.
Eve... (read in full...)
My fiance posted a home video of me on a hard core porn site and when i found it it had 18554
Q. I dont know what to do, just after xmas my fiance posted a home video of me on a hard core porn site and when i found it it had 18554 hits i felt totally disgusted he showed no real remorse !just said he was proud of me !! I also found out that he ...
A. 18 February 2007: Can I also add that this should be a lesson to you in the future. If you're going to play with fire (ie have movies like that taken of you) then you need to be aware of what the consequences could be. Making love to your partner is a very intimate ... (read in full...)
My fiance posted a home video of me on a hard core porn site and when i found it it had 18554
Q. I dont know what to do, just after xmas my fiance posted a home video of me on a hard core porn site and when i found it it had 18554 hits i felt totally disgusted he showed no real remorse !just said he was proud of me !! I also found out that he ...
A. 18 February 2007: First of all I would get in contact with the porn site and let them know that this was sent WITHOUT your approval and could they remove it immediately! (Even send it back to you.) Then you have absolutely nothing to do with the creep. If he truly ... (read in full...)
I just want him to show some interest in things, is this so wrong?
Q. Hi everyone...I'm starting to feel dissatisfied with my relationship with my boyfriend. He's very nice and loving and all that, but that's about it. There are no special days, doing nothing that makes me feel special or anything that takes my breath ...
A. 18 February 2007: You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him you feel neglected, unloved and taken for granted. He needs to reassure you by his ACTIONS not by his words. It's easy enough to say "don't be silly babe, of course I love you," they can ... (read in full...)
How can I make my friend feel better about herself?
Q. Quick question: What do you say to a friend who has low self-esteem and thinks that the guy she's dating thinks you're prettier and sexier than she is? She's having a tough time with this relationship, this guy won't commit, and she says you've j...
A. 18 February 2007: Go over to her house one night or invite her to your house and watch a movie called "The Secret!" It will cost you $4.95 to watch from your PC but you can watch it instantly! It will change her whole life and whole way of thinking. She is ... (read in full...)
We're so close, I really love this guy but he just wants to be friends, what can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need advice please! I am in love with this guy… and have been since I met him almost 7 months ago. After a couple of months, I told him I like him and after a while asked him how he felt. He said he only liked me as a mate. So, I wa...
A. 18 February 2007: I think it would be better to stay off the PC for a while. You could block him but if another friend knows you're on and tells him then he'll wonder how he's blocked so be careful there. Spending time with your family is a good idea too! As far ... (read in full...)
I asked a guy out and he said he wasn't sure, he wants to get to know me better, what do I do now?
Q. If you ask a guy out, but he says he's not sure, is that good or bad? i asked this guy out, but he said he's not sure, and want's 2 no me better(at least, thats what i thought he said- i was quite shocked that i had the guts to ask, and didnt really ...
A. 18 February 2007: If he hasn't answered your email then he doesn't want to go out with you, at least not at the moment. And your friends teasing him won't be helping either, they will only be pushing him further away from you. He's very young (as are you) and ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my cousin, should I tell her?
Q. hello agony aunts i have had a crush for my cousin for more than 2 years now and they are not going away, my problem now is that i have been dreaming about her and she is also going around my head 24/7, is this normal, as i have asked once but g...
A. 17 February 2007: I agree with Kenny here love. You've already asked her out and she turned you down. No amount of pandering after her will change that, it will only make her go off you even more. Take the initiative here, do your own thing, go out with other ... (read in full...)
I think he's using me and cheating on me! What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing one have my friends i have no for a while and i think he is cheating on me or just using me what should i do? plez help me out i mean he dont tell me he loves me and he only kiss me 2 times and we have been seeing each other for a ...
A. 17 February 2007: Don't be so friendly towards him and DON'T let him kiss you again until you're sure in your own mind. Don't tell him the reason but distance yourself from him a little, don't be so friendly with him. If he asks you to hang out some nights tell him ... (read in full...)
I get angry when my bf drops everything for his adult children and doesn't do the same for me! What can I do?
Q. i am dating an older man in his 60's. we have been dating 2years, 2 months. he is wonderful to me but he will not get engaged to me. however, if his two older children want him to do something or have a need, it only takes 1 minute for him to ...
A. 17 February 2007: The more you go on about wanting to get engaged to him the more set in his ways he'll be! Try some reverse psychology on him. Say to him one night... "you know honey, I've been thinking, getting engaged is a silly idea, I'm a strong independent ... (read in full...)
Is she being emotionally abusive? I'm beginning to think I'm the problem, what do I do here?
Q. I'm 26 and have been dating my gf (20) for 4/5 months now, known her (off and on) for 2 years, first 2 months were great, but things nosedived and have been progressively getting worse the last 3 months. First off she tries to make all my plans an...
A. 17 February 2007: Why are you with this woman? She's destroying you! First 2 months were great and now things have taken a nose dive! You've already broken up 4 times. The plain and simple truth here is you and her just aren't compatible. THAT'S why there's ... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to open up more? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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A. 17 February 2007: Your girlfriend has her family around to help her through this if she wants anyone's help but I think she's worried more about you to be honest. You're still very young and you only have one mother, she doesn't want to burden you with her problems ... (read in full...)
Have I scared him off already? What do you think?
Q. Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. we instantly clicked. he was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. i was kinda ...
A. 17 February 2007: DON'T get back in touch with him. You've told him what you'd like to do, now leave it! It might be a game he's playing with you, holding back to see just how much you're going to grovel to him. Keep your self respect here! If he wants you.... ... (read in full...)
Always been a faithful wife but another man is interested and I'm tempted! What should I do?
Q. i need help! i am a married woman who has been faithful to her husband, but the problem is, hes away working for long periods sometimes 2-3 months. its not possible for me to go with him, but i miss him and i get so lonely sometimes, another married ...
A. 17 February 2007: You remain faithful to your husband, THAT'S what you're going to do! If you really love your husband then you would never go there, no matter how tempting it sounds. Think of it this way, he's out there making money to give YOU (and him) a better ... (read in full...)
Always been a faithful wife but another man is interested and I'm tempted! What should I do?
Q. i need help! i am a married woman who has been faithful to her husband, but the problem is, hes away working for long periods sometimes 2-3 months. its not possible for me to go with him, but i miss him and i get so lonely sometimes, another married ...
A. 17 February 2007: You remain faithful to your husband, THAT'S... (read in full...)
Do I belong to a family of sexually obsessed maniacs? How do I prevent myself from thinking the same way?
Q. I am getting way too much obsessed about sex as i am getting near to my engagement. I don't know whether this is true, but my family members, especially my elder brother and father seem to have a concept of "marriage = abundance of sex" and it means ...
A. 17 February 2007: I would just laugh off anything they say to you. At the end of the day it's between you and your partner what happens. Have you been intimate with her yet? How long have you been together? When are you getting engaged?
Eve... (read in full...)
What do I do here? Do I stick with him or let him go for now?
Q. I am desperate for help. I am depressed and feel lost. I will try my best to make it short. I met a man 1 year ago, who was still living with his wife, and they had a very young baby. He fell out of love with her and was contemplating le...
A. 17 February 2007: I sympathise with the situation you're in, it must be really wearing you down. He is in his own place now and she is in hers. He has looked after her very well already, he's bought her a new car and a new house to live in so I'd say he's pretty ... (read in full...)
He was the love of my life...how can he stop loving me..just like that? Help me understand
Q. Please can I have some advice! I met my NOW ex- boyfriend 8 months ago. From the very first moment he saw me I could see he fancied me.. he even stuttered when he spoke to me. He made all the effort and I was chuffed because all the other girls in ...
A. 17 February 2007: Normally in a relationship the first 6 months or so are rosy, everything is going well and you can't think of anyone but the person you're with but as time goes on and reality sinks in, things change. The "honeymoon period" as it is sometimes ... (read in full...)
How long will it take to get over a six year relationship?
Q. how long will it take to get over a six yr relationship? i'm 23 and i really do feel like he is the one....
A. 17 February 2007: If you know that it's definitely over and there is no way back then you have to accept that and try to move on. If he's broken up with you it's either because he's found someone else he desires more or he didn't find you compatible with him. ... (read in full...)
I'm bullied at school and everyone hates me! What can I do?
Q. Everyone In my Year Hates Me. I only have one friend and everyone else picks on me in lessons and Kicks me and hits me and says its an accident. I told my teachers but they dont Do anything. I dont want to move schools because I dont want to leave ...
A. 17 February 2007: Bullying has been going on for years and years and can make what should be the best years of a child's life, the worst! It may be a good idea for you to keep notes of things that are said and done to you as they happen. This is always evidence you ... (read in full...)
A boy asked me out 6 months ago and I said no, now I can't stop thinking about him. How do I start talking to him again?
Q. i've written before about this guy who asked me out like 6 months ago and i said no but now i think i want him back. i don't know if i want him as a friend or more, right now i really just want to get my friendship back with him because we don't ...
A. 17 February 2007: Why don't you call him and tell him you miss him as a friend. Ask him how he's been and if he fancies hanging out with you sometime. There's no reason why you can't both be friends again and just take things very slowly. Get to know one another a ... (read in full...)
How do I win her back? I broke up with her and want her back but she's having none of it and says I'm too late.
Q. recently dumped my girlfriend who I'd been going out for nearly for no real reason. I was not in contact with her again until 3 weeks later when I called her to see how she was getting on. She said she was good and had not missed me. after our brief ...
A. 17 February 2007: She's made it very clear to you that she's not interested in a romantic relationship with you any more. She already told you she didn't miss you and can only offer you friendship.
I would move on and find someone else, I really think you're h... (read in full...)
Why am I so sensitive sometimes?
Q. hey! im 16 and i have a boyfriend that i have been wiv for a little less than 2 months. its all going really well and everything. but the wierd thing is that sometimes when i am with him, if he says a comment that offends me - such as yesterda...
A. 17 February 2007: You need to build up your confidence a bit more, that's all. You sound very sensitive and unsure of yourself where your boyfriend is concerned. He's with you because he wants to be so don't worry so much about it. He's obviously opening his mouth ... (read in full...)
It's went from a kiss on the cheek to a kiss on the lips. Is this a sign that our friendship is getting closer?
Q. I have known my friend for about a year now, we go out usually with her sister and her hubby, whenever we say goodbye I give her a kiss on cheek as friends do, however, this went to kiss on cheek hug and anotha kiss on cheek, and over the last month ...
A. 17 February 2007: It sounds to me that things are moving on nicely with both of you. Why don't you ask her out on a proper date. Just the two of you? Take her for a meal and let her know you really like her and take it from there. I'm sure she'll feel exactly the ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband have to work all the time? I mean it's work work work all the time!
Q. i have a question. My husband he works all the time from 6:00p.m. to 6:00a.m. and my mother will have my kids into i find a job and get things going for my self and my kids and even on days he has off he might still have to go in. Now there would ...
A. 17 February 2007: Your husband may genuinely be a hard worker. On the other hand he may be cheating on you. Follow him to work one day when he's called in unexpectedly and see where he goes. If you can't do that then call his work and ask to speak to him, you ... (read in full...)
My husband is communicating with an old hihg school girlfriend, how should I handle these emails?
Q. My husband has been emailing his old high school girlfriend who is a single mom. He states that he has looked to her for advice regarding having a teenage daugther. The emails also show that he has been confiding in her with our marriage problems ...
A. 17 February 2007: Has he shown you these emails freely or have you managed to find them when he's not been around? I think he's on very dangerous ground here. He's telling this SINGLE woman things about you, mainly problems in the marriage. She obviously fancies ... (read in full...)
Is he still holding out for this female friend or am I still in with a chance?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about two months now. He lives about 2 hours away, so we've went out about 6 times. He's quite shy, especially at first, and has only had one girlfriend who broke up with him 3 years ago. After the first date, he was ...
A. 17 February 2007: You have scared him off when you said you thought kissing was making a commitment to you. Just the very word "commitment" to some guys makes them want to run a mile. Next time he brings up this "friend," ask him how he feels about her. Tell him ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to love a celebrity?
Q. Is it weird to love a celebrity more than normal? Do I like that celebrity or is just fan love?...
A. 16 February 2007: I'm sure everyone has had a crush in their lives at one time or another. It's a perfectly normal emotion and shows you're growing up. Here is a website that will help you a lot. Have a read at it and you'll see yourself that this is normal at ... (read in full...)
Should I send her things in the post or should I meet up with her?
Q. so my GF and i broke up about 1 month ago. we were still talking until last week when i told her i needed "space", to think whether i could remain her "best friend", something she asked of me... we haven't spoken in a week. i receive a sms si...
A. 16 February 2007: I would send her the things like she asked. I wouldn't ask her to meet up, not yet anyway. That will only make you look foolish as you told her you needed space away from her to sort your head out about the "best friends" issue. No... send her ... (read in full...)
We're so close, I really love this guy but he just wants to be friends, what can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need advice please! I am in love with this guy… and have been since I met him almost 7 months ago. After a couple of months, I told him I like him and after a while asked him how he felt. He said he only liked me as a mate. So, I wa...
A. 16 February 2007: One way to see how he really feels about you is to have some space from him. It might be that he really does like you as more than a friend but he just doesn't know that yet as you are always together. And of course you have both gotten a lot ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 February 2007: Oh dear, what a weekend you had. Nothing worse than being with someone you want so much and them to treat you this way. You have to resort to the fact he's made his mind up. "You can take a horse to the water but you can't make it drink." You've ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you're doing great! You could have flown at him a number of times yet you've kept it together EVEN with your cold so well done there! DON'T ask him to stay over. When he comes to visit be friendly and pleasant. Remember, the plan is to ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: Next time he comes over tell you you're sorry for being such a bitch to him and if you could turn the clock back you would. For the sake of your son though you want to be able to be friends with him and hope he agrees. If you prove by your ACTIONS ... (read in full...)
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