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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I look non-chalant and over it in front of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Hi I'm going to a concert tomorrow but it turns out my ex is also going. I know the chances of me seeing him at all are slim but I don't want to freak out in front of him. We haven't really spoken sine we split and he has looked like he is completely over me already (we only ... (108 words)

I think his wife told him to stay away from me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - He and I are both married and were friends. I have a strong suspicion that his wife has told him not to see me anymore and has essentially cut him out of my life. She thinks I am a big threat and does not like the fact that he is attracted to me. I miss him terribly and did not ... (279 words)

How do you talk to guys you like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a crush on this guy for several years but i'm kind of shy. Me and him are sort of friends but we don't talk to each other often. a few weeks ago he started texting me after he broke up with his girlfriend and we hung out once or twice (but i was really nervous) and ... (146 words)

How many women has he cheated on me with: 2 or 3?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has cheated on me with 2 other women that I found out about about 2 and a half years ago. It's not like I found out about 1 other women, forgave him and he did it again. It is a case of finding out about 2 at the same time. I also found out he had been joining ... (304 words)

Did he ever actually value me or was I a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i worked with a guy for 3 years and thought he viewed me as a good friend-he always referred to me as a sister ! i really cared about him and did all i could to help including saving him from getting sacked, and helped with work and all sorts. then i noticed this year the ... (219 words)

Are men okay with a bra on during sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If a girl has messed up breasts and would prefer to keep her bra on during sex and not let you see them would you be okay with that?... (29 words)

Cosmic Bad-Timing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Why is it that whenever I like a girl they always like someone else or are in a relationship, and then when a girl likes me I like someone else? is there anything I could do to change this?... (39 words)

Was I a bad person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A year ago I worked in a restaurant I absolutely adored. I thought I had some really great friends, especially one girl I got really close to. We were best friends I thought, I even let her stay at my place for a couple weeks when she didst have a home and taking vacations ... (352 words)

Is he putting his son's needs or her needs before mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Would love opinions on this. When dating a man with a child and exwife, is it wrong for my feelings to be taken into consideration too? I would never keep someone away from their child, in this case a teenager (they share custody). My problem is the ex calls my boyfrie... (188 words)

Is this a normal FWB relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I was just wondering if this is a normal fwb relationship me and this man are having sex and we can't get enough of each other this has been going on since february we have a really good time together get on really well we are planning on having a night out toge... (120 words)

If she's home alone I think she's cheating, if I hear guys around her I think she's cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I always think my girl is cheating we haven't been together that long. she always talking about what side conversation her and her boss have like ( her being bet to run in the rain for extra money because they're bored at work). I knew her before we got together she was ... (208 words)

His post-steroid mood changes are getting to be ridiculous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend does steroids and he has constant mood changes, they never end. (i didnt know until we had been dating for about 5 months) He just ended a cycle and its slowly getting worse. Can anyone give me advice? He has constant mood changes and he is always changing his ... (168 words)

Don't want mum to know I'm on the pill - how can I fake a period?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This sounds like a stupid question, but there is a reason behind it. I'm 16, so please don't lecture me on legality. Myself and my boyfriend are planning on taking our relationship 'to the next level' soon, and decided to take some precautions- neither of us particularly wan... (180 words)

Was I wrong for getting a lawyer? His custody demands and visitation nonsense are a problem!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Going through an divorce, and its killing me. the problem is we cant agree on visitation. He calls at the last minute or he dont show or call. If I agree, he doesn't wasnt to tell me where my daughter will be. Im eight months ptegnant. He is not tne father it is causing me to ... (78 words)

I lost my temper and swore at my uncle and now I'm seen as the 'bad guy'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I feel the need to ask for honest anonomous opinion here! Ive recently had a fall out with my uncle over a text i sent. he called me shouting and arguing with me. I have never had anyone talk to me like that let alone my own uncle. (i was shaking and held the phone o... (358 words)

I'm confused by his letter, is this just a friendly comment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Long story short i ended up falling for a guy i had a "casual" thing with and things ended badly. He got back with an ex girlfriend which broke my heart but then me and him ended up carrying on seeing each other (big mistake) and i eventually told him i couldn't see him ... (261 words)

One of the girls is oblivious to how awesome she is, the other one is nice but a big flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - okay so i walk home everyday with two beautiful girls who are thought were friends or something but apparently they really dont like each other and basically one is kinda oblivious to how awesome she is so when the other one is there she kind of goes all quiet and jsut lets the ... (119 words)

How can I stop myself from thinking he's cheating on me? He's not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4817 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - No matter how hard I try and how much I've been through with my boyfriend with him trying to reassure me and show that he loves me, I still find it hard to accept. After we went through a ton of issues because of my distrust in him (with no grounds because he's never done ... (208 words)

My boyfriend is bringing back my feelings of inferiority toward other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can tell that my boyfriend likes pretty girls. Even though when he's with me, I caught him having a string of messages with a girl whom he told me often that she's good-looking. And he admits that she's got very good complexion and looks amazing. It makes me very insecure. It ... (169 words)

I just want women to like me for who I am and hate the idea of having to fake a new personality to become attractive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I'm a 17 year old boy and I'm in my last year of college. Being completely brutal here I am not great looking and I am about 12.5 stone at 5'11'' so I have some work to do on that front. I've been told by mates that I have a great personality and am a "nice" guy. To ... (298 words)

My boyfriend is constantly questioning me about other guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! So I really need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. Living together for 2. I'm 20 he's 24. We just moved to another city because it's closer to my job. We pull in and I realize that this guy I work with lives across the stree... (460 words)

My boyfriend has a need to always comment on attractive women he sees!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an otherwise great relationship with my boyfriend of two years. We have a lot of fun and have lots of things in common. My family and friends think he is a great guy too. However there is one thing that really bugs me. Whenever we are watching tv or out for the ... (198 words)

I invited my crush to my party, but am afraid my friends will make me look bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I have a little predicament and need some advice! I'm having a Halloween party in a few weeks and somehow got up the guts to ask my crush (as well as some other friends) from church. Now, I've also invited people that are more of a partying bunch. I don't want to tell my ... (105 words)

Do I tell new boyfriends about my past as an abuser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I tell my future boyfriends about my abusive past? This might be a bit long, but I want to be completely honest here. To give some more information, about 4-5 years ago I was in a relationship where I abused the man I was with, both physically and mentally. When I... (760 words)

Will my husband soon feel we are ready to have children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband and i have been married for about a year and been together for little over a year now.i'm 22 and he's 30. we both want kids at some point but had said we aren't ready. i'm on the pill, but i am starting to feel ready for us to be considering kids soon.however i don't ... (101 words)

Can retroactive jealousy turn into violence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - can retroactive jealousy eventually turn into the male or female to get violent?... (13 words)

Horrible long-distance story, cold feet, not enough love, no balls, or a combination of all three?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My apologies in advance, for this is going to be a very long story. My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year. He is a 29 year old German scientist and we met when I was there for a summer research program. At the end of the summer we confes... (1539 words)

What can I do besides kegels to stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - omg. . .agony friends i need help. .its embarrasing though but you helped me before here.lately when i had sex my vagina farts when he pulls it out. It has never happened before.what can i do besides kegels?... (38 words)

Is it better to continue with this and see where it goes, or is this something I should stay away from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have found an amazing gal, she has been out of a relationship for one year. Her relationship was controling and abusive. We have only know each other for a couple of weeks, and i know it is short, but she tells me she does not want anything serious and that she is looking to ... (296 words)

How do I start talking to the younger girl I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How to start talking with this girl, shes 14 and damn beautiful i am a highschool student shes always with her freinds i know i can win her over if she becomes my friend but dont have the daring to talk to her have never talked with her till date she knows me ,any solution ... (58 words)

As soon as I speak to a guy they think I'm in love with them and avoid me! How can I stop this from happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I'm just sourcing for advice on this. I'm quite a reserved(not necessarily shy) person but learning to speak out and engage. I don't have many friends so I thought I should work on that. The thing is, i noticed that while girls are fine with me, everytime I try ... (96 words)

We live with an older friend of my husband's and while she has been very helpful to us, she refers to him as her husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i really need help please. my husband and i have been married for almost a year now. we have been living with a friend of his who is older and is like a mom to him since we can't afford a place of our own yet and she helps us out with finances. problem is she always tells ... (218 words)

No condom for anal sex? Is it safe?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is my second boyfriend.. I am still virgin... and he is too. At this time, He wish something for his birthday. He wants anal sex :| at first I really do not agree about it but I love him I want to make him happy. I am a little bit worried but he is not worried at ... (84 words)

I know I don't have much of a chance but is there anything I can do to win her over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am deeply in love with her for past 2 years,i proposed her many times like a jerk that was a mistake i made, now not in contact with her for 3 months,she's least interested in talking to me and she finds me irritating,i am still in love with her, are there any chances of me ... (91 words)

Should I just stop talking to the guy I met online? I think he is talking to other women as well as me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I used an online dating site for the first time. I met a man that I was interested in meeting. We have been emailing each other once a day for 1 week. He keeps pointing out how much we have in common and how great I seem. He closed his account on the site... (174 words)

Is 9 months too little time to start a family in our circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I dont really have a "problem" so to speak but more a situation that I need advice on, I hope some of you can help! :) I have been with a lovely girl now for 9 months, and we had an amazing 5 or 6 month start to our relationship that felt like nothing either of us had... (378 words)

My wife doesn't like me singing sad songs, will this affect our relationship? Or will she just get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a very healthy relationship with my American wife here for the last ten months. We met through Online dating and remained in a relationship for one year before getting married December last year in Pakistan and then moved to USA after one week of our wedding ... (362 words)

I didnt cheat on him but he wont listen! I feel like I've blown it for good, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I have been reading through post but one seem to match my sitation so I'll try and explain So, I've known this (guy now my ex) for about 4 years but we only really started dating in April. Everything was strange because he'd take ages to respond emails and would... (418 words)

How to keep independence once you have had a child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have just found out I am pregnant. My bf and I have been together for 2 years and we have just bought a house together so the timing is good. I’m 38 and he is 37 and it’s our first child. We have had a lot of problems in our relationship and it has not been easy. I had a ... (253 words)

Is this evidence of palpable emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - when a man and a woman who know each other for many yrs and rarely talk, when the have a nervous conversation, could this be evidence of palpable emotions? the man would ask the woman "how are you?" the woman would say "i am ok under the circumstances". the moment she says ... (97 words)

He doesn't want a relationship but said he doesn't want me talking to other men, what is that all about?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so confuse the guy that im be have sex with that said he didnt want a realationship just told me that i cant talk 2 any other men what all that about i was talk to him and his workmate that is my bestfriend ... (45 words)

I'm in love with my best friend and it's complicated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple months ago, I finally told my female best friend that I've had feelings for her for 3 years. She is also lesbian, but she admitted that likes someone she'll never get (another married woman who's 10 years older than we are) and she can't get over her because she's also ... (209 words)

Neither my cousin or I are getting our sexual needs met by our partners and are thinking of meeting up once in a while to 'satisfy' each other, any opinions?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

12 October 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Ok, I am a 28 year old married male that has a 29 year old married female cousin. I have been married for 5 years and she has been married for 1. We are first cousins and have always been very close growing up. She only has sisters and I only have brothers so it was always ... (280 words)

I keep having dreams about a girl.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I'm in love with this girl because I saw her at a store the other day and my heart started pounding really fast, I got light headed, I was weak in the knees, and I got dizzy. Here's the catch: she's my best friend's sister. Let's call my friend A and his sister B. I'... (172 words)

I've confronted her but she continues to behave the same way, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - naturally i am not the most trusting person however recently my gf has started doing some things which seem to me to just be plain suspicious. she is never without her phone and will never allow me to see it and a few times i have caught her on the phone and as soon as she sees ... (174 words)

Deciding not to use condoms....how safe is the pill really?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just started dating a new guy and have gone on the pill. We've both been checked out and are looking to not use condoms soon. I'm just worried about the possibility of getting pregnant. I know that the pill is 99.9999999% effective - but what does this mean in reality? In ... (92 words)

My feelings for my female boss are affecting my work! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a workplace issue. I'm pretty goshdarn smitten with my female manager. I'm not so sure if it's 'I want to date you feelings' so much as a sort of daughter-mother type yearning. Either way, it is making my work environment very stressful. I cannot take my mind off... (102 words)

Am I being too jealous and paranoid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my problem is this my girlfriend of 3 years is making me very uncomfortable with her behaviour. She is texting an ex school friend of hers and has admitted this guy likes her and that if she wasnt with me she would probably go for him. The thing is I have caught her twice... (325 words)

Should I get back with my FWB? Even though he may have a girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey quick question .... I Have a friend with benefit/sex buddy. Were both single, I'm single because I can't find a Guy. Its like the guys That are my type are GONE! I wish I could but I've been single for years. Even tho I'm only 20 lol. I've had 1 boyfriend but I was 17 a... (288 words)

I thought things would get better once we were married but nothing has changed, what is the way forward for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi you all helped in the past with priceless help, now i need you guys again. I married a lady that i was so in love with. This happened 9 weeks ago, now it feels like i been married for 9 years. nothing has changed. Is it me, my way of thinking, what is it. Feels like ... (228 words)

How do I make my LDR b/f understand that his actions make me feel like I'm not worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of three years. As of these last few months we both are very busy. We see eachother about twice a month, skype here and there, and We text maybe at the most for a couple hours a day everyday and weekends we'll text almost all ... (219 words)

The girl I want to date says I have to surprise her! How do I do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone from Dear Cupid... I am going to take this girl out on a date pretty soon, I really like her and she feels the same but she said I'll just have to surprise her first and then we'll see what's good. So I need help and input on where I can take her or what do girls... (113 words)

I told my b/f I thought I was falling in love with him and things haven't been the same since!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m twenty and my current boyfriend is twenty-one. We are both full time college students with part time (12-15hrs) jobs. We live in the same dorm. We have been dating for almost six months with a weeklong break up during that time period. Because I don’t want to live in my ... (320 words)

Will a guy go back to his old ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had broke up for a while. He lied and hid a lot from me in the past. After he realized what he had lost he came back to me promised no more of that and because I love him I decided to get back with him. A part of me believes him but I can't help but have some ... (120 words)

Whats his problem???calling me a slut!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Whats his problem???calling me a slut!? I was involved with this guy who is 7 years my seniori am 24 and hes 31.we work in the same place-theater.. and we were really good friends for the last 5 years.he would always sit beside me be it any interactive session and would pl... (335 words)

Is my body giving me signs of my relationship problems that I should take into account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts.. I don't know if i would categorize this as a relationship question but let me ask anyway. I have been stressed out of late and i have noticed a few subtle changes in me that i am worried about. My boyfriend of five years has always been good to me. However o... (373 words)

B/f takes me for granted. Do I just have to accept it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I constantly feel like my boyfriend doesn't appreciate me and takes me for granted. I know he loves me but he has such a poor way of showing it or rarel ever showsgonna it and then I start to question his love. Is there anyway to change that? Or is this something that I just ... (64 words)

Does alot of nagging lead to cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do all guys cheat? Could a lot of nagging lead him cheating? Long dinstance? or what are some things that may lead a boyfriend to cheat?... (26 words)

She's leaving in a week! How do I express my feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been working with a woman for almost three years now. Since I first met her, I have always had a thing for her. I've asked her out on a few occasions, none of which being successful, but we get along well and it's at the point where I could even joke around about taking ... (252 words)

Did she think I was going to ask her out and that's why she said she had to get off the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - "I gtg my mum is calling. . . nice chatting with you" Is this a standard polite way to brush someone off the phone? Theres this girl I met a couple of mths ago but only really started talking to her on fb two weeks back. I've had a 2 hr conversation with her on Faceboo... (211 words)

How do I get past my negative connections with sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were together for about 2 years but we had what can only be described as a painful and traumatic break up. In the time we were apart (little over a year) we had no contact besides hearing snippets of information about each other from mutual friends and I was ... (303 words)

Why did my husband act so crazy before our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why was my husband acting like this before marriage? Before i got married i was in love with a married man(11 years my senior) who had a 3 year old daughter.We were extremely good friends and we enjoyed each other's company. But very hesistatingly i disclosed him my feelings... (326 words)

Help! do I tell his family of secret child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, never used one of these sites but really need impartial advice... Were do I start... Few years ago I met a guy.. we split up and met up again last year when he was with a woman who he has child with and this start an affair they have recently split. I then found out I... (136 words)

G/f won't take a break because she says she might like the time apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) age 36-40 - Been dating same girl for 4.5 years now. We dont live together and dont have children. Over last 2 years we have grown apart. Today we had a long talk and we both agreed we need time apart from each other. We decided a month of no contact would be enough to see if we missed... (194 words)

I'm 14 and planning on getting pregnant. How do I tell my dad?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll be honest. I'm 14 and planning on getting pregnant. I've been with my boyfriend (19) for a while. He is going to propose and is okay with me getting pregnant. He wants a child as do I. I understand I am only a child. Yet I'm not. I stoppe being a child when I w... (191 words)

I'm 22 and my girlfriend's 25. Is that a big difference?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this weird? My girlfriend is 3 years older than me. I'm 22 and she's 25. Is that a big difference or no? We have a good relationship and all (sex is great :P) but compared to all of my friends in relationships, the guy is older than the girl. Same thing with my girlfriend's ... (107 words)

Why can't I move on from the time we each cheated on the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4820 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months i am also 26 weeks pregnant with our first child we had a fall out one night and we both ended up sleeping with someone i cant forget the memory of him sleeping with this girl and i never want him near me or touching me beca... (175 words)

Feeling like I'm going in circles...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend want's me to spend the nite all the time now that's great but I can't and everytime I tell him why he thinks i'm lying. It's always the same fight why don't you spend the nite more or hang out. I work all kinds of strange hours and I'm always tired. I have 3 ... (131 words)

Could he be a cheater? Girls love him. I don't want to be played again by a guy. Am I worrying too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4819 days ago

12 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've been very suspicious of my boyfriend for cheating on me. I'm really worried because I really..well love him. And he's not the cheating type but most girls like him. (Not kidding!!) so he could cheat if he wanted too. I'm not the prettiest girl..but I have a great pe... (160 words)

My B/f was aroused, but couldn't climax. Could it have been due to stress, or am I just not good enough for him?

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12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hia Today I found myself in a situation I've never been in before, and I was just wondering if anyone here could advise me on it :) I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and we've been sexually active for a while now. Today when things were getting heated, he was a... (139 words)

How I can keep my emotions stable? I don't want to be a nagging girlfriend

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12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, I'm 18 and he is 17, and we are one of those couples that everyone says 'wow those two are made for each other', which we are, I'm not being young or naive, we are two really good people for each other, same views on every ... (803 words)

Dad is critical of him. I like this guy. But am I falling in love too fast?

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12 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey folks, It's been about 4 months since I broke up with my ex, and now I've found a good guy. We met online, and began talking quite a bit. We got together, and since then he's asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes, and its been a lot of fun. I'm just concerned t... (382 words)

Husband said he'll give me a month to find a job!

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12 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. I have a worry. My husband and I have only been married 3 months. He is upset with me and will not communicate with me hardly at all. The past 3 days he has been getting in his truck and leaving without saying a word. A couple of weeks ago we had a discussion with ... (101 words)

If I'm tearing up photos of my ex does this mean I am over him?

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12 October 2011 (F)

age - Myself and my ex have now been apart for 5 months now and recently i have been coming across photos of him but instead of leaving them alone i have been tearing them in half and putting them in the bin and have not felt no remorse does this mean im finaly moving on with my life ... (64 words)

Does he like me... Do you think he'll say yes?

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12 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so there is this guy that I really like and I have known him for over two years. Recently we have gotten really close. Closer than we have ever been. Slowly I started to like him and I've been wondering if he feels the same. My friend agreed to help me and asked hi... (548 words)

My ex doesn't even seem to care that I exist

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12 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about a month ago that I thought was sweet and nice. We began talking and hanging out every single night since the first night we met. He would tell me all these pretty things and I believed him. I knew that he seemed like a player but I wanted to believe the ... (284 words)