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reader, Sexy babe1980  +, writes (15 October 2011):
Sexy babe1980 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm pregnant should i tell him ? I dont need him to help me i raised my daughter by myself i didnt have a choice as my husband passed away when she was 6 months old so i know i can do it again i just need to know if I should tell him
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 Stop talking to him, stay away from him & stop having sex with him. Eventually he will get the point, no matter how dense he is.
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reader, Sexy babe1980 +, writes (13 October 2011):
Sexy babe1980 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHis tell everybody that i was best sex he ever had was with me why is try 2 hurt me how can i get point accross that he dosent own me hes the one that dosent want a realationship
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 October 2011):
 It doesn't matter what he tells folks he works with who cares...
maybe for a few days you would be the talk of the town
just practice that blank stare that says "i have no clue what you are talking about" and move on...
push through this pain...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 October 2011):
He sounds toxic and sick. Who cares who he tells that the two of you knocked boots.. We all make mistakes.
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reader, Sexy babe1980 +, writes (12 October 2011):
Sexy babe1980 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe would tell everyone who he works with his a sectuiey gaurd i just think it no one business wat we being doing
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (12 October 2011):
 He just wants regular sex for nothing. He doesn't care at all about you. He just wants to protect his getting sex when he feels like it.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (12 October 2011):
 Sexybabe: This is the classic "guy" behaviour wherein we don't feel compelled to be nice to you.... BUT we don't want you to escape from us and find a nice guy who WILL be nice to you.....
It's probably best that you part ways with this guy and find one of the nice guys....
Good luck.....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 October 2011):
Just leave. He's also trying to blackmail you, so just leave him and get him out of your life.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 October 2011):
WHO Is he going to tell?
and why does THAT matter?
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reader, Sexy babe1980 +, writes (12 October 2011):
Sexy babe1980 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe said if i leave him he would tell everyone that we are sleeping together why is he doing this 2 me but he dosent want 2 be with me
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 October 2011):
This is the sort of guy you need to cut out of your life. He just wants you around for when he wants sex, and that's all. If you have any respect for yourself, move on from him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 October 2011):
Ah so what he's saying is "I want to have sex with you and have you at my beck and call while I can do what I want"
He's not your boyfriend or even a friend he's just a guy using you as a handy penis holder... why does what he want matter?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 October 2011):
He wants you to staqy available for him as a f-buddy. While he can do as he pleases.. Lovely.
I guess it comes down to what YOU want. If you want a relationship and he isn't interested, let him know. Go find a guy who is.
I don't get who you would let this guy dictate who you can talk to and whom you can't. All you two do is have sex, it doesn't give him any rights what so ever to tell you how to live your life.
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