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*uzzanne
writes:Whats his problem???calling me a slut!?I was involved with this guy who is 7 years my seniori am 24 and hes 31.we work in the same place-theater.. and we were really good friends for the last 5 years.he would always sit beside me be it any interactive session and would play jokes or pranks on me too.once or twice he even kissed my hand publicly and even held it.we went to some places together and he would get very close with me when we would get photographed-like his head touching my head and body titled towards me andwe even played onscreen boyfriend-girlfriend once.when my boyfriend of 2 years died back in 2009 he supported me a lot.though hes married with a child he still had a crush on me and wanted to get close and we got physical.i did so but treated it as a casual fling.however i had a one night stand with another guy who was single.he came to know about and we had a big fight.i clearly told him that it was nothing but a casual fling as he hadnt removed the tattoo he has of his wife's name or left her even though they have fallen out of love.just a week later in June he went on radio and publicly he humiliated me saying he knows 10 guys i ve been with indirectly calling me a slut and commented on me sleeping around publicly on radio. while showing how much his in laws and wife love him and how much he loves his wife.Showed no remorse for what he said and was refusing to apologize and was forced to ask for forgiveness.And in August again he was still sarcastic about me saying he’s a big fan of me and i ve got great potential.i have been with men i agree but whats to him.i told him it was casual..whats his deal???
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2011): he hadnt removed the tattoo he has of his wife's name or left her even though they have fallen out of love-Sounds like this was way more than casual for you. Maybe you slept with the other guy to make him jealous or to put a sense of urgency to leaving his wife but it backfired.He was probably stringing you along anyway and then lost respect for you when you were putting out to that other guy. Having sex with married men will ruin your reputation and they will always be loyal to their wives in the end. The mistress is usually the scapegoat whose name gets dragged through the mud.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (12 October 2011):
Its solely about his ego.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 October 2011):
 Oh pot.kettle.black. here. He's married and cheating but you who are single are not allowed to have a life.
And he acted like a 2 year old publically outing you?
His deal btw is that he wants his Kate and Edith too but only HE can be a dog... you have to be his personal private plaything.
dump him.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 October 2011):
 Oh, by the way, the reason he did it is because he wanted you as his personal little plaything, and now he's upset that you aren't devoted to him. He just wanted to you as "his", and seeing that you aren't hurt his big ego. The guy is a douche and never a friend of yours, I suspect he only played nice and friendly to get into your pants, and now he thought he had you kissing his boots.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (12 October 2011):
You need to straighten this up to us: what did he do? He works in radio and went on radio telling you you were a slut?
Can't you sue him for this? Do you have a boss you can report him to? If he humiliated you like this then you should definitely report him. A simple asking for forgiveness isn't good enough.
I think you should work to get him fired from his job as he is unprofessional. Or report it in as sexual harassment at your workplace. Go to the higher authorities.
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