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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2011 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend made a comment about my small breasts and now I don't want to go near him

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! I need help from you to build my self-confidence. I have a lovely bf and we are planning our future together. However, our sex life is a complete disaster... I run away from him every time he want to get closer to me. The issue is my size, the size of my breasts. O... (272 words)

After some tough times and relationships, when is it going to be my turn to be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - In my life so far I have tackled being bullied when I was young and growing up for being overweight suffered with really bad acne and I got teased for being ginger.my dad left at a young age and hes not been bothered since. Ive got a daughter whos 6 who I have brought up really ... (447 words)

Does who I am attracted to matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok...i noticed mostly i'm attracted to white guys and i'm african not afrrican- american...i'm from nigeria...is this ok?... (18 words)

Is he using me for money?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok this is hard for me..I ran into an old friend on facebook and after sharing a place for a few months about four..we started sleeping together..he mentioned porn and how he used to whack off to it while single and this was for a very long time.Years and years.I really ... (305 words)

How do I assess his intentions without bringing up the word "commitment"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I met this chap and he likes me and I'm beginning to lower my guard and like him back. At first, I wasn't too keen only because of the fact that he's almost 7 years my junior. After we spoken and got to know each other I'm considering giving him a chance. I'm 32 so obviously ... (174 words)

Does he seem interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i'm in this Film Club where we watched the movie "The Birds" by Alfred Hitchcock. While my best friend and I were waiting for this movie to start, my friend noticed the guy I like came in. I could not stop blushing! During the intermission, I was in like a circle with 2 of m... (461 words)

Do I pursue her even though I don't know if she likes me or start afresh with another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so first off, I Really like this Girl, (We'll refer her tas Girl 1) But, I dont know if she likes me, she says she loves texting me and such, But she flirts with other guys and it sucks, Now on the other side, Theres this girl (Girl 2) that says she likes me and always wants ... (130 words)

I am afraid that if my boyfriend works with his old friend we will relive past issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - so this is it : my boyfriend of 6 years has put me through alot... but we have overcame and grown from these expierences,, and now we are expecting our first baby.. he has grown and changed (enough) but he is those types of people that have no will power its sad but true its... (268 words)

Is there anyway I can reconnect with my husband and stop hurting him like I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in need of some serious help... I've cheated on my husband and he found me online yesterday on a site and seen some comments some guys have made. When my husband confronted me on it he said he wasn't mad about the site in general, but he was mad that I had lied and hid it ... (215 words)

My girlfriend is telling me she is being abused, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (M) age 30-35 - My girlfriend is telling me that she's being verbally and now psyically abused. What is the best thing to tell her or do?... (23 words)

We were good friends. Does she have a lot on her mind maybe, and just doesn't want to talk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been best friends with my friend for almost a year now. We became really close really fast. We were inseparable and up until about a week ago i thought we still were. we texted every single day and talked on the phone almost every night. When i didnt text her then she ... (500 words)

Do I need to change my actions? Being nice to socially awkard boys is making them think I like them when I don't at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) age 30-35 - So, at school, I try to be nice to everybody and I hate hurting people's feelings. I never gossip or talk behind people's backs. When there is someone sitting alone, I sit with them. If someone looks sad, I smile at them. But these habits are not working out well beca... (180 words)

How do I get a British girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - British girls fascinate me a lot due to their hot British Accent. I have tried several dating sites find a British girl friend for myself but it hasn't worked since I am not located in UK thats why I guess. Even I tried to go to UK on visit visa but my visa application got ... (91 words)

My periods are still irregular, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm 13 and I'm on my third period. The first two were relatively light and I could use the Always pads with the three or four absorbency drop thingys. But now, on my third, it's been sooooo heavy and the Always pads with the four drops get full up in around two hours, w... (106 words)

Ex is ruining my high school life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Dearcupid. I'm really sorry about the length of this, but I desperately need some help. I broke up with my girlfriend of 26 months recently because she cheated on me THREE TIMES IN ONE NIGHT and still had the nerve to get angry at me for being really, really hurt and ... (377 words)

I'm a picky eater! Should I see a doctor about this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this isnt a relationship question but i would appriciate any advice you can provide me with i am a very picky eater i dont eat a lot of variety and rarely try new foods. I also eat quite little for a number of reseons; i have a busy schedule with training, i have lectures at... (209 words)

IS my girlfriend cheating on me? I need women's advice!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I just want to know if my girlfriend is cheating. we been together for some time but since we both in two different colleges we dont see each other as much but we do txt and talk on the phone. she recently sent me a picture and i noticed her butt is sticking out.. and its funny ... (152 words)

Too strong a hymen???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 26 and I've been married for 8 months now. I was a virgin when I got married and still am. No matter how hard we try, we just cant seem to be able to break through my hymen. I think probably I am having elastic hymen. Whenever my husband try to penetrate, I'll be having ... (112 words)

Help! I don't want to lose my best friend over this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so first off let me start by saying that my best friend has been dating her boyfriend for almost 4 years.. and they live together. So a few weeks ago her and this junior were flirting and stuff and they ended up having a thing.. her boyfriend found out and got really mad.. ... (170 words)

Hould I get back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for the last 17 months. Just yesterday I broke up with him because I felt I didn't love him enough. He has always loved me like crazy. In fact he was the one to initiate the relationship in the first place. He once happened to visit my ... (738 words)

It's been one month and a half and my ex has contacted me out of the blue - should I ignore it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry it's long but... help? This guy would wipe my tears away and told me he's not like those guys who use girls for sex, he's in it for long-term, and he'll wait for me for as long as it takes. We talked everyday. But then... two and a half months later my best friend t... (856 words)

Bit of an anti climax...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age - I met this lady at work, we got on really well together, then after 8 months she lost her husband, and i was there to help her through her bereavement. It started with just a comforting hug and a peck.. which continued almost every time we met, even at work, at this point i ... (148 words)

How do I gain my confidence back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - right, long story, i was with my boyfriend for less than a year, we clicked, got on amazingly, great sex life, the only problem was his retrograde jealousy... i had had a few serious relationships and sexual partners before him, however i was his first for everything. His ... (361 words)

I'm not sure of his ex's intentions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i need some advice... ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are living with each other now. one problenm - hes friends with his ex.. well not really an ex, a girl he used to love but she had a boyfriend already while he was "friends" with her. they used to work ... (327 words)

Does he just want me to help him pay the bills???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - dear aunts. I have been with my partner for four years. Three years ago he proposed to me and it was like a dream come true. We had a rough time after that with him losing his home etc. I also suspected cheating although he never admitted it. I had proof but ignored it as ... (207 words)

How can I make my first time more comfortable for us both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay lets get to the point: I'm a virgin and me and my long time boyfriend have decided to go ahead and have sex (he's a virgin too). We have almost done the 'dirty deed' but I'm a chicken. I'm scared. I don't really know of what, but I'm scared. Can anyone give any advice to ... (101 words)

Help with OCD paper?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm a freshman in college and in my Psychology class I had to choose a topic for my paper. I chose OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)out of a list of similar topics. It has to be in APA format. Anyways I know what OCD is, but I have no idea on what to exactly say in this ... (96 words)

To the eye, does this seem like flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, a girl, and I'm gay. This other girl, she's also 19, I don't know if she's gay or not. I'm guessing that she's straight because she's a christian. That breaks my heart so I try not to think about that. Anyway, there's this guy (my good friend) who likes her. I was... (288 words)

Does marriage need more than love? My B/f Mom scolded me for wanting financial stability, education completed too, before marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends mom scolded me and blamed me because my boyfriend wants to get married before he finishes his education and i told him that i want to get married after he finishes his aeronautical engineering licence, because then he can fully concentrate on family life and we ... (115 words)

3 problems- money worries, my boyfriend who doesn't want to commit and my family who never visit or consider me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi sorry.. this is abit of a long one! I have 3 problems.. money worries, my non-commital boyfriend and my family who never visit or consider me! I live in a small house with my 17 yr old son and am finding life very hard! I came out of a long abusive marriage 5 years... (800 words)

I enjoy going out. But guys, in error, think I'm ready for one night stands. Nooo.! But am I missing out ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i enjoy going out and having a good time with friends, but often guys assume this means that i'm down for one night stands. i've only slept with one guy in my life and he was my ex boyfriend, but now i feel like guys are not even interested in you unless you put out after thre... (127 words)

Has anyone gained weight rapidly and was able to overcome it and if so, how? What challenges did you face and what did you have to watch out for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a question regarding fitness. I see that I have a very bad habit of binge eating sweets and chocolates. The urge to eat junk sky rockets especially if I start exercising. I live alone, and I don't feel motivated to cook at all, and my job timings are unpredict... (384 words)

Is it normal to feel lonely close to 30? All my friends are married and presumably happy. But they don't talk to me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I just remembered that once upon a time, a few years ago, I used to have friends I could pick up the phone and talk to, but now I have none, and it really isn't my fault that I don't - just that, choices were made by them. And I went far away, and distances grew great. ... (90 words)

Should I try to mend our friendship or leave him altogether in fear of falling for him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very long history with a boy who shall be called X . You see, I've liked X as more than a friend off and on for basically my whole life, and I know there have been times when he has liked me in the same way. To give a summary, we were close friends in elementary ... (716 words)

Is he worth the wait to date? He's 17. Or should I just move on? He only wants to talk about sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so there's this guy, I've liked him for about 4 months. His name is X and we met at a battle of the bands back in January. In June we started texting and getting to know each other. (: He turned out to be a really sweet guy, and always said cute things and stuff. Howe... (236 words)

Should we connect? Dont want to break his marriage but I need someone to make me laugh

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks. I lost my hubby of 5 years a year and 2 month ago and i have 2 kids. just before i met my late hubby,i dated a guy i loved so much and i believed liked me for 3 months,i had to relocate some where far so we were not seeing but communicating on phone until he sent a m... (154 words)

In love with my brother's best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I am fifteen and am awfully young to be saying the L-word but I am being completely honest when I tell you this. I AM IN LOVE! Most people would think well thats nice she has a crush but in my case i havent told many people of my crush because of a few factors, he is my ... (220 words)

Got cheated upon once, and now I am paranoid it will happen again in my present relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this what one may call trauma? Two and a half years ago, i found out my ex was cheating on me which left me so scarred, it took me a year to accept what happened. He was my first bf. Anyway, i am fully recovered now in terms of any emotion towards my ex. I am in a relation... (348 words)

Friend is making racist remarks and says I don't face reality! I am getting sick of him...am I right to feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I have a friend who is a little older than me, his dad works with my dad and we have become quite good friends. Recently we have been spending a lot of time together and one night when our parents went out for a meal to discuss business or whatever, me and him ... (450 words)

Given these details, do you think my friend really likes me romantically?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! Well, here's the deal! I really like one of my best friends...? He's really nice, lovely actually, and we have had some amazing times together... Sometimes i think he likes me too. There is a lot of flirting and messing around, annoying each other, and all of my fri... (180 words)

I need some help to cope with what's happening now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - PLEASE HELP! Okay, well I have been to the doctors about depression and they are just saying it's harmones but I am lower then average. I have used marijuana a few times to make me feel better and use it I don't have a lot. I don't smoke it regularly but the marijuana isn't the ... (463 words)

Which dating situation is better out of these two?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

29 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met two guys and I didn't end up with either of them. I often think and compare and contrast and I wonder...which situation do you think is worse? Obviously no one would want either to happen but... A guy having a first love that haunts you every step of the wa... (179 words)

Having trouble having sex with gf! Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello 1) when my gf and I decided to have sex for the first time I couldn't enter my penis into her vagina. It was slipping a lot so we couldn't had sex and I also tried doggy style but failed ? whats wrong 2)while i was trying to have sex with my gf there was some wired... (81 words)