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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He was texting with his ex and now I don't know what to think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i went out with my boyfriend to his works party they were throwing and i noticed that he was texting the whole time. Then on the way home (i drove cuz he was pretty drunk) i was able to see that he was texting this girl. After we were done fooling around in bed his phone ... (236 words)

No family support -- what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, sorry if this is kinda of lengthy, but I'm from a very small town in South Carolina and am trying to figure out the best way to move to El Monte, California. I'm 16 and before everyone thinks I'm young and crazy, I have graduated high school already. I understand ... (293 words)

I am about to go public with our separation and am worried how to interact with our friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'd be grateful for any help please. I have been going through a very painful separation that is now almost complete, except that, for what I believe are good reasons, we did not tell everyone that we know - basically my grown up child was going through an extremely ... (452 words)

My toxic relationship with my sister

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my little sister, who's 3 years younger then me, has a serious jealousy issue over me. i know that the feelings she has towards me have always been there. like, when we were a few years younger, she would ask me not to dress cute around her boyfriends because they found me ... (257 words)

Should we stick with this turbulent relationship in the hope that it might work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. We have had quite a rough relationship. He has cheated on me multiple times and I have done the same. We have been engaged to each other about 15 times but we continue to cancel our engagement each time we break up. We have two ... (221 words)

Should I not date people who don't share my beliefs?

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10 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a christian and believe in no sex before marriage and i want to marry someone who also feels this way so should I not even consider being with people that aren't virgins and share the same belief as me because I will never be with them for the rest of my life? Also my ... (64 words)

Family home is like a war zone!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - First of all thanks for taking the time to read this, i could use some adivce. I am a 14 year old teenager and i live in a house with my mum and my grandma, me and my mum recently lost are home 2 years ago due to problems with rent and all together... (671 words)

When can I show him my sexy outfit on me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I recently bought a sexy outfit to wear for my boyfriend but I am struggling to think of a time when I can actually wear it. We both still live at home with parents and although we spend most nights together, I am unsure of how to go about actually putting... (95 words)

He wants to buy a motorbike and I am soooooo against it! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i lost my brother in a motorbike accident 2 years ago.. got married around 18 months ago... my husband god knows from where he got it in his head that he wants to buy a motorbike.. i told him I am scared begged him not to.. he is being very adamant and wants to buy at any ... (251 words)

Did he "do it" with his ex... or didn't he???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I have been with my bf for 2 yrs and 7 months, we have been through everything together. But I am too nosey for my own good, and I found on FB that he was messaging his ex talking dirty and he suggested meeting up for sex :O its killing me but I cannot say anyth... (148 words)

How can I make him understand without telling him outright?

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I really like my ex-boyfriend's best friend and after the split with my boyfriend, he always came over to see how I was and was like such a great friend to me. He's been round to mine about 6 times but never shows many signs of liking me. And even though when i texted him ... (107 words)

Irritable bowel...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has had this problem since he was a baby! It all started when he was 9 months old, he was rushed to hospital and operated on, there was a cyst on his bowel and a twisted gut! He is now 28 years old and 4 years ago this problem has came back! He has been in and out ... (222 words)

Help! The long and the short of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi I'm just 20 and going to university for engineering studies. We moved to a small town recently. I'm about 5'2" and 140 lbs. There's a big tall amazon girl who is 22 years old in the neighbourhood. She is almost 7 feet tall and about 400lbs, a giantess. She found me very ... (76 words)

A sex question!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for quite some time now. I would say about a month. We do a lot of relationship type of things like going out, spending the weekend together, and staying in. We kiss, hug, cuddle... real basic stuff. However, we have not gone beyond that. How ... (132 words)

I want to feel wanted... not used!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't feel as though i'm good enough for anyone... I know that many people say that and think it, and i'm just another. My freshman year of high school, I found my first love and everything was absolutely bliss. I truly loved him and I always will, but unfortunately I screwed ... (156 words)

Condom break!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm panicking right now. My boyfriend and I had the condom break on us two nights ago. I had forgotten to take my birth control for two days (and so was on my period) before he visited (I took my pill the day we had sex, but I didn't not take two because I have a rather ... (135 words)

Emotional affairs...

This question has 65 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - via text, emails, pictures and dating sites, women, is it really that bad when a man does it? even after a year my ex still goes on about it when i ask her to start again and see how we get on. silly cow isnt interested and just uses these as an excuse and says i caused it. she ... (75 words)

Mixed signals from my ex, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This week I went down to visit her me ex. I waited for the last minute to tell her because I wasnt sure how to. She said "I miss you". I said good because I will see you tomorrow. SOOO this is what happened because now I am back at college and am still processing this.... (731 words)

Anyone know any good fake sun tan lotions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well since summertime's over, there will be no more laying out in the sun, and I don't want to damage my skin more by laying in a tanning bed. But I really can't stand my skin being this pale. I've tried jergen's sunless tanning lotion but it just turns me orange. Is there any ... (102 words)

The difference between breaking up and on a break???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend on Saturday. However after several break downs on Saturday, and seeing him yesterday I've realized I really want to be with him, and he want's to be with me. So we've retitled our breakup, to a break. My question is #1 what is the difference, and ... (139 words)

We're talking about moving in together, but our circumstances have been very different

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was hoping to get some input or advice from married women or just people with experience in this kind off thing. I started seeing my boyfriend a few months ago. He's a bit older than me but I am 25 myself. I love him so much for his personality, he's funny, good looking. ... (286 words)

His ex took so many important 'firsts'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for five months, best friends for two years, and have known each other for eight. He had an abusive relationship where they both did bad things before me, and I knew a lot about it buI didn't know everything. He felt like he was lying to me ... (223 words)

Best friend and girlfriend moving on, now I feel alone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in relationship with this girl for 20 days. In those days, things got serious very quickly. Whilst emotionally the support she gave me was incredible, I was not intellectually satisfied. We never actually had a conversation about shared interests or anything, ... (317 words)

Married. Almost a father. But I love him! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem and I can't tell anyone I know. I'm 36, I've been single for most of my life and have always held a torch for a man I met at University. We recently ran into eachother on the work circuit and all these feelings I've had bottle up inside have come straight... (159 words)

How can I ask to stay over without being rude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been invited to a night out in November for my friend's birthday.She recently moved in with her boyfriend in a city that i havent been to that much so i'm not used to the area and its about 40 minutes away from where i live.i might have to go alone so do you think i should... (131 words)

Am I too old to find love again? Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age - I've divorced my husband. He is a selfish person and his stinginess has bothered me for years. He never wanted to spend money even if needed. Finally I've decided to end it after 20 years together. While I was going through my divorce I've met this man 16 years older than ... (163 words)

Any tips on how to be more flirty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How should I go about being more funny and flirty in conversations with girls? Like dropping in sexual innuendoes and other things like that to show I want to take our relationship further than just friends. I kind of close up when it comes to talking to girls but I need t... (94 words)

How do I approach a group of girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I need tips in a few areas to improve my chances will the ladies. Firstly, how do I approach girls in groups and get them to like me? I'm not too bad with them if they are by themselves but I get nervous when approaching a women or a number of women if they are in groups. I ... (226 words)

Does she like me or is she an attention seeker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey people, i wanna know if there are any tips how can you distinguish between if the girl that i want likes me or she is just attention seeker ? here is some info which might help she is famous in school and knows a lot of guys, classmates want to be always wit... (280 words)

Why does he care if I have found his replacement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy for almost a year when he out of no where decided he wanted to date someone new. I was very hurt, angry, and confused. We talked and of course he said he still wanted to be friends. I told him he needed to give me some time. I didn't speak to him at all for a ... (193 words)

I'm married but struggling with the sexual tension between me and a colleague....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - A few months ago I started working at a school as a Teaching Assistant and I have found myself becoming really attracted to one of the Teachers I work with. The problem is Im married with a child, only recently married. When I first started working with him I found him attr... (286 words)

I want her to give us another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I and my ex were going out for about three years in half…at the beginning when we first started going out, I wasn’t giving our relationship my all because of what happened with my prior relationship. My ex put it all in the line for me. She would literally do anything for me; ... (611 words)

Ignoring him isn't making him go away, so how do I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my friends who I didn’t really like asked me out three days ago. Said he loves me and would like if we were in a relation. He asked me if I could start developing feelings for him. I didn’t want to be rude and I thought that maybe something could happen and I would ... (307 words)

I'm finding it difficult and a slow process to make new friends! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've just started collage,and i thought that it would be amazing because i don't get on well with everyone,and i thought i'd meet a lot of new friends.I used to get along with everyone,but people have let me down a lot and i cant seem to forgive people but after all this ... (257 words)

I'm unsure how to handle this developing relationship!

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10 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm unsure how to handle a situation developing right now. Short pre-cursor, I got to know another girl this past year, things went pear shaped and we no longer speak, something that I regret very much (im unsure what i did wrong apart from emphasising that she had become m... (252 words)

Am I Too Sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age - My husband and I have only been married 3 years. We are both in our 50's. We usually get along very well and he's always been very respectful of me but recently we have had some really severe financial problems that have put a bit of a strain on our relationship. I might add ... (371 words)

Concern for my cousin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age - Concer for my cousin,My cousin was a beautiful and well shapely lady. About two or three years ago her husband caught her and another man in their home. Well, since this incident, she has lost a great deal of weight, her mind is as though she has alzhemers. I was told that her ... (165 words)

How long before she might reply/text me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all... Im a 20 something guy and want to get female opinions on something. I know usually 'guy gets girl tel number and it goes from there' - but 3 days ago a situation happened - where I helped a girl in a tricky situation, and followed it up by writin down my t... (164 words)

Flatmate problems....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've just moved into a shared student flat in a convenient location near the uni I've just started a course at. It's an ideal location. I moved in a bit later than two of the other people in the flat because I live within an hour and waited until I was about to start my cour... (708 words)

He has lied and I don't know if I should stay with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a son and daughter (9 and 11 years old) from a previous relationship. We’ve been together for 18 months and live about an hour apart. I noticed that the kids had not been around for a while. I asked him why, he made excuses and said they had been busy doing th... (360 words)

My manager changed his attitude towards me when he found out I had a boyfriend, but we broke up and his attitude still hasn't changed! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hello. I hope that i can get deep analysis of my situation help me find an answer of what shall i do? i had a boy friend for 5 years and during my friendship to him i started working in a company. At company, i met a deputy manager and we used to work long hours and we use... (417 words)

2 men and don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - NEED HELP on what to do. So, I have been seeing this guy on and off for over 2 years now. We recently broke up because he can be very abrasive. He means well, but he can be an ass sometimes. But most of the time, we have this amazing connection that when we are apart, I can't ... (387 words)

I'm tired of people having a go at me over my relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts I really need some advice as my prob is upsetting me so much and I don't know how to handle it. I am with a really amazing guy. He loves me and is loyal, kind and honest. I feel so lucky to have him. However, he has children with his ex. This ne... (203 words)

She's suddenly different and weird.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay first of all, thanks for taking your time to answer this :) There's this girl I recently met, and it's been 3 months since I first met her and we both like each other very much. We came to the verge of going out once and I even asked her out. But she wasn't quite rea... (298 words)

I'm attracted to a girl I knew 8 years ago, now I'm friends with her on Facebook should I contact her? What should I say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - as the titles say attracted to a girl i knew 8 years ago who i recently added on facebook, how do i speak to her? i used to be in her form and she actually asked me out (7-8 years ago) but i declined now i find her extremly attractive looking at facebook pics, she is currently ... (180 words)

How long should I wait to have sex with him? I don't want to end up hurt again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Readers, I would like some advice please in regards to a guy I met. I come from a background of Domestic Violence and have not had much luck in the past with men. I have had a lot of counselling to avoid getting involved with toxic men, however I have been hurt a lot and ... (296 words)

I think I screwed up by getting drunk on our date! He has updated his online dating profile but is 'too busy' to contact me, is that is it for us now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy on match.com about two months ago. We talked for about three weeks and then finally met. We really hit it off and for the next month saw each other three to five times a week with texting in between. I think there were only one or two days in that time period ... (609 words)

Not happy with our open relationship anymore, but then again I would rather him not cheat on me if we went exclusive! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 f in a 9 month open relationship. To start with I was completely fine with this- wasn't anything serious just getting to know eachother more etc. But 9 months later I am serious about being with this guy and it hurts to see him texting other girls and not just being ... (115 words)

Why am I feeling these things? What shall I do about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months yesterday. Everyone congratulated us when they heard the news but I am not very excited over it. I'm not sure why because we get on very well, and I have been wanting to go further with him almost since we first met. However, when we ... (197 words)

Holiday romance or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I would very much appreciate your thoughts and advice on my current situation. I am a single mum of two. Recently I went on holiday with some girfriends and met a lovely man. He is a DJ and ten years younger than me, I am 33. We had a romance and it was lovely, we ha... (1233 words)

I feel like he is avoiding me...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a relationship for 5 years. it was a complicated one but we loved each other despite all odds. Since begining of this year, we have been fighting over varoius things. Anyway as a person, he is very egostic. Most of the time, he doesnt call back after an argument. ... (430 words)

We broke up for college but while we were apart she had sex with another guy. Now we are back together I cant deal with this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for 16 months. We were best friends before we started dating and she was almost my first everything, except for kiss pretty much. I loved her so much but we decided that we should break up for college, and go back to being best friends, because ... (492 words)

He's known as a womaniser...does he want me as a booty call or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy I've known for months now. He's known as a womaniser around my school and I'm no fool to that. I currently developed feelings for him, and while we were at a party, I was actually trying to see if he liked me too. He didn't stare at any other girls all my fri... (179 words)

I like her and her best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys... I'm kind of torn at the moment between two girls. One is this crazy, amazing girl that I met, we became friends, like really good friends. Then she started ignoring me. And I became depressed because I had no Idea why. So I ended up talking to her best fr... (115 words)

Can a school nurse give a pregnancy test?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi im 15 and i think i might be pregnant the last time i had sex was early september and i had a period since then but it was kind of weird. A little over a week after my period i started spotting and my bras are leaving marks on me i know its possible that my breasts are just ... (145 words)

How can a handle family members commenting on my health/weight?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. I have a question about family. So I am sitting at my nieces bday party. Once again the subject of health comes about. I have health prob related to my being overweight. Once again I hear advice from those "well meaning" family members about proper nutrition and how I ... (166 words)

I think of my ex every single day. It's been 2 months. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I still think of my ex boyfriend every single day; multiple times a day. We broke up two months ago. Is this normal? We dated for 8 months - five he was here - 3 were long distance. Before he went away, he said he loved me and I even went to visit him while he was away. I w... (592 words)

Should I end this relationship or keep being patient?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for a year now. I am 23 and he is 36. I know that his past relationship was serious and his girlfriend left him because her father wanted her to marry someone with money. I have been extremely patient with him. It took him about 7 months to kiss ... (554 words)

All my friends said you bleed your first time but I didn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone.here is my concern. On March this year me and my bf had sex for the 1st time. I was a vagin till then..1st time it was so painful and i asked him to stop..so he did. after that we didn't have intercourse but he do fingering.but two nights before again we had sex. ... (83 words)

Wife is having an emotional affair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age - HI and thanks for your time, I have been married 30 years my wife is 52 and is really hot. Two years ago there was an "incident" with one of my sons 23 year old friends. No sex act but touching. Well I said knock it off (and shook him) and it all stopped. The past year ... (251 words)

I need help, I don't understand what he wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend are heading down that breakup path, I have my last homecoming next weekend and we have been dying to go together all year. We are best friends, but I am moving 4 hours away in a week and we've been together about 8 months. He's been promising for months that he ... (476 words)

How do I fix my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To be very blunt, my whole family is extremely pissed off at each other. Saturday, my family had a memorial dinner of sorts for my mother's brother who passed away a few weeks ago. My two cousins have been having some issue in the recent years, and the tension sort of ... (317 words)

How do I tell this married girl to back off easily without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really quite like this married bi girl. She's on my course so avoiding her for the next three years is going to be slightly impossible. She reminds me of the girl I fell for in college and looks identical to her. The bi girl in college constantly had boyfriends though, ... (567 words)

A month after saying he needed space, he shows up with a birthday present. What's up with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4791 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age - My man asked for space. We have been very much inlove for 8 yrs. I took it bad at first. But now back off.2 weeks after I stayed away with nc he text me and told me happy bithday. I sent him text back with a thank you. 4 weeks later he shows up at the gym where I work out and ... (86 words)

When I ask b/f where our relationship is going he says he can't guarantee anything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Eveyone! My boyfriend and I of 11/2 year decided to move in together in his house. He seems really committed to me. He even get me a car to drive (since I dnt have one) he pays for my phone bill and he said he really loves having me around in his house. He even plan of ... (175 words)

I want to spark ex's interest at the homecoming dance!

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there! I am going to a homecoming dance in about 2 weeks and my ex will be there. I want to get get his attention really badly (its a ''cant let you go relationship'') and i want to get him turned him on and maybe let things lead on from there. what can i do tho to get him ... (92 words)

We have tried many times to have sex but my wife is still a virgin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my wife are ready to have sex, she's a virgin. So I try to be gentle, I try, she says her head starts to get pain, and I stop because I don't wanna hurt her. We have tried many times but every time to fail. I have tried many times but my penis do not go inside her ... (240 words)

I think my husband has been having affair with his cousin the whole time we've been married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - dearcupid, good day, before my husband and i got married almost 5 years ago, there is a rumors which i don't believe before that He has a relationship with his 2nd cousin., and the girl applied to work abroad.we knew each other through my co workers and He started courted ... (258 words)

My best friend is hanging out with the girl of my dreams!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone , i feel like my heart is about to break, you see i have this friend who is one of my best friends and he's hangin out with the girl i love when i'm not around like...all the time. and the worse thing is that i can't say anything so I just ....Just don't know ... (75 words)

My husband (who cheats) wants to go off his anti-depressants, and it is way too soon!

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10 October 2011 (F)

- I've got serious issues, and no one to talk to. I have a great family, wonderful friends, but I'm so afraid of judgment. And now the plot has thickened. I'm 25, he's 29. My husband and I have been together 6 years, married 2. He is a former artist/graphic designer, current... (792 words)

I shouldn't have to constantly second guess our relationship

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together 1 year. He's 24 and I'm a little older. Here's a recent example of our relationship over the last couple months: Went to a haunted house and he held my hand through it but not while we walked around the park it was in. He didn't look at me once on the ... (260 words)

After all he said and did why did he call me last night?

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My recently broke up with my ex boyfriend since he cheated lied and decieve me I was a very good woman and friend to him when I mentioned it to him he flipped it cursed me out and said I didn't satisfy him sexually and told me until I heal we couldn't be friends he knows I ... (81 words)

Online dating--am I being too push or too demanding?

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupids, I need help on this one. I am just too busy or tired to go out and meet guys. I'm in my late 20s, great career, well educated, in shape, and give 110 % to my kid. The last part obviously scares away a lot of men. So, a friend convinced me to try online dating. ... (207 words)

My ex girlfriend Loves and hates me... I'm getting mixed signals

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10 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I had been broken up for a month now. She contacts me all the time and I usually ignore her. She texted me saying i love you and I miss you. So I decided to see her. i drove 6 hours to see her and she said she was excited to see me. We talked and cried and she ... (438 words)

What is going on with him? I wish he would change and fall in love with me....

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, I have been so confused about a guy who I have met seven years. I cannot call it a relationship but we have been together on and off for the past seven years and for short periods of time maximum a month. The reason why I keep letting him in because I am ver... (730 words)

I need advice on letting go of how my ex wronged me!

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - It has been three months since my breakup of 2 1/2 years to my first boyfriend that i moved in with after 6 months. We are both 23. We had a decent relationship where we were inlove and talking about the future. He became cold and I became insecure about a year after living ... (975 words)

Distant boyfriend and falling for my male friend....what should I do?

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10 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over 2 years, but I've been really attracted to my guy friend for a while now. My guy friend (I'll call him Jim) writes music and asked me to sing for him last year. So about once a week, after school we'd work o... (679 words)