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female
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30-35,
*onimarie
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months i am also 26 weeks pregnant with our first child we had a fall out onenight and we both ended up sleeping with someonei cant forget the memory of him sleeping with this girl and i never want him near me or touching me because i cant get thevisions out my head, but one minute im fine with him kissing me and cuddling methen the next im telling him to stop and get away from me and its destroying our relationship i really want to be with thisboy i know we've only been together a short while but i feel as if i've been with him for a long time we werent togetherwhen we first slept together and i feel pregnant i think thats why its hurting so much because we both knew i as pregnanthes got over the fact of i slept with someone but will i ?
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (12 October 2011):
What a really bad start you've made of your life so far. I don't know if you ever will be able to get over him being with someone else, you're both simply too young to appreciate what it takes to move on from something like this, to know what love is and putting another person first, instead of thinking of yourselves. It is tragic that you are pregnant with this child and have continued the pregnancy when presumably you could have stopped it.
I recommend you have a long good think about what is now important in your life. Your child is. Your child should have the benefits of having 2 parents bring it up, so you should do everything you can to have a successful relationship with the father, and that includes putting aside your feelings of insecurity and jealousy.
If you don't feel like you can get over your partner being with someone else then you need to cut your loses, but you need to remember what kind of effect this will have on your child as it grows up.
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