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female
age
30-35,
*trayed Angel
writes:I met this guy about a month ago that I thought was sweet and nice. We began talking and hanging out every single night since the first night we met. He would tell me all these pretty things and I believed him. I knew that he seemed like a player but I wanted to believe the best in him. My friends told me about how he really was and when I confronted him, he begged me to trust him and I told him I would try. A few days ago he broke up with me, because he said that he didn't want to hurt me, because he knew that he would eventually. But he told his friend (which is also my friend), that he was a man and that he had needs and that I wanted to wait too long to sleep with him. That same night we both got drunk and had a "drunk-talk" where I told him everything I was feeling, how betrayed and hurt I felt and he told me how much he cared about me and begged me to take him back, but I said no. The next day I talked to him, sober, and apologized for some of the things I said, and told him that we could be friends, but I didn't think that we would've ever worked out, either now or in the future, because I wouldn't be able to trust him. I really liked him, he took my first kiss and was also my first heartbreak and now it still hurts when I see him and he doesn't seem to even care that I exist. I'm trying to get over him and forget about him...Any advice?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2011):
 He will always be special to you because he is the first boy that you kissed. But if his reason for breaking up with you is because you wouldn't have sex with him, well then you are better of without him. He is shallow. If he cared about you and had feelings for you well then he would have waited until you are ready and made it feel special. You just need to avoid all contact with him now. Don't call or text him. Delete all his contact details and when you see him just completely ignore him. You will get over him eventually. It is your first heart break so it is all new to you, but it will only make you stronger.
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