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writes:My husband has cheated on me with 2 other women that I found out about about 2 and a half years ago. It's not like I found out about 1 other women, forgave him and he did it again. It is a case of finding out about 2 at the same time. I also found out he had been joining internet dating sites behind my back for 5 years.I am wondering if you would consider this evidence as a 3rd woman he has been with.1. After sex a few months ago with me, he said "same time next month?".2. I have records of his car using the same toll road once a month where there was a gap of 2 hrs between going one way and coming back again. This happened for 5 months during a time when I was very sick in early pregnancy.3. An email I read of his to the last women he cheated on me with read that "she was the best offer he had had in 18 months". This ties in exactly when the last 2 hr trip over the toll road occured.I know you may think that since he has already cheated on with 2 women what does it matter how many others there may be, but I feel he is only admitting to the ones I found out about.I have only stayed with him due to financial reasons as I dont have a job and have young children. I really just want any opinions on the above evidence and if anyone thinks it points to yet another woman as I have no-one else to ask. Thank you for your help.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 IMO point 3) of your post strongly makes it sound as if he reconnected with cheating partner no. 2, so it's a wild guess ,but I say only 2.
But, yeah, you are right, I don't understand what difference does it make, 2 or 3. I could understand catching him once then giving him a second chance, but two different women, and most of all his 5 year presence on dating sites behind your back, show he has all the making of a serial cheater, he'll just do it any time he can, with any woman who'll give him the chance. If these women will be 2 more, or 4 more , or 100 more... basically it will just depend upon his personal luck , and how much time and effort he can devote to these little walks on the wild side. But the basic concept does not change, he is a cheater , and you two should part ways as soon as humanly possible.
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