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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My classmates are sexually active or in relationships. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and Im in ninth grade. Half of the kids in my grade had already lost their virginity (Im not one of them of course), and 3 of my 5 best friends have a boyfriend. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life, never been kissed etc. Im not a lesbian,or a bisexual. I am very ... (123 words)

Tatoos and laser removal

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and have alot of tattoos. Id say around 16. I got alot of them when i was 17/18. I love them but I really want the ones on my arm gone...I havent been succesful in the relationships ive been in, and sometimes I feel like these tattoos attract the kind of man ... (108 words)

I am always angry and unhappy. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my story is too lenthy but i i beg u to be patient and read. and i will be happy if there was a psychologist here who can help. i can't aford one. here's the story: I AM ALWAYS ANGRY AND UNHAPPY. PLEASE HELP ME. Dear Mirror Psychologist, I am a 24 year University student... (1402 words)

My boyfriend listens to everyone but me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some help to see if I'm being unfair to my bf who seems to listen to everyone except me :( We've been together 1 yr, and one of the things I like about him is his caring nature. But it feels like that side of him is available to everyone except me, and I feel like ... (398 words)

I cannot stop obsessing about my boyfriend's height! Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid. Please help. I am driving myself crazy. I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and I love him so so so much, but I am absolutely obsessed with his height. I am 5ft 9.5", and he is about 1-1.5" taller. Yet whenever we are out I am always checking our ref... (407 words)

Is it because I dont' give into their needs and stay strong or am I a pushover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for 3 years. When we met he was going through a divorce. It was hard and his family never accepted me - there was also much baggage with the Ex. They did, and still do invite his ex to things and not me and it's always been the source of our ... (401 words)

My ex left me because I'm a wuss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So lately I have been thinking about my ex and how she left me. Basically it was a LDR and we always tried to make time to see each other every day. She's pretty much moved on but I still miss her a ton, and think about her everyday. At one point I really thought of her as the ... (241 words)

Got together with my ex on Friday, but he hasn't called since?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've started seeing my ex-boyfriend, we broke up 6 months ago and we were also together for that length of time. We broke up due distance and a petty argument. So it was really no big deal. Basically I stayed in his house Friday night, it's something we planned. He... (147 words)

Did I drop too many hints that I liked her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid... First, I would like to say that I'm a really shy guy and have never gotten into a relationship before. I've met a sweet girl through facebook and we are both in the same fanclub of our favourtie singer. Around 8 mths ago, we met each othe... (351 words)

Is he still a player or is he a player

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex whom I haven't seen for almost two years and I have a 3 day getaway together. I think I got lonely and he charmed me into sleeping with him. When we're saying goodbye to each other, and on the first day of leaving we're talking and he seems like he is sincere to want ... (172 words)

The sex was great when we first met, now he's not interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I had GREAT sex when we 1st met...but we were just each others booty call. After a long distance relationship of only daily talk and text we are together again after a year and in a serious, committed and monogamous relationship. I know he loves me and ... (169 words)

Boyfriend not employed, doesn't help out with costs and I'm getting fed up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a guy who has been struggling to become employed for about half a year now. I work almost full time hours and have a car. We both currently live with our parents but would like to gain our independence soon. At the moment, when we go out, he pays for ... (187 words)

I need tips on gaining weight!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me... i am a 19 year old female who is five feet tall and weighs 100 lbs, i recently had a son and i thought i would have gotten fatter but i didn't. people often times say that i look like around 15-16 and it makes me sad as i went through too much in labour t... (122 words)

I'm friends with an older married man at work and people are spreading rumors about us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, quick question really At work I have a colleague who I get along with really well we are very friendly and just joke about - like friends do really. He is older not much and he is married (I am single). I have come to find out that some other work colleagues have ... (187 words)

Why does fiance want to put wedding rings on layaway when we have the money to buy them now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together going on 4 yrs. We are engaged for about 2 yrs. Wants to put the rings on layaway. We have the money to right now. The thing is I asked if we can. He simply answered we can but is just another bill coming to us. im offended by that since it ... (84 words)

Am I making the right decision or should I talk things over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having relationship problems...I have found myself completely stressed out, depressed, and I'm afraid no longer happy from my relationship! I have suppressed feelings and resentment from previous issues, that I just can't let go. Also, I have always known what I want out ... (908 words)

I've fallen for foreign student staying in our home!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I saw a post sort of like this. Im a 22 year old guy soon to be 23. My family gets foreign exchange students and we have for the last 2 years. This year we got 4 girls, one from spain, one from switzerland, one from korea, and one from france. They are all 15-16. they are ... (353 words)

Is he just leading me on for fun? How do I approach it with him without offending him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm not sure where to go with this situation. My best friend knows i'm gay, and is completely fine with it, as in it's something we talk about daily. He's not got a girl friend anymore and hasn't had sex for a few months so i know he's desperate. He'll lie down on top... (241 words)

I don't know how to connect with women! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys, I don't know why this is happening, I did my best to make this go away, the nervous behaviour, the fear. The words., (the lack of confidence) around women, especially women that I like, the way I feel for them it makes me feel so small, I am longing, lusting and I want ... (209 words)

What am I doing wrong? Why do guys only want to sleep with me and not have a relationship?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am 21 and know people say im still young should be enjoying myself not worried about realtionships but (and please dont judge me) iv slept with 53 boys and only 3 if had a realtionship with. it isnt that i dont what a reationship because i do, but boys just seem t... (145 words)

Nightmare about my daughter is affecting my everyday life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, was wondering if somebody could help me, it's not a relationship question, it's a question about my 17-month-old daughter. But the problem could have something to do with my previous short-lived relationship which ended last month. For the past few days I've felt ... (1142 words)

Relationship has faded with my aunt, now it could happen with my cousin too! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a cousin who's coming up for 2 year's old ill call him Jim. Like any cousins me and Jim have a really close relotionship hes a lovely little boy and i love him to peices. His mum (my aunt) brings him and his older sister (ill call her Emma) round ev... (545 words)

Am I blowing it out of proportion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - What to do. My second Husband has issues accepting my kids for a long time. He has kids I give 100% to his. We have been all going out together and things have been better to the point I may be ready for us all to move in together. Last Sunday I had my kids on their own without ... (713 words)

Drunk party made me spill my secrets in front of my bestfriend! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well first of all yes i know i am underage but hey just thought id have abit of fun it isn't like i do it all the time so please do not lecture me about drinking i know the effects and what i am about to say i did bring it upon myself. Well as ... (475 words)

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, I would like to hear your advice on my situation. To put it bluntly, I'm a 24 year old virgin male. I could try to look good and say that I've been waiting for that special someone, or I'd be honest and tell you that I've never had the chance to lose it (virgini... (620 words)

Advice for an English girl moving to America?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm an English Girl looking into doing one of my university years abroad in the US. There are 2 parts to my question really: 1) I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. we are in a fairly long-term comitted relationship, and this is the only thing holding me back fr... (303 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex and I'm eaten up by guilt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im new to this "going to the internet for help" deal, But i am being tortured everyday and night and im in desperate need for help. :( So here's a little background info before i get into what i need to say. I dated a guy for 3 years on and off when i was 17. h... (591 words)

I'm worried I will always feel like this! Does anyone have any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Readers, I would really appreciate some advice please. I have a history of attracting the wrong type of man, despite the fact that I believe I have done a lot of work on myself to beat the Domestic Violence Cycle. I recently met a man at the Bus Station. I was at the ki... (1004 words)

Should I tell my current girlfriend that I was seeing my ex when we first got together? I'm afraid she'll dump me too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M) age 36-40 - I have never told my current girlfriend of 10 months that I had a girlfriend before her and I always say that she’s my first love. My ex-girlfriend dumped me when she came to know that I was seeing this current girlfriend of mine behind her back for 3 weeks. I had spent 2 ... (160 words)

What's his deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. He hates his current job and he has been trying to either find a better one or get into the master's program of his dreams. He has been feeling really down on himself because he has been receiving rejection letter after rejection ... (237 words)

What do I say in an anniversary card when husband doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It will in two days be my 10'th anniversary but me and my husband have been seperated we still in contact I want us to work on our relationship and send him an anniversay card what, do I say in the card? He told me that he does not love me anymore and Imoved back home ... (57 words)

Do I have another child or go to college?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, Im having trouble making up my mind. Im 22 and married. I have a 2 year old son. Ive been thinking of going to college but lately ive been thinking of having another kid. Why? well because i want my kids to be around the same age. Im the only child so i know how it ... (89 words)

She says she loves me so why does she turn me down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I once proposed a girl and she turned me down,however she contied relying on me for anything she wanted.she started making sexy moves towards me but if i try to propose again she dismises the issue.if i cal her to go out for lunch she turns me down.of late she has been avoiding ... (81 words)

I want to give it a second chance, but I'm do terrified of being shut out and shot down again.... What to do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with this man. He's told me numerous times that he loves me too. We're not together now; we broke up because things were going to fast for him (we were always together, talking about the future, he brought up me moving in, etc.). Anyways, I've recently tried to "let ... (210 words)

Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M) age 41-50 - Do I have to explain everything to my girlfriend with whom I have been for last two years? I am a sports teacher here and who gets free from work around 2pm. In the evening,on the beach, I jog for three miles and at the end go for sprint when 100 Meters left . Once I am done, ... (129 words)

No pleasure from actual intercourse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i find this really embarrassing, but i do think its time i asked at least somebody about this! i'm eighteen years old and i get no pleasure from intercourse. i mean, i can feel him inside of me, but other than that, nothing. i get pleasure from oral, just not interco... (82 words)

After hurting me so badly, why contact me 4 months later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i was hurt by a very close friend of mine,for me it was utter betrayal,and we just stopped contacting each other for some time(about 4 months),yesterday i received a very weird text message from her boyfriend,out of the blue,saying :are you still mad at us?i will never feel bad ... (95 words)

How do I initiate a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so my friend (actually fwb but much, MUCH more than that)and I are considering a threesome. I know this is a fantasy of his but I've admitted to him that it is actually somthing that I've always wanted to try as well. It would be with another woman, although he wouldn't have ... (285 words)

Would you be okay with your bf if they were divorced for over 10 years and still really good buddies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My BF has been divorced for 10 years+ approx. The problem I am having is he is friends with the ex wife. I try to be okay about it but really I am not. I have just given birth to his son about 20 days ago. Bf doesn't have any kids with her but they still talk - she has a nine ... (496 words)

My friends tell me he's dangerous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, i take guitar clases once a week, and i've been with this teacher for over a year. at first he seemed normal, but like he has become really weird now. He calls me stuff like princess and my love... he tells me he loves me and that he wants to be my friend. he is... (215 words)

I can't get over the emotional affair with a married man

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I am having a really hard time getting over a married man. I am in an unhappy marriage and this is why I was vulnerable to him. He led me on and then disappeared from my life. I had true and deep feelings for him during our friendship even though we did not have ... (337 words)

Is it too soon to say ILY?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So im back..again. I know someone is going to tell me that if I have to ask, then I don't, or am not ready. But I have to ask because I want to know, mostly from the lady folk, what you think she wants, and what she thinks. So me and my gal had an amazing weekend.... (470 words)

Is it time to give up on love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42 year old woman and I think I’m about ready to give up. I was married for 14 years when my husband left because he decided he was gay (although he later decided he was bisexual). Then three years later I fall for another man. After 6 months of dating, he has left me ... (101 words)

I don't know if she's just being nice or if she's interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I sit in class next to this amazingly beautiful girl. ive never seen anything like her! Anyways, when ever im lookin around in class and our eyes meet she smiles at me for a second or two (i smile back of course) , but I dunno if this,is just her being nice or if she is ... (79 words)

Ex-wife, husband ties. Effects on a new relationship or marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm seeking opinions on a situation with my husband and his ex wife.They have children together so I understand they will always have some connection/communication although the two daughters,and a son are all grown with lives and families of their own. I have never stood in t... (608 words)

I've only ever been with her, and our sex life is boring

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

25 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - A little back story, I recently turned 23, about 5 years ago I started talking with a woman I met long-distance, she had been coming to see me for about a year, and then I went to see her. I stayed at her house one night, and they kicked her out.. she came home with me and has ... (320 words)

We're both too busy and all we do is text, never see each other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this guy he like me i like him the problems is in the last 6weeks we hardly seen eachother. His a security graud and am a barmaid all we been doing is text when we get a chance and talk on the phone for abit can someone plz help me out with any idea how 2 make it work. ... (70 words)

Boyfriend seems to be focusing way too much on his ex and I can't stand it anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would be very greatful of some help please, this problem has dragged on in my mind for far too long and I'm becoming more and more depressed in my relationship that I'm not sure if it's worth continuing it anymore. I've been with my partner for about three and a half years ... (1021 words)

I'm 23 and never had a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 and have never had a boyfriend. I don't really mind being single, and I haven't really been looking for a relationship, I'm pretty busy with study and have a few jobs, and plenty of friends to hang out with, but a lot of people, including my family ask me all the time... (146 words)

Boyfriend is so private about his phone that its making me paranoid!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

25 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is private with his phone. He brings it in the bathroom with him when he takes a shower, has it in his pocket or on his desk when we're together. He rarely answers his texts around me. He does answer his calls though because they're mostly friends. He used to keep ... (434 words)