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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She says she won't love me anymore if I don't change some of my behaviors!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, am in a 2years relationship, and just recently, she told me that she doesnt love me like before, unless i change some of my behaviours that she has been complaing about for the past two years.Well what i just do told her was that there is no relationship thats perfect.I can ... (68 words)

Is he just using me? Should I tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've recently become intimate with a boy who I've known for about 2 years. We've been out before but that was a year ago and it didn't work out. Now I'm single again after a relationship, he wants to become 'friends with benefits'. This is fine with me, and we've been doing ... (114 words)

Six years with no intercourse. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my bf for 6 years,on and off.he wants to have intercourse but i dont for various reasons.he said he shouldnt have to wait any longer as 6 years is a long time and he said he doesnt want to be with someone who wont have intercourse as,in his words,"it isnt a real ... (88 words)

How do I keep her off my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Help, please? Im 16, and today at college one of my friends brought a few of his female mates two, one was very pretty and definitely caught my eye. Since meeting her I haven't been able to think past her, she's been on my mind all day. Sadly tho she is only 14, soon to be 15 ... (110 words)

He says I'm an "aggressive kisser"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was making out with my new boyfriend the other day, when he made a comment that kind of confused me. He said i was an 'aggressive kisser'. I'm not really sure what he meant by this, and I don't really know if its a bad thing or not....we had been friends for a while before ... (98 words)

Should I love him and leave or keep fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Just need some advice from some unbiased folks...I started dating a guy who was my friend/flatmate first. I fell for him while we lived together and we got close and eventually decided to live separately and start dating. However, things have been a bit up and down and its ... (413 words)

I don't think I'm imagining this-my teacher constantly stares at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My teacher always stares at me ? I'm a 17 year old female and I've noticed that a male teacher who I haven't had as a teacher constantly stares at me in the hall ways as well as sometimes when he pops into my other classes. It started last year and still happens this year. ... (752 words)

Is he being manipulative?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 7 months. for the past 3 weeks says hes too busy for me and has been ignoring my calls, im moving states soon and hes been distant. He keeps telling me he wants to be friends but changes his mind everyday. He told me hes ... (198 words)

Liking pictures of half-naked girls on Facebook, not changing his relationship status-Should I just give up on my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend nearly 5 months. We see each other 1-2 times a week on average. The past 3 weeks, we have only seen one another twice, as he has cancelled on me numerous times. I asked him about it, and he just said he had a lot on his mind. The amount of ... (280 words)

B/f cannot drive, doesn't own a car, has little money, no job, never spends on me and my mum dislikes him! I don't know what to do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. He is very into me and so am I. However, he cannot drive, doesn't own a car, has little money and at the moment, has no job either. I, on the other hand, can drive, have a car and work almost full time hours. He lives a few ... (179 words)

Facebook etiquette?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys i had my first day at a new job today and when i got home i started to search someone on facebook to add them as a friend but i only knew her first name. anyway as i was searching i kept clicking on profiles to look at the picture to see if it was my colleague and i ... (135 words)

Are they just flirting? Or am I blind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello urm where to start.. I was going out with a boy who had just moved to where i live i have known from being a little girl as our family knew eachother, I will call this boy 'C'. Now about a month ago 'C' said he realy liked me and wanted to go out with i was still unsure ... (339 words)

Haven't had any male interest since I was 14

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - anon because I don't want anyone I know to see this thread :( Basically what the title says. I'm a 19 year old heterosexual female and I haven't had any male interest - ie. males asking me out / going on dates since I was 14. No one has asked for my number in years. I'm n... (213 words)

Was this online girl for real?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I started using Zoosk a couple of months ago, and contacted a few girls. One named Naomi replied to me, and we started to chat casually on email. She told me she wanted to exchange pictures, and although I regret it, I did send her some indecent photos. She sent some back, ... (140 words)

Should I keep giving him a benefit of the doubt? Am I being too demanding and unrealistic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just in need of some advice.. I'm not sure if I'll listen, but I would love to hear some thoughts. It will be 5 years in February that I've been with my boyfriend, though the last year has been turmoil. About a year ago things sort of came to a point and I began to addres... (958 words)

It feels like the relationship is taking a turn for the worse

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please Help me out I need advice!! I'm having problems in my relationship right now. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for going on four years and we recently decided to put the past behind us. We've had some problems, but we always seem to pull through and work it out. ... (562 words)

What can I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey right iv been speaking to this guy via text n fb know him through a friend we get on great actually its scary how great we get on but i need ideas of things i can say like short texts to like turn him on and stuff if you get me wer both in our early twenties so its just a ... (85 words)

I think he likes me but he hasn't made a move

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey folks, There's a guy at work who I strongly suspect likes me a lot. He's always really helpful to me and almost always has a smile for me whenever our gazes happen to meet. He tends to single me out whenever he has the chance and even though I'm no chatterbox he ma... (244 words)

How to tell him I am falling in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what is the best way to tell a guy im falling in love with him??????... (15 words)

How long should I date her without a sexual relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male with a high-sex drive in my mid twenties. I have had a lot of partners and dated even more women, but only one previous lover. I met this new girl who I am absolutely attracted to in multiple dynamics and hope her to be my next love. A lot of things about her... (374 words)

Jealousy is interfering with our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really jealous. It's really driving my boyfriend and I apart. He has a few female friends and I find it hard trusting him with them on his own. I know I have no reason to as he really is amazing but I can't help how I feel. I get all tight inside and scared and as if ... (117 words)

Been out of the dating game for a while -- how soon should intimacy start?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I have just got to the fourth date with a new guy.... but it has been a long time since I was last on the dating phase of a relationship. How soon should things be progressing with regards to physical intimacy and when does it go from dating to being in a relationshi... (139 words)

Personality vs looks?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So I was wondering... Is personality or physical attraction more important? Any thoughts would be appreciated!... (20 words)

How many men think sex isn't good unless a BJ in involved?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How many of men consider that sex is not good without blowjob? Is intercourse alone not enough to satisfy a man? How many women would perform oral sex on a stable partner vs a casual sexual encounter?... (38 words)

I lied for 7 years about what I looked like with a LDR and now that he knows the truth he is different to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I was 13 years old in the year of 2005, possibly to young to understand the word love. I met two young boys,my age, one day chatting on the internet. One of which took my number and started texting each other almost all the time. Now at the time we were bot... (537 words)

G/f ended things saying she can't see a future with us and wants to go forward not backwards

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - 1 year ago i left my girlfriend of 4 years we have broken up once before ,she is my soulmate and i love her still even though i did leave ,we used to all live together in her parents house with her 2 great kids,she suffers from depression and she had an abortion when we broke ... (294 words)

How do I ask her do have sex with me without pissing her off and ruining our relationship?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my cousin have always had this kinda connection since we were younger. It went from just touching to kissing. So now a couple of months ago me and my cousin ended up having sex together, and all i can think about is having sex with her. I want it all the time. She told ... (111 words)

She used to be a dancer, but I proposed anyway

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently, my girlfriend told me that she used to be Striptease Dancer gour years back. She remained in that professional for one year before dumped it once she fell in love with me. We are together since July 2008. Even before she told me, two years back I had already ... (169 words)

Am I completely in the wrong and deserve this? Or is he overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy on a dating website 2 months ago, we met after a week and kept seeing each other every weekend. At first it was a but bumpy and he wouldn't text for days, he works away in the week n so we would only see each other on weekends. He calls me his girl and that but ... (282 words)

My boyfriend's mother has seen all our dirty texts and now I cant face her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey this is really embarassing but i have no one to turn upto for help.! Last night, me and my boyfriend were texting each other, rather talking dirty, when suddenly his mom and dadcaught him texting. His mother already hates me unlike his father, who must be upset with m... (287 words)

I cant stop worrying about my past and what people think of me, will this ever fade?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone Well I would just like some opinions views from people, maybe if anyone has been in the same boat as me? I am 27 years old and for the past few years I turned into quite a party animal and I'd say maybe went off the rails a bit. I drank FAR too much every we... (351 words)

I told him about my past, he went silent and now wont speak to me until he has 'forgiven me'!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. When I was 12, i was quite badly raped and beaten to within an inch of my life (I was in ICU for the following 2/3 months afterwards.) I did not open up to anyway and I still remain that way (like, i will jump if anyone touches me, even slightly or I will get ... (173 words)

Christmas stress....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I'm worrying about Christmas.... I have been with my boyfriend for two years and have spend both Christmases away from each other, so we said last year we would spend xmas together in December 2011. We thought of some ways to be together like we have his parents and ... (440 words)

I don't feel loved anymore

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

17 October 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Are these signs he doesn't love me... maybe hates me, actually... or is abusive perhaps? He lets his friends make sexually explicit jokes about me in front of other people, not defending me. When I say it hurts my feelings he says that's because I have no sense of humor. ... (307 words)

Why did he say he wanted to keep in touch whilst travelling and then not call me? Am I not a good enough girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been separated with my boyfriend for almost 5 months because he has to go back to his country to continue his study. He studied here for 10 months, and we used to be sharemates then we fell in love each other, aNd we went through our relationship for almost 8 months, by ... (995 words)

My last experience with a girl has left me wanting to focus on work and not girls, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Somehow I felt very tired mentally after my previous experience with a girl. The experience between me and her was great at the start but everything turned disastrous at last. It was not a pleasant experience because we are not even friends anymore. This relationship had... (191 words)

I can't tell if she's just been really busy, or if she's losing interest...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, so about 3 months ago, I started talking to this girl that I really like. I got to know her through her brother who plays in a band with me since I always go to his house. Last month, we went on our first date and it was AMAZING for both of us. Things started to mo... (311 words)

Pubic hair, rashes and embarassing moles!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod Note: 3 questions merged into one] Quite a personal question... but here we go, pubic hair is so annoying. I do my bikini line and trim, but it still feels like there is too much. How can you trim "neatly"? Sometimes I feel like being completely waxed or shaven looks li... (290 words)

Ladies: How can you tell exactly when you ovulate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, Firstly, this post is for other women out there. Men may find it disturbing. I'm 28, almost 29. I have polycystic ovary syndrome, well, I have symptoms of PCOS (chin hair, inbalanced hormones levels etc). My gyno diagnosed me with it a few years back. I don... (285 words)

I want to make sure he's not just using me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound silly but I,ve recently slept with a guy that I,ve been dating for 3 months now and he was my first. The thing is since we slept together he's been kinda distant.( silliness bout to come up ) But I want to make sure he didn't use me for sex. I ... (86 words)

Can he get addicted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - he cares too much for me which is becoming a bit alarming. he travels a lot due to the nature of his work but even if hes back home at 3 at night,he has to make sure i had mmy dinner and that i am healthy. when i had my miscarriage he took off for 1 month just to look after... (209 words)

My husband can't stand the thought of my ex--how should I deal with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I we have been married for six months. i have a child and my husband has non. My husband gets moody and sulky about my daughter's dad. last night, my daughter who lives in a diferent town, was in my town and i saw him when i was with my husband. apparently, he is in arrears on ... (262 words)

For 16-18 year olds, what should we do for halloween?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Sooooo, Halloween is coming up, me and all my different friends and "friend groups" want to do something. People like coming to my place, but there is noway I am having a halloween party. We think someone else might be throwing one, but can't be 100% sure. What should ... (112 words)

My mother doesn't think my boyfriend is good enough for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry guys, this will be a long story but I really need your help :( I've been with my bf for almost 2 years. At first our relationship is just soo wonderful. We love each other so much and both of our parents encourage our relationship. Until I write this, I still fe... (597 words)

I'm worried by these texts I've seen from another guy on my girlfriend's phone....what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend sends and recieves strange txts from a guy at work; sent:he migth get suspisious secret meeting in the street an all x, (thro wet sponge at manager for charity) (pj day at work for charity) sent:you could get ya legs waxed in ya pjs im so excited x x, sent:if ... (103 words)

I promised not to have sex with her until we get married, but I cant help not trust her and think she will lose it to someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl friend is 17yrs i love her so much, and i promise not to have sex with her until we wed. But am afraid she may lose her virginity to another because you cant trust most girls. What should i do. ... (42 words)

I was his rebound girl....how do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was his rebound girl. I cannot believe it. I definitely knew what I got myself into, but the god-damned feelings kicked in. I fell for him, quite a bit. I wanted more, and I thought I could do it. The honest words he said, does hurt. I am mostly okay, but the... (197 words)

Why am I feeling so broody all the time? Has anyone else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just wondering why I'm feeling this way and if anyone else has been through this? I'm in my late 20s and have been living with my boyfriend for the past few months. We've been together for six years and have what I believe is a solid relationship. We love and trust e... (416 words)

I think my boyfriend is gay...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want other opinions...my boyfriend served in the armed forces, he's quite the hard ass at times, and he's the stereotypical alpha male. A friend of his is visiting him this week. This friend is also in the service and is coming from Iraq. I am not allowed to visit... (1008 words)

My boyfriend's family don't know my real address but know I have lied, I'm worried they will turn up at my house and insult me and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i am 20 years old girl in a relationship with a guy from last 2.5 years. Due to some personal problems, i didnt tell him my current address but later on, i confronted. Now, the problem is, he knows my current address but his family still thinks me as somebody w... (338 words)

How much did you regret not losing your virginity to your husband/wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Did you regret not losing your virginity to the person you're married to? How much? I'm torn between waiting until marriage (for religious and mostly nonreligious reasons) and just going for it with whoever I feel like. But I don't want to one day regret that decision, so I wan... (59 words)

How much time should I give him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had posted a question a few days ago concerning a problem I am having with my boyfriend...since hunting season started in our area he has become distant, distracted, and pretty mean towards me. He's an avid hunter and doesn't want to be bothered by me right now. We got in... (627 words)

My supervisor is trying to force me out of my job! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a problem regarding relationships or anything like that but I really need advice. I recently started my first job about 6 weeks ago, I've just turned 18 a few weeks ago. Everything was fine until I got friendly with a girl at work who is my supervisors favo... (323 words)

We decided to be FWB, but now it sounds like he wants something more but he cant give me a straight answer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Ok, this situation is a bit more complicated than I'd like it to be, but it is what it is. I met a guy 3 1/2 years ago and things didn't work out. Now, we've started talking again and we decided to do a friends with benefits type of thing. Which was cool with me. I ... (325 words)

We want a baby, but we have no support on my side of the family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Some background information: I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for almost 4 years and we love each other very much. I'm the only child and my parents, grandparents, and my aunt are TOO overprotective and still look at me as a child. They don't like me to go out ... (420 words)

I was dating his best friend but then he suddenly passed away, now the friend has feelings for me.....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been dating and working on a relationship with a childhood friend and he unexpectedly passed away. It has been three months and his best friend and I are now very close. I no that he has romantic feelings for me. I am attracted to him but I control that attraction because ... (63 words)

He's a senior... I'm a freshman...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a thing with a senior, and I am a freshman (we're both in college). I really, really like him. People say that you meet the person you're supposed to be with in college (now I know this doesn't apply to everyone). People say that you "just know" when you've found the... (210 words)

My boyfriend has fallen out of love with me because of all the arguments!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and i have been getting into arguments every single day. and yesterday he had told me that he fell less in love with me because of all the arguments , im still deeply in love , what can or should i do? brake up and let everything go or get him to fall back in love ... (74 words)

I cant even get a woman to go on a first date with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am an asian man, who is completely bald, and living in the midwest. And by bald, i mean i've almost lost all hair on my scalp and now, losing my eyebrows too. I'm professionally successful, relatively healthy, average built, 6 feet tall, 170lbs man.. but I just can't find ... (139 words)

She's an ex for a reason, but I still can't let go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so my girlfriend left me a handful of months ago for another guy and devistated me. i tried my best to move on. well she got back into contact with me when she asked one night if i wanted to come over and visit with her son who was asking about me. she started sobbing ... (368 words)

Am I over-thinking this issue with my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf of three years. some times some of the stuff he does makes me question if he really is in love with me. he doesn't put as much effort into the relationship, makes me feel like I'm not appreciated, puts me through so much, pays a ... (138 words)

I really want to, but I always back out at the last minute

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I've only ever had two boyfriends. The first realtionship I was in was really innocent even though it lasted a long time. He was really respectful and chivalrous, and we never really even thought of moving past making out (and letting him "cop a feel" every once in ... (145 words)

Thinking of losing it with a friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I feel like my problem is a but out of the oridnary, but here goes. I'm 17 and a senior in high school. I'm also a virgin. I've had boyfriends before, but it just never happened. Anyway, my best friend (boy) is still a virgin too. We're going off to colege soon ... (142 words)

How do I get my ex out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright i can't get my ex out of my head. and i'm dating somebody else. I really like this guy i'm dating but its hard, when i'm thinking about my ex. So i would like to know how you get your ex out of your head. I'm his friend, but we dated and it's kinda weird but then again ... (129 words)

Does being turned on more by girls make me lesbian???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (?) age 30-35 - So I'm a girl and I hang out with guys all day so they got me to watch porn and then I started to watch lesbian porn. It turns me on more to see a girl naked then seeing a guy. but I don't want to be lesbian. what does this mean if I get turned on by girls??? Feel free to m... (70 words)

I'm scared and unsure what to do. The guy thinks I'm not into it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4815 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am hooking up with this guy but really I do not know what I am doing. I really like him and he feels the same way too, but still. He's experienced and I feel scared. We tried to get it in but I couldn't take it. I'm completely lost and he said that it felt like I wasn't ... (92 words)

What makes men feel special?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright men, I like this guy alot, and things are fine, but I want to do something... special. Something thats not sappy, and too romantic, but fun, and will impress him. So what sort of things do men apperciate, in that sence. The best way to explain would be... wo... (93 words)

I can't stop thinking about her and want to tell my cousin how I feel

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Never much fond of summer season but this year, it's way too good just to whinge and moan about the heat. I hung out with my female cousin far more frequent than usual... I just love being with her. In fact, I have a secret feeling towards her (see earlier post/s). Wheneve... (220 words)

I think my boyfriend almost cheated on me but he won't give me any details

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

17 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - bare with me, im a little p'd off right now.. ok, so im currently in a long distance relationship. its only for about 6 months or so until he comes back.. im pretty sure he cheated on me, but only came half way clean, because i went off on him, so im sure it caused he to ret... (323 words)

Is there any way to get some alone time? Or do I have to just wait?

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17 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a while now, and we're both highschool seniors. I have a super strict mom and stepdad, and we can only give eachother a few kisses on the lips and hugs, thats it. Door stays open if we're in my room. At his house, we cant ev... (108 words)

How can I let my best friend go just because he doesn't love me as a girlfriend?

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17 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel so frustrated I just need to rant. I have known a guy for five years and we have always been friends. We get on really well and stay in weekly (sometimes daily) contact. We socialise every few weeks because we live some distance apart and both have very busy lives.... (500 words)

She used to like me 2 years ago, but now she's flirty, but she's that way with everyone!

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17 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - 2 years ago i liked a girl and she liked me, but no one made any moves and we drifted apart and now (2 years later) im crazy for her again but im not sure if she likes me. shes flirty but shes like that with everyone so im dont have any idea on what to do... what to do? ... (60 words)