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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Our long distance relationship is totally one sided

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now, but have dated on and off for the past year and a half. We are both 18 years old, and we met in high school. For the past 8 or so months, everything was great. We would see each other almost every day and would ... (511 words)

Why does my friend think its wrong to ask if she's ok?

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11 October 2011 (?)

- My best friend is really stressed right now. She is 57 and I am 50. It's her job and all the responsibility. The one thing she enjoyed, was at the end of the day getting an email from me, it would make her laugh and smile. It made her happy. Well lately she has been so busy she ... (261 words)

I asked the guy I'm seeing what we were and he said he didn't know!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m dating a guy but he doesn't want a relationship. But I don't understand it. He meets up with me when he can, we kiss, cuddle, trust each other, go on dates and we get on really well! I don't understand it to some people we're already in a relationship but he says he doesn't ... (78 words)

What is like to love and be loved back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What does it feel like to love someone and loved back. (falling in love) I never been in a relationship before. Is it the best thing that can happen in life?... (31 words)

I feel like I need her to be happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl when I was 16 (young, I know) and well we were friends for a year, then after realizing our feelings as more than friends we dated for 2 years. She left me in a complicated process for another guy whom she had liked before she met me, and he was more popular ... (444 words)

My estranged mother's funeral....the worst situation I will ever allow myself to be in...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I had not spoken to my parents or their families for some years. To cut a long story short - I spoke out about being abused as a child by my father and they all took my father's side - my ex husband and his family included??? I was cut out from the family and I moved to ... (270 words)

Is it destructive behavior to get with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So im at university, in my second year and while im not massively into partying and drinking, on the occasion when i do go out i like to have a good time. I have 'got' with 4 gyus since being at uni meaning i have kissed them at the club or round theirs. I enjoy doing this... (725 words)

I'm pushing away the one person who might really care about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay here's my problem and it's with the same girl Diedra, now we've started talking and stuff and she constantly tells me that I'm special to her and that she loves me and that she can talk to me about everything, now idk why but I say things that hurt her (knowing they do) ... (134 words)

Was my thinking wrong? My manager's mother died and I didn't go to the funeral because I haven't even started the job yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i just started a new job literally a week ago. Unfortunately my manager's mother passed..i actually don't even have an official work e-mail yet; still waiting for the process to be done. So i hear it through word of mouth. I feel bad but i figured i would just give a card. ... (227 words)

She has my number but hasn't contacted me... Girls, how long before she might contact me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 20 something guy and want to get female opinions on something. I know usually 'guy gets girl tel number and it goes from there' - but 3 days ago a situation happened - where I helped a girl in a tricky situation, and followed it up by writin down my tel number and popp... (144 words)

How to seek revenge on a player?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a player, and he keeps coming back for sex coz we have chemistry..I have been ignoring him..what is the best revenge? Is it better to confront him, and end it.. or be friendly and sweet like he doesnt mean anything to me, and gently pull away and refrain from see... (110 words)

Is it a phase she's going through or is she done with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - well i'll try to shorten it...So i met this girl over a phone's game and we talked...we have a lot in common and i like her and she likes me. I asked her if she's interested in having a relationship because we're 2000 miles apart. She's not interested in a long distance ... (223 words)

I feel so alone and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - sorry for this being so long, but please read and hopefully give some advice. ill start with my personality, im not very confident very shy and get very anxious. My school life was ok i wish i was back cos id do so much different but since leaving i havent gone to collage,... (543 words)

It was nothing serious and he blew it out of proportion

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner caught me flirting on line. He had warned me several times to stop. I did for a while. He called round unexpectedly while i was in some erotic conversation. He has been a good father figure to my two teenage sons. After getting abusive he went. My sons have started ... (142 words)

Should I report this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I'm so fed up. A veryyyy long time ago I was a manager of a retail store where I met a lady who was elder and incredibly sweet. She had 2 sons who I also met one living @ home and one living on his own. Let's call the son living at home "Brad" he has several issues and I ... (444 words)

Is this teacher sending signals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need some advice I'm 19 years old and I think that my 31 year old science teacher might like me here are some things he does He always gives me nicknames and calls me by my surname 2. If I’m sat at my table he always walks down in between the next table and mine and ... (371 words)

Played a bit of a game and afraid it's bitten me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do? i really like this guy. please help? ? I've been getting to know this guy for a while now. First we use to speak on the phone everyday for about a week. Then he asked if he's the only guy I was talking to and I said no, am talking to a few other guys too. ( I... (253 words)

Does this dream about an ex mean we're going to have trouble reconciling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the thing, my boyfriend and I broke up over the weekend, but after realizing we really care about each other we re-titled it to a break, with the intention of working out our problems and getting back together. I really care about him, but I'm a little worried. ... (236 words)

He said he's imagined what sex would be like with other women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance has just let it known that he has imagined what sex would be like with other people based on their bodies and personalities...he does say that I always 'win' though. This coupled with the fact that he doesn't have much expeirence outside me, is really starting to give ... (119 words)

Have I lost him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years but suddenly yesterday, after a bad argument I solely threatened to break up with him, and he told me that it was the right thing to do, that we do not work and he doesn't want a headache anymore, he doesn't want a ... (273 words)

I've forgotten how to flirt?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, here`s a situation: I am 20 years old, have been in a relationship last two years and now we decide to split up. I met a new guy who is absolutely gorgeous, smart, funny etc. But I feel like I have kinda lost my ability to flirt. I used to know so much funny li... (142 words)

Am I pushing him too hard to have relationship with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello guys.. i need your advices / help.. so here is my situation : I met this guy online this Sept 26th. 2011..he is a US NAVY but he is in Japan for 3 years,but going back to USA this december.. we always chat everyday, we text during his duty.. and we both like each other.. ... (220 words)

Should I make her leave me alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up. she wants to be freinds and talk. I cant be just her friend. I love her too much. I have told her I dont want to be friends. I told her to just move on and she doesnt. I dont want her to move on at all but she has told me that she doesnt want to get back ... (331 words)

How can I learn to accept he wants someone else but still loves me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age - My partner has decided to start looking for other female company on chat sites. We got into a situation of our doing but I found I could not cope with the situation. He cannot understand that I have feelings that get hurt. It is destroying our marriage and I don't know what ... (76 words)

Is it normal for my lover to be happy to continue the affair without sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,im a married woman,two years from now i met a cute guy who is also married.We are physically attracted to each other but till now i refused to have sex with him.He says he will wait till i'm ready,we are very close emotionally we share everything except sex. Is that normal f... (71 words)

Is it normal for sex to feel different with/without a condom?

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11 October 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, the first few times that i had sex, the guy used a condom. buuut there were a few times after that when he DIDN'T use a condom. please don't start lecturing me about how this is risky behavior and that i could wind up getting pregnant; i know it's risky, i kn... (118 words)

I'm in an open relationship. my friend's brother and I had sex. So why did'nt he reply after our great night?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i agreed to an open relationship not too long ago after being married for 6 years. I met my friends brother at a club few days back. He was flirting with me, buying me drinks, dancing with me etc. I told him about my relationship status.He said he was ok with ... (330 words)

Do you view oral sex as "less than" regular intercourse? Why?

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11 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Do you view oral sex as "less-than" regular intercourse? I have dated a few girls in the past that readily admitted to giving head, but proudly stated they were still virgins. I have gone out with a few girls who blew me away, pun intended, by stating, "don't think your ... (281 words)

My wife is the breadwinner now and wants me to be a house-husband, should I do it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I m from Detroit city age 35. I lost my job couple of years back because of the recession ; haven't been able to find another one. However, my wife,33, has a great job with big fat pay package. Surprisingly, she got a promotion during the recession, she is now one of the d... (91 words)

Do I listen to my friends? Give in to my doubts? Alarm bells, not wedding bells are ringing in my ears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm with a guy who wants to marry me. Yet alarm bells are ringing? He has his own business in istanbul and two other businesses in another city. But my friends say he is using me for passport and visa. Has anyone any advice for me? ... (49 words)

Is it normal to feel resentful when someone makes you feel responsible for their personal happiness?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am with a wonderful man whom I love very much. We are in a long-distance relationship but he is endlessly sweet, thoughtful, and loving to me. We talk every day on Skype. In most ways I feel I could not ask for a better man. But. He has been hurt by many women in the past, ... (249 words)

How do I tell this guy I want more than sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How can a tell this guy i be having sex with that cant do it anymore because i want something more with him or with someone else i had enogh being use for cause im good looking it dosent give people the right 2 use me im sick of it they all how hot i am and how lucky they are ... (75 words)

Does she really want to stay "just friends"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have an very strong relationship with someone who insists she wants to remain "just friends" for fear of ruining our relationship.She often says and does things that make me think she wants more,including masturbating in front of me when we are talking on the webcam to each ... (126 words)

How do I tell my friend I fancy her sister whom I've never met but have seen photos of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. My problem is this. I was looking at the Facebook profile of an old school friend. While looking at her profile, I decided to look at her sister's profile. Her sister is gorgeous and I have a lot in common with her, but I have never met her or even spoken to her. ... (95 words)

Sex for the 1st time was painful and now I think I'm angry and don't want to talk to my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex for the first time yesterday and it wasnt what i expected at all. It was PAINFUL and awkward... although my boyfriend is great and tried to make me feel extra comfortable i still felt uncomfortable. Now I dont feel like talking to him but he wants to talk [he's been ... (96 words)

Boyfriend paid more attention to his friend's son than my daughter. No one thought it was weird but me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I the only person who thinks that this situation is very hurtful? I was with my partner for fifteen years. When we met I was divorced and had a young daughter of seven years old. My partner was 5 years younger than me and from a single parent family in which his mother... (917 words)

Help me get over these 3 "speed bumps" so I can ask her out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, kind of a long question here. There is this girl in my class at university who is really really cute and i want to get to know her/ask her out, but a few things, first, i am really really shy and usually have problems starting conversations with girls and talking to ... (173 words)

My girlfriend is just too emotional and needy and I cant handle it anymore, but I don't want to leave her in ths state either.....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Patience with my girlfriend is wearing thin. All she ever does nowadays is complain about everything, she rarely asks me how I am, and if I have a problem she usually just tells me it's nothing or she just doesn't listen at all as if my issues don't matter. Yet I sit he... (929 words)

We are in love, but is she back with her boy toy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a long distance relationship with a woman who is 42. I am 43. We have only seen each other 3times in the last 7 months and had sex on two of those occasions. I love her and she says she loves me completely. However a few weeks ago her secret sex partner found her ... (252 words)

We messed around and ended up having oral sex, now he isnt answering any of my calls or texts! I've never felt so cheap in my entire life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had known my friend and her brother for almost 7 years, and although I wasn't as close to him when we were younger (due to the 3 yr difference) I used to have a big crush on him. After years of not talking, we messaged each other back and forth on facebook, hung out a couple ... (498 words)

Why do I feel hurt that he thinks it's normal to go to a strip club/pole dancing at a stag party?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - The subject of my fiancee going to a stag weekend where there they go to a strip club/pole dancing came up (we're together a year). He said he wouldn't think of going twice and what was the big deal. I was shocked at his reaction. He was then shocked at my reaction at being ... (379 words)

Has anyone taken or know of anyone who has been using Isotretinoin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just wondering whether anyone reading this post has or knows or anyone who has taken Isotretinoin? It's an acne medication. It also goes under the name of Roaccutane, Isotane or Accutane. I believe this drug caused my sister's suicidal depression and anorexia. She c... (96 words)

How do I forget about my first love?

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11 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys! well,i'm trying to forget my first love but we were just a friends and he has a gf ,how i can forget about him and he still talking to me and he's soooooo nice with me, i can be just a friend but with his attitude what can i do ? i'm so harsh on him but he cares about ... (149 words)

How do I get out of this rut?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4746 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this is a relationships help site, but I really need help! I am in my late 30's and feel that I haven't gotten anywhere in life. I am still single, have a job that isn't exactly my dream job, and I feel extremely lonely! About 2 years ago, I decided to move to a differ... (190 words)

Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I know guy for about 11 year we never talk before i though he hated me bout 8weeks ago he gave me is number and we being having sex since dose he like me or is he just using me for sex please help me ... (46 words)

Why is he talking to women online and getting nude pictures?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for 4 yrs now and have two young children together, one just two months. I recently found him on a website and his profile shows single looking to meet. i also found pics of another girl, some nude, on his phone. She is someone he used to ... (201 words)

He hurt me by taking another girl out, but now he is being sweet again...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18.I have a big confusion that is bothering me, My ex and I know each other for 4 years.We've loved each other in spite of n number of break ups we have had [I think he loves me] Um, two weeks back we were trying to sort things in between us but that week he went out with ... (212 words)

Is it unreasonable that I'd like sex with her every so often? She's stopped all sex now she is a Christian

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I am in a relationship with this amazing girl and have been for over a 18 months, when we first dated we were having sex twice a week. This carried on until about 12 months later when she asked if we can stop having sex as she is a christian and she feels its giving ... (164 words)

Is he lying? Says his kiss meant nothing. But my friends say he talks about me non-stop. Is he smitten?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So this boy kisses me, and then when I try to question him about it, as I like him, he tells me it's nothing and we'd never be anything. Yet every single one of his friends and my friends say he talks about me non-stop, and stares at me, and gets annoyed when he sees me with ... (67 words)

My sister-in-law drives me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been together since college. During that time I have gotten to know her sister well. In fact, she even lived with us on two occasions. One, when she divorced her husband and moved in with her toddler son for a few months and then later when my wife con... (466 words)

Confused about my massage therapist's behaviour....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My ex crush is a massage therapy, nd I was there last week.He was then very nice nd calm, nd I felt that he wanted to talk more to me, but we talked little because I was nervous. He looked all the time into my eyes even when I looked into his. He smiled sometime... (421 words)

Will the heartbreak go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get over the guy I lost my virginity too? We've been together 7 months and we are about to break up because i am moving 4 hours away next week and it hurts so bad. I dont want another guy, thinking about doing the dating process again just sounds terrible.. He's ... (104 words)

Should I approach him based on his body langauge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I usually prefer trying to give advice rather than ask... But there has been something- rather someone- on my mind since last January. I'm basically asking if he's interested (typical I know) by the signs I list, or if I should approach. [*background... (653 words)

I hooked up with an older guy who turns out to be my cousin! Do I come clean about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me what do i do!!.last night i went to a party and drank more then i should (im under age)..i hooked up with this guy that is about 8years older then me and ive known him all my life. Today i woke up with my sister calling and saying what was wrong with me,she had ... (215 words)

Is my hatred towards my half sister a bit over the top? How can I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm female, and my sister and I really don't get along. I don't know if it's because the fact she has a different father than me own, (I'm an only kid to my father.) My dad treats me differntly, which most men would to their own children. But even when we were 4-5 we really d... (219 words)

How can a person just up and walk away and not care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband of 7 1/2 yrs told me he was confussed and nobody in the house is happy, he deserves to be happy and left. the week he left he took off his wedding ring. after a month he filed for divorce. he says there is noone else. he is my true love, i love him with all my heart. ... (205 words)

Can I date my ex-girlfriend's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend dumped me ten months back for no reason and I was fine with it since I don't believe in dragging along people against their will. Now I have realized my mistake that I shouldn't have fallen for her and now get the feeling that her close friend is the girl for... (127 words)

Does she like me or was I just a fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this girl for the last month or two, we had been talking online for a while and decided to hang out one day since we both live fairly close to each other. I thought we hit it off, we've been on a lot of dates together, having a lot of fun (i.e. at the bea... (498 words)

Why did he stop talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so.. there is this guy i like .....i only have him for one class he used to say hi but not anymore he acts like i don't exist.......i never did anything mean and i didn't disrespect him at all why did he stop talking to me?.....and he has a girlfriend but that didn't stop him ... (62 words)

Problems with penetration.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin as is my boyfriend but only being 18 we haven't been in a rush to have sex, we both wanted me to be on the pill and I only got on that about a month ago, and have always just agreed that it'll happen when it happens. The other night however, we did try, he had ... (346 words)

After all my struggles in life I really want a relationship but I have no idea where to start!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm a 23 year old guy with some serious issues at hand. I've struggled with life more than others and have always been somewhat cold and distant with everyone, including myself. I feel like I've been abstract and distant from my own life and existence. My issue... (575 words)

She said I have to gain her trust, how do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm talking to a girl that I really like, and today I told her how I feel and she said she feels the same way but she is not ready for another relationship yet, and she said I have to gain her trust. I really like this girl but I feel like she doubting me, so I need to gain her ... (128 words)

Dating disasters.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in my early 30s. Never been married have no kids etc A couple failed relationships early in life abs believe me I'm glad they fell through looking back now. But I worry that I'll never find a good long term realtionship or have a family of my own I meet a lot of jerks. Lo... (103 words)

I masturbate a lot and I hate it. How can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a girl and I masturbate. I'm a virgin and want to stay that way till marriage. I masturbate almost every night and anytime I'm alone which is usually a lot because my mom works. I even do it when my sister is in the house but she's never caught me. I also watch porn. I ... (155 words)

Its only been a month but we are in love, and now I find out he is never willing to leave his small town....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for a month now, and we've already fallen in love. Problem is, he lives four hours away from me in a small town. With his parents, and just recently finally found a job. Me on the other had, I have had a job of four years, my own place (well, roomate), ... (159 words)

I went on a training course. Unbeknown to me he went on a trip with his ex. How do I cope with all the turmoil in me over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel as if I have somehow lost myself. I am an almost thirty year old woman, and have lived a fairly adventerous life. I have traveled, studied, and most of the things people talk of doing. I have never had a serious relationship until now. No man had ever held my int... (642 words)

How do I cope with the downsides of a FWB relationship? tips please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For those of you in a long distance relationship, how do you cope with saying goodbye (til next time)? I normally get a few days with my man every couple weeks but I only got one day this time around and at the risk of sounding like a big, fat baby..I just want to curl up ... (149 words)

Is his choice just a convenient way for him to continueliving his single life and enjoy benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

11 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - About 7 months ago I got out of a long term relationship. Almost as soon as that relationship ended I began seeing a co-worker and friend of my ex-boyfriends (they are not great friends but they do work together and they have mutual friends and sometimes hang out outside of w... (218 words)

Is his Ex trying to talk her way back into his life? If I confront him, he'll know I snooped.

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11 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help :/ A little back story: I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and we have known each other and been friends for 12 years. He broke up with his gf of 1 year about 2 months before we progressed into a relationship and made things official. It was a bad breakup,... (420 words)

Over-reaction? "what girl did he get this from?" Suddenly he's lifted his game in the bedroom. Should I be worried that he may be cheating?

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11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or I should be worried. When it comes to sex with my long-distance boyfriend, he's always been really simple/traditional/I'm not sure what to call it. Foreplay isn't much of a factor, barely any kissing, and we always stick to two posi... (176 words)

Yes, drunk, I kissed a boy. Shall I tell my BF? But worse my BF did the same a year ago with a girl I know. Do I confront him with this new info on him?

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11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is long. but please bare with me. Here it comes, the age-old question, manifested into one very weird situation: What is worse. emotional betrayal or physical betrayal? Here's the story. I am at university right now, i'v just finished freshers' week... it was a blas... (752 words)

To Text or not to Text? Does it work for all or only for some?

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11 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All. I was wondering what you think is an acceptable amount to text your partner? See, I was once in a long term relationship with a girl who would always send a text each day with 'Good Morning' and then 'Good Night' later on, as well as other things like 'Going to t... (515 words)

In love with my ex who I can't have, but I slept with someone else. Head is messed up!

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11 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - In love with my ex, but I slept with someone else. Here's the story. Long story short, my partner dumped me over 3 months ago now, but we carried on having sex until about a month ago, and now the ex seems to have lost interest in sex with me as they see me as a close frien... (479 words)

Dated him, dumped him, cheated with him, dated him again, I found out he was cheating, dumped him, then decided not to try again. But what if I should have?

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11 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i liked this guy who use to be a player until he met me i dated him for a month, loved every min of it, and then i dumped him for my x.....a month later i ended up cheatin on my boyfriend for this guy, and then we ended up datin a month after that we dated a few times and then ... (209 words)

I know I'll be hurt if I stay with him, but it'll hurt if I say we're over too!

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11 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I,m dating this AMAZING guy. He's sweet, funny, kind, caring and I really care about him. I feel like I love him but I know he doesn't feel the same...he doesn't really want a relationship. The thing is he's had alot of lovers in the past and only 3 girlfriends. If I say we're ... (75 words)

I'm a 19 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend. How can I change both of these problems?

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11 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's all my relevant background information: - I'm a 19 year old virgin who has never even had a girlfriend. - I'm 5ft10 and weigh 150lbs. - I used to be a loser who was friends with losers. However, after I graduated high school, I abandoned all of them because th... (101 words)

I'm hurting from the breakup, I texted her boss and she broke it off!

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11 October 2011 (M)

age - I looked in my girlfriends phone and found a text from her boss and started returning the texts as if i was her telling him that I love my partner This has made it hard at work for her I also lied to her and said i didnt do but the told her i did She has now ended ... (127 words)