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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Alright so there is this guy that I really like and I have known him for over two years. Recently we have gotten really close. Closer than we have ever been. Slowly I started to like him and I've been wondering if he feels the same. My friend agreed to help me and asked him a few questions like what do you think of her and he answered I like talking to her because she's real and I care about her a lot. And then my friend was like do you like her and then he was like I don't know maybe and then she asked would you date her he answers the same I don't know maybe. So when my friend told me this I was like okay I am motivated to tell him. And there have been times in my life where he has helped me... I went through a dark stage in my life and another boy was involved and the guy I like came in and defended me and comforted me and made sure I was okay. Then another situation came where this random guy in my class would always come up to me and tell me I'm ugly. I got really self conscious and I asked the boy I like if he thought I was ugly he said no... A few days have passed and just today I decided okay I can't keep this in anymore I need to tell him. So I told him today look I need to tell you something and I don't know how you'll take it but you have to promise me that you won't ignore me or shut me out and things won't become weird between us. And then I was like do you know what I'm going to say and he said yes and I was like then please don't make me say it. And then I was like wait what do you think and he decided to play dumb and was like I don't know and I was like you're going to make me say it aren't you? And he started smiling and I was like fine... I like you... And it looked like he took it A's shock he was like really? And then he started smiling. He didn't give me a response though I asked him if he wanted to say anything. And he was like what and continued to smile but then the bell rang for last class and I was like I was hopin you were going to say how you feel or if you feel the same. And then I left. I was so mad. Then my friend comes up to me and says he told me you told him and she told me that he said he didn't want to talk about it... Does he like me... Because I really care about him and he does with me too but I have a feeling he won't like me but my friends are telling me he does... I'm so unsure and with how everything went today I don't know. The only response I got from him was smiling and really?! Does he like me... Do you think he'll say yes. Any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2011):
 It is really hard to tell. It is obvious that he thinks of you as a close friend. He was obviously taken back when you told him that you had feelings for him. He probably didn't know what to say or how to respond. Just give him a few days to let it sink in and if he likes you well then he should make the effort to tell you, and if he doesn't bring up the subject again well then it is his loss.
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