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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Guys -- looks or personality?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all I have a question for the guys out there. Would you rather have a super hot woman with a pretty face and nice bod but dumb and needy. OR Would you rather have a sweetheart with a kind and generous heart but average looks and weight. Just curious.... (56 words)

Gyno thinks the pill is a good idea, but I don't want to tell my mom I'm sexually active

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So today i went to the gynecologist and she said that the only thing that would help with the issue i have is birth control. My mom does not know that i am sexually active and isnt sure about the idea... I on the other hand want to go on the pill for the reason i was there and ... (201 words)

Sex starved, thinking about the porn business?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) age 41-50 - Let me tell you my story. First of all, I'm a nice guy, fairly good looking, clean-cut, just turned 32, and I stand a shade under 5'6. My friends and co-workers tell me all the time that I'm handsome with a nice body. Secondly, I'm thinking about getting into the porn in... (431 words)

I don't think I took my b/c pill when I had unprotected sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been taking my pill as normal, about 5 days in i had unprotected sex then today, about 4 days later i found one of my pills on the floor... it can only be from this month as i just moved out. i will be taking a pregnancy test when i actually can hopefully its nega... (124 words)

How to be in solitude and heal from heartbreak

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (?) age 36-40 - So I've learned now that I am not worth that much to my husband and in a great deal of pain. I'm very depressed and lonely. I am not ready to leave this relationship at this time. I don't want another man in my life and I don't want to make friends. I've lost all faith i... (229 words)

I'm worried about how I will handle my first relationship. Can anyone give me any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Okay, so I'm sixteen and I've never had an actual relationship before. Like, I've liked a guy and they've liked me back but its never gone as far as that, kinda like a 'flirtationship'. I'm scared that when i eventually get into a relationship i wont know what to do, how ... (80 words)

He says he is over his love who died 8 years ago but I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi.. whoever is reading this I do hope I can get some good advice or some kind of understanding as to why I feel the way I'm feeling at the moment! I met a wonderful Man back in July 11 -still together.He has not had any sort of relationship in the past eight years apart from a ... (324 words)

Boyfriend started living with friends/co-workers and it destroyed our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So this is probably something I should have done 3 months ago. It's too late now, but I still wonder if I am truly insane for having the opinion I have about my issue. I am a mid-twenties female and work non-stop (60 hours, 1 part-time job and 1 full-time job. I have/had ... (783 words)

Just Wondering, how much does the average wedding cost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Aunts! I was just wondering how much weddings cost these days, the whole church, reception, flowers, dress etcetc. On average? I'm from England so preferably '£' please, but I'll figure it out in dollars or other :P Thank you!!... (43 words)

My wife is not interested in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - HI, I am 36 years old, married and have three kids, 9, 4 and 3. My wife is also 36 and we have been married for 10 years. We have a nice life - good kids, good jobs, good family support. Due to the kids, we have spent the better part of the last 8 years in separate rooms. ... (451 words)

We chatted online, why wont he talk to me face to face?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Just met this guys who is really nice and I think I might like him alot. He added me on the Facebook and we started chatting, we have loads in common and I think he wants to be more then friends. However, when I see him around in college he doesn't say a lot, it looks li... (197 words)

Burning and cutting down below. allergic to semen? help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am absolutely fed up. i always get a burning, splintering, cutting sensation during sex and after my boyfriend has ejaculated. it is worse after ejaculation and so unbearable i cry. my whole vagina swells and goes red and puffy. ive been to various doctors who have all said ... (99 words)

Girlfriend uses emotional blackmail and I'm not sure how to deal with it anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - We’ve been dating for about 15 months. I am 27. My gf is 26. We attended my friends’ wedding. I know both the groom and bride. My gf came along as my guest, but she didn’t know neither of them. The wedding was ending since other guests were leaving. I wanted to stay for abo... (876 words)

Boyfriend's parents broke up and now he's not sure he wants to be with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone. So awhile ago my boyfriend found out his dad was leaving his mom. A few months later he came to me and said that he wasn't sure if he wanted to me with me anymore and it didn't seem like either of us were happy anymore. It eventually came out that his parents ... (168 words)

I'm very attached to him, but I find him boring!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. Well first off, I love him, i'm very attached to him, I think about him all the time. And when he's gone I miss him so much. At the same time though, i'm bored with him, the sex is good, but there's no build up or excit... (175 words)

His antidepressant medication is ruining our sex life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there My boyfriend suffered from depression for a few months and was subsequently put on sertraline. While he was on it we had an active sex life, however he had difficulty maintaining an erection and achieving orgasm. He also was unable to sleep properly, his concentratio... (216 words)

I have no idea how to make a decision I know needs to be made.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My hausband and I have been on the rocks for a couple years. We have tried to make this work but I think we have reached our max. He has a problem with sexting (which he has never really admitted to until a this past spring) whether it is by text or FB. He deleted his FB ... (395 words)

What do you get for the guy who has everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you get for a man who has everything? My boyfriend is a farmer and a mechanic and its his birhtday soon but he says he has everything but what is a good gift for a guy... (38 words)

Date Function 101 for a college senior

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I am a senior in college but have never been on a date function. I have the opportunity to attend one this this weekend. There is this girl that I really like but we have never talked. She is in a different major but we have close mutual friends. I have few questio... (187 words)

Is he bi? Or just curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okey so I asked for some advice regarding to this situation before so here's what I asked...I got some answers already but just posting it so you guys now the details so you can understand my question... How do you know when someone is bi curious? Well, this is a complicat... (1459 words)

Is my ex BF gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a fantastic relationship with a 38 old handsome man who speed up the relationship since the beginning by introducing me to his family and friends very quickly and making tons of projects with me, telling me how much he loved me, etc. His friends also told me that ... (314 words)

I need her back!! But her Tumblr account scares me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I miss her so much and I know she misses me. She texts me all the time and I dont answer. She calls me occasionally at night and I ignore it. I dont know what to say to get her back. I feel if I talk to her I am just comforting her. That she will be comforted bye me until she ... (396 words)

Does she regret what she did, does she miss me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf and i broke up about 3 months ago.We dated for 3 years.She also has a 3 and a half year daughter,which i took as my own,because the childs father wanted nothing to do with them,he has never seen the child.She broke up with me to be with the father of the child after 4 ... (156 words)

I'm only 15, if nothing's happened with a guy yet, will it ever?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 and i have not had any interact with a boy. ive never been kissed, or had a boyfriend or had sex. i get attention quite a bit from older men. but im worried that if i havent manged to do anything so far it will neverhappen. like i keep thinking its ok your only 15 but ... (81 words)

Jealous of new girlfriend's wild year!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've never before classed myself as a jealous person at all ever, but then I guess I've never been in a situation that meant I had to be, until now. In December both myself and my new GF separated from our past relationships and we met each other at a mutual friends wedding ... (452 words)

I didn't want to get serious because my heart was still broken, should I still go out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am quite confused. I will start from the begining. I was happily in love with my boyfriend (now my ex boyfriend, who a few weeks ago just under a month ago to be precised. I knew something was wrong because he was not texting me as much he didnt want to see me and he wasn't ... (403 words)

My wife says I don't care about her because I don't help her with her resume enough!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I've known my wife for several years, and we got married a few months ago. She has had a tough situation at work for the past 2 years or so, and she gets very angry and upset about it. I listen to her talk about her situation at work frequently, but I often don't say a whol... (597 words)

I met him on a trip, but after we got home he became distant. What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy while working in Alaska this summer. He'd been there for about 6 months and I was scheduled to be there for two. It was a really great opportunity for me to get out of my home town and away from all these people that I didn't like and dragged me down. I went and had ... (859 words)

4 yrs with my bf who still married but separated..still no sign of filing for divorce!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, I needed help and advice as I'm in so much pain.. I love my bf so much.. i am single mum and currently in a relationship with a man whos 18 yrs older than me and still married. were in a long distance relationship for 4 years now we get to see each other every... (441 words)

What's a good idea for his birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's birthday is next month and I'm at a loss when it comes to his gift. We've been together for a year and a half, and on his last birthday, I got him a bottle of cologne, a dress shirt, a nice sweater, a pilsner glass w/his favorite MLB team logo on it, a deck of ... (169 words)

What's something really sexy I can do for his birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, my boyfriend's birthday is coming up. i've already bought the first part of his present. aaand of course, the other part of his present will probably be somewhere along the lines of birthday sex. the thing is, i want to come up with some way to be really, re... (91 words)

I'm 23 and have never had an orgasm!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old. I never experienced having an orgasm... ..i want to but i cant do it..my bf ask why cant i ejaculate but i d know how to exactly!!! Any suggestions?'... (34 words)

I broke up with b/f to make him realize he took me forgranted, but it backfired!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know what to do... i was in a long distance relationship for almost 5 years, and things were not going well... he's always been insecure, never trusted me enough and i was going through a rough time in my life... i really needed his support and he wasn't there for... (286 words)

She's the girl of my dreams but she wants space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been in a fairly good relationship for almost 5 years now, I love my girlfriend so much but she doesn't seem to appreciate it, lately things have started to go downhill, its been over 5 weeks since we have been intimate, we have had no sexual contact what so ever ... (251 words)

After my son was born I stopped being able to be turned on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age - I've been married for 25 years, and sex has always been good. When I had my son, I stopped getting feelings in my breast, but was still turned on with fowl play, now I'm not getting any feeling even with fowl play, it's getting so bad that I'm not even dilating, my husband even ... (77 words)

Is it bad to feel jealous of the excitement of a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, we both love and respect each other, I want to spend all my time with him and I know he feels the same way. However, recently my best friend from university met someone on holiday. I lived with her for 3 years, it was quite a odd ... (656 words)

Stuck between my ex and two other guys. How do I proceed from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, right this might be abit confussing so sorry in advance. before i met my ex i signed up to this dating site, i admit i didnt want nothing from it just one of the girls was on about it so i thought id give it ago. through this site i met this boy, he seem really nice... (377 words)

Living together vs. the FIOS contract

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, How would you take this comment? Dating exclusively 11 mos, we're seeing each other 4-5 nights a wk (includes sleeping over), we're had a couple of vacations together but talk of the future has been minuscule other than saying at the beginning ... (207 words)

How to get over prostitute guilt, and should I confess in future relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I started going to strip clubs a year ago with friends who were into it, and towards the end of the year, got into drinking and then going to prostitutes. I went three times, before I couldn't bear the guilt anymore. Since then I have been for therapy and an AIDS test,and have ... (163 words)

An older guy w/ two teen boys is flirting! Then his elder son did it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hola! Yes, I'm learning spanish! Okay enough funny talk here's the question. Should an older guy w/ two teenage boys be winking and smiling and flirting at me? That happened when I went out o eat at a Chinese restaurant last friday. Then later i say him again and he did... (82 words)

He stayed over and nothing happened, then I never heard from him. Did I scare him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age - I have been separated for 1.5 years and did not date at all. I recently met a guy through mutual friends and we hit it off. He is very old fashioned and very scared to get hurt. He has not been in a relationship for over 8 years. We do not get to see each other much as he ... (347 words)

My best friend and sister were dating, now they're broken up. What can I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a problem that does not directly concern me, but my best friend and my sister. My sister and my friend were in a relationship for about five months, but broke up just yesterday. I have had a suspition that my friend was more in love with my sister, rather t... (168 words)

How do I stop from getting BV?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I control BV (bacterial vaginosis)? I get this all the time, it's rather annoying. I'm constantly on metrodizanol, then I get thrush due to the antibiotics. HELP PLEASE!!!!___ ... (32 words)

My ex is sending mixed messages, he tickles me then says he can't love me again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he be so mean to me..did I do anything wrong:(? My ex bf and I broke up 6months ago, but he's been coming back to me off and on giving me mix messages and leading me on. I went to see him the other day, but he invited his friend. I thought it was just us... (251 words)

G/f lied to me for so long and I can't get images out of my head of her cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, My girlfriend and I has been together for one year and 3 months. In the beginning of our relationship (2 weeks in) she went to a place where people partying their ass off (a place for girls to get laid with many guys without being judged). À place like Ibiza or something. N... (269 words)

Why do I feel like vomiting at the thought of my ex and bumping into her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A week ago, I brought someone I just met and am really into to this cafe that I used to go to with my ex whom I'm no longer talking to or in contact with. The thing is, I hadn't thought of my ex before I brought my date there but when I got there, I suddenly remembered the ... (235 words)

I'm worried about losing my boyfriend to a guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My boyfriend of 6 years and i have had a really rough time lately and the other night we had an amazing night where we completely opened up 2 each other n told each other everything (i know after 6 years we should already know everything right?) anyway there was very l... (337 words)

I want someone who will find me sexy and I don't think my boyfriend finds me sexy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so this is confusing. Been with my partner 3 years. It's on and off long distance, which has been hard but we've always worked out ok. Well I'm having an have been having doubts and I don't know if its my insecurity or what. Well I have this feeling that we are with each ... (551 words)

I begged my way back into my ex-girlfriend's life, won't she dump me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with a girl happened to be 3 years younger than me and the relationship lasted for like two years. But last year, around same time, she dumped me saying I was not in a position to keep any relationship going due to my odd job and not stable financial ... (268 words)

Can I make myself taller?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - m 22 yrs old n my height is 5.4 inch only.. Is there another way to increase my height .. Plz suggest me How to increase my height?... (28 words)

Will I ever be happy? My life is a mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am having a real crappy time of life at mo. I have just turned 31 and realise I have nothing. No boyfriend, no job, live in flatshare, no savings, in debt (credit card £500 and student loan £23k ) don't own a flat/house or car and hate it all. Sorry if this is so long ... (1152 words)

Boyfriend finished oral sex rather than stopping so we could have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - last night i gave my boyfriend a blowjob thinking that it was just a starting way for us to have an intimate moment that very same time. but then i was surprised that instead of him getting into the mood, he just blew it all by himself and nothing happens... i was getting ... (110 words)

When sexually stimulated I lose total control of my body!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if my situation is normal, weird, or what ... anytime I get sexually stimulated (be it by myself or my bf) I literally lose control of my body; I can't stay still even if I wanted to. I buck, twitch, tremble, my legs cramp, if I'm on the bottom I can't h... (143 words)

Is it unreasonable to ask my b/f to give a week's notice when he has the kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would be grateful for some ideas and practical solutions from people who understand what I’m talking about or experience it themselves. Before I start: I know the kids of the partner by ex come first, that’s a given. The problem is this: My boyfriend and I don’t live tog... (328 words)

Is my B/f telling me the truth when he says he calls his ex "darling" more out of habit that feelings for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. He was previously married for 20 years and has 2 children from this relationship. We were invited to his daughter's birthday party which I was ok (within reason)to go to. I knew when I got together with him that he had this past and ... (264 words)

How do I get to the bottom of the real reason behind our breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me 2 days ago. We lived together (for 3 years now). I moved out immediatly and now live at my parents. It all started about 2 weeks ago. I told him I felt like he was not really happy to see me (he would not kiss me upon meeting up or would... (348 words)

I knew my teacher liked me...now he's at another school should I email him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So last year I was a junior and there was a certain English teacher/coach I has a crush on. I didnt have him as a teacher because he taught freshman english.He's a very young teacher not much of an age difference. Well last year He had overheard my conversation with my friends ... (288 words)

She said she loves me but loves her ex too, and now is slowing things down with us! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girl Friend is 30 she is a Student Counselor, we have been dating for 3 months she tells me she is falling in love with me but is still in love with her ex too that she hasn't seen in 5 months. Now she decided to slow us down but still date. I'm so confused can you help... (59 words)

Why would she delete that other guy's comment from her Facebook wall? What could she be up to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl I met recently added me to Facebook and we had a 2-3 hr conversation on fb. I've met her a couple of times and both times she was very nice and laughed at all my jokes and all that usual stuff. On the second time I met her I even touched her hand as part of one of my ... (254 words)

Men: Who hasn't cheated? I'd like to know why.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Are there any men out there that have NEVER cheated on their girlfriend, or wife? I mean - no form of cheating. No online flirting, no emotional cheating .. etc. If so, what made you stay faithful? ... (43 words)

How do I get closer to the girl I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - ok im a 17 yrs old boy and i love a girl who is my neighbour.i dont know her name nor have i ever talked to her.for her education she lives at anither town and is back for her vacations so she is here right now and i dont know what to do......should i forget about her or what ... (74 words)

How can I belive that my boyfriend really loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend tells me that he loves me. When ever I go out with him, and some cute girls comes around us, he keeps looking at her many times. He thinks that I don't see him looking at other women. One time I mentioned him about it but he gave me a convenion answer. Whenever... (89 words)

I'm pregnant. What else can I do to make this work? He speaks abusively to me. I hit him. He's lazy. Drama all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 19 years old and 21 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. Ive been with my bf for a year in October. We have a lot of issues in our relationship. We've been okay i guess. But the issue is the way he treats me and how i react. He likes to call me out of my name, for ex. Stup... (440 words)

How to get him into running? I do not want to suggest too obviously that he might think his huge belly is bothering me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this shy guy for six dates. I started to like him and he seems to like me too, otherwise he will not ask me out :) We have entered this friend zone. I like his intelligence, some sense of humor, quietness, and like me, he is a also introverted. B... (272 words)

I'm a girl and I'm falling in love with this gay man. Should I tell him? How do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I started liking my this gay guy about three months ago and over those months we have became friends. We are not really close but I feel like I am becoming closer with him every day. He always sits next to me in the class that we have together and we just talk the whole peri... (217 words)

I've lost hope over my Ex. But she's still confusing me by still contacting me. How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

3 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend broke up with me because I screwed up. But she contacts me everyday. texts me or calls me. I dont answer. She broke up with me! Is this even normal? I thought when you break up with someone you dont talk to them and let the healing process begin. But I still ... (202 words)

All the things my ex is saying is making my skin crawl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Had a fight with my bf of 2 years, since he blocked me from his facebook, saying like I am disturbing him often in chat. Got angry and we had a fight and after that he never called me, I tried to reach him after 3 days, he now says he moved on and found a girl wit... (200 words)

How long does it take for an ex to contact you after a break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Not sure if I posted this question already, because I don't see it in the approval process .. I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I found out he has a LDR (long distance relationship) with another girl. He denied it of course. But now I really miss him, he won... (156 words)

Married and cheating but I don't want to put my children through a divorce!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok. Here goes. I am totally depressed. I have been married for 13 years and have two wonderful kids. We haven't been happy in 6 years when I felt he had an affair. He would not admit and still denies but in my heart I know he did. But that's not what has me depressed. I fell in ... (201 words)

Why are men so sneaky about pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My finance and myself have been together for almost 3 years; long story short..When we met i seen history of porography on his computer; in the past year i have caught from history finders and my computer skills him looking up stuff. He said when we got together he wouldn't ... (388 words)

What do you do when a man confronts you for "talking" to his girl?

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3 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Let's say you meet a girl by herself who's nice and attractive. You approach her and strike up a conversation with her. Everything seems to be moving along fine.... Five minutes later, her boyfriend shows up all annoyed and angry, says something like, "Hey, that's my girlfr... (221 words)

I want more than my cousin wants to give

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3 October 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - earlier this me and my cuz went out to a night club we both had beeb drinking that night so as the night went on we startedto dance i notice that we were dancing kinda close to each other she never moved or said anything so i startedto dance closer and begin to grind her from ... (192 words)

I'm scared I'm going to lose her! I don't want to take this break!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend wants to take a break. I'm okay with it but I feel like she's going to leave me for another boy. I recently found out she was flirting with someone else and now this has happend I really don't wants to break up with her. Is this really a break or should I e ... (64 words)

I want to hear I love you from him. Should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

3 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a great guy and it's sadly long distance. We do as much as we can to skype as often as possible and so far, it's working out well. When we are together (every three weeks or so) we are always having a great time. My boyfriend has had a pretty rough past so it's dif... (170 words)

Why do I day dream about future relationships but I've never been in one?

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3 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Sometimes I worry about that but I know I'll find the right guy someday. But I do find myself fantasizing about having a boyfriend and our relationship. Like our conversations, dates, etc. It never gets sexual though. Sometimes I even ... (100 words)