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anonymous
writes:I have had a crush on this guy for several years but i'm kind of shy. Me and him are sort of friends but we don't talk to each other often. a few weeks ago he started texting me after he broke up with his girlfriend and we hung out once or twice (but i was really nervous) and then he started dating his ex again. now im confused, b/c i thought he liked me? we still text each other and he still wants to hang out but idk how to ask my parents because they dont like me hanging out with guys but i'm a junior in highschool! i feel like this is the reason i havent dated anyone, because im not sure how to ask my parents and im not sure how to talk to guys i like. any ideas?
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reader, stateside +, writes (16 October 2011):
If you gave this guy an idea that you have feeling for him, he would have already responded. Teenage guys are easy and if he had feeling for you, he would have already hit on you. Knowing that he has problems with his girlfriend, he may want someone to talk to. If he doesn't know you like him, try to hang out with his friends. You may even want to try going out on dates with his friends. Guys are really bad at making plans so try leading them to things like movies, Mall visits, football games, etc. If the guy wants something to happen, you would always be close being in his group of friends. Just don't let anyone take advantge of you! Because teenage guys will!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2011): Im also just kind of afraid i'll be the person who will never be in a relationship
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reader, rfp +, writes (13 October 2011):
No, he may seem nice and all but no, he wont work for you. You are still too young to waste your time with someone as him. Time in on your side and there is still a lot of people to meet. So just don't even waste your time. For him it is a fall back game and sorry but you are the toy.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 I don't think you should like this guy so soon. Many people break up just to find out later that they had the time and space apart to think things through, and that it's worth it to continue where they left off. During the break up, people can be desperate and lonely and would do anything to fill in the void, just until the exes start to contact them again. You can hang out as a friend but have your guard up and don't let him play you until you are sure that he is totally over her, for at least a few months.
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