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If I'm tearing up photos of my ex does this mean I am over him?

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Question - (12 October 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Myself and my ex have now been apart for 5 months now and recently i have been coming across photos of him but instead of leaving them alone i have been tearing them in half and putting them in the bin and have not felt no remorse does this mean im finaly moving on with my life as it sure does feel this way

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (12 October 2011):

Honeypie agony auntWe all work though break-ups, loss and grief differently. If tearing his pictures up makes you feel like you are truly over him, then go for it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2011):

Yes that is definitely a good sign. We keep rememinders of people important in our lives, and one important step of releasing these people from our lives (letting go and moving on) is to get rid of these reminders. I've find also, tearing these reminders like photos, has always been the biggest relief to me, not only throwing them out, but tearing them and feeling no remorse? It's definitely a great sign of moving on. I hope you're feeling a bit relieved.

All the best luck in the future!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2011):

If you were over him you wouldnt be here. It wouldnt even be thought.

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2011):

AuntyEm agony auntYes, it's an important step to be able to throw out any reminders of an ex, so it looks as if you are on the road to recovery...let's hope so xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2011):

Yes it is. How lucky! I wish I could do the same with my ex. But you know what? I still have his pictures but when I look at them I'm starting to NOT feel a thing so it's kind the same.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 October 2011):

Tisha-1 agony auntSounds like it! I think what you are doing is just cleaning his debris from your life. There may be the odd setback every now and again when you feel more keenly a loss but from what you've written, you're on the the road to "over him."

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