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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try to act cool? Go into hiding? Or tell my Gym Trainer about the major crush I have - for him?

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23 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having this MAJOR problem and no this is NOT a high school crush. I have this MAJOR crush on a gym trainer and for the sake of this- we'll call him X. He has the coolest personality ever,a little older than myself, always says hello to me (never told him how I felt for fear... (132 words)

Why did I bleed during foreplay when I've lost my virginity 10 yrs ago?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm female, almost 26. lost my virginity 10 years ago when i was almost 16. i was with my boyfriend tonight and after we had some foreplay he had blood on his hand. it most definitely is not that time of month. i cannot and do not understand this. i have been with a few men in ... (94 words)

Why should I stay with a guy whose mom truly doesn't like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why should I stay with a guy whose mom doesn't like me? I'm getting so fed up with everything, if I been with her son for 2 yrs why does she still sit there and acts like a bitch with me ? I never cheated on him or anything. Okay yes we have our arugements but everyone has ... (297 words)

Extreme loneliness. Can I please have your opinions, before I discuss it with my therapist? I tried but her reaction hurt me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - As much as I try to suppress the feelings of loneliness, it always comes back to haunt me when I like someone. I'm 19 years old and I am an at home carer. I suffer from frequent periods of low mood, I have what I believe to be social anxiety disorder along with other anxie... (871 words)

Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

23 October 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense of humour, being a good provider et... (354 words)

I like him, not sure I love him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i met a guy online am 16 and we started chatting and he gave me his phone number to text him, i texted him n later he sent me his pic and he told him he was cute P.s hes really nice and he told me to send him my pic i sent him n he told me i waz cute...we were really getting ... (97 words)

The girl I'm dating says "Just enjoy the ride" she doesn't see us long term. Should I keep dating her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been dating a girl for 5 months now, i often mention long term plans, but she always says she doesn't think we will be together long term, as she feels she will sabotage the relationship at some point without knowing it, she also says that i should "Just enjoy the ... (140 words)

I don't want to date her anymore. How do I get her to move out of my life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) age 36-40 - I have spent 9 months with this lady and now wana dump her . Well she hasn’t done anything wrong neither me but I have to dump her as I find someone else more attractive than her. She is my 8th girlfriends and I think there is nothing wrong keep on experimenting until on... (107 words)

We had sex for the first time in just 1 week, now feeling insecure about it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've started a really stupid habit and I feel so anxious about it. I just started dating someone new after a 5 year relationship/engagement. All we do is hit the bars and have sex afterwards. The first few days, I pushed him away. But this weekend i was really drunk and I ... (284 words)

Partner doesn't appreciate my larger size. Did I make a mistake making it bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I aways thought I needed to add inches to my member. I started in 2003 and worked at the penal excersizes for years. It took for ever the natural way,but worked. I am 8 1/2 in length and 7 1/4 in cir Width Flaccid I don't change that much, I'm 6" in length and 6" in ... (123 words)

It's the small things he doesn't do which make me feel unappreciated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Just wondered If I am being unreasonable, as my partner said, sometimes it's good to get an outsiders perspective! Live with my partner of 4 years. I work near enough full time and study full time. He works full time. I do pretty much all of the housework. When ... (306 words)

I'm wondering if my b/f is cheating on me and don't know how to bring it up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw my boyfriends contact list on the chat platform we both use the other day (the friends lists can be public if you accept friend requests a certain way) and he has two female friends with a website name in their chat profiles. Their names sounded odd somehow, almost fake, ... (183 words)

How do you keep conversations going in relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Conversations, How do you keep conversations in relationships going, I always found it hard to i mean you are always texting, calling, being around your spouse i dont understand how you keep finding conversations or ways to keep things fun and not boring cause i always seem to ... (113 words)

He said he'd call but he hasn't so I guess he's not that into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why have I not heard from him? is he just not that into me? There's this guy that I really like. I rang him earlier he was on his way to work and he said we should go see a movie tonight after work. Half 6 is now 10 minutes to 7pm and I've not heard from him. Should ... (154 words)

Is outdoor sex illegal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is outdoor sex illegal? I have a big craving for it, and know some desolate places. Where have people tried it without getting caught?... (24 words)

Why do I seem to attract military guys?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What kind of girl is the military guy typically attracted to? Is there a type they usually go after? I ask this because most of the guys (and I do mean the majority) who have been interested in me have been military guys. I dont live anywhere near a base. I'm curious as to why ... (76 words)

Guys do you do this? Girls do you endure this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says he loves me and isn't looking for anyone else. I commented today about how lame skankygirl pirate costumes are. He said he hopes they're around for a long time. I'm insecure by nature and the thought of him looking at other girls bothers me. He s... (115 words)

My girlfriend is focusing more in her ex's problems and I feel like she isn't paying attention to much else. What should I say about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. She has always kept in contact with her ex. I haven't had a problem with it too much because I know she really doesn't want to be with him and he lives on the complete opposite side of the country now. But he is always ... (188 words)

I am struggling with my sexuality!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (?) age 26-29 - hi i am a 15 year old boy i dont know if im bisexual or gay because i find boys attractive but not girls if i see girls its like i get quite nervous and boys aswell but i dont feel attracted to girls as i do with boys so i would like to know if i am gay or bisexual... (61 words)

My dad made me break up with my boyfriend and I need some help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so im 16 and i was in a relationship with an 18 year old polish guy called bercik for about 11 months this november .i was crazy about him and we did everything together.I was drinking before i met him and now my dad is blaming him for it .i lost my virginity to this guy in ... (318 words)

Next step after making out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and we make out alot. but what is the next step? ... (22 words)

I always like the chase of a relationship and move on quickly, how can I keep someone in my life?

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23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When ever I meet a guy and we start talking I begin to "like" him but really its just the excitement of meeting someone new becasue I then realize that this person is not anything special to me and they could be anyone. Basically I like the chase and when it's over I'm done and ... (138 words)

Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society? I'm asking because my bf of 1.5yrs has been making hints about marriage, and it made me wonder if anyone out there actually manages a happy marriage with no cheating and with ... (92 words)

Any idea on what this guy may be thinking??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so me and this guy have been talking for about two months now. We talk on the phone every night, text throughout the day and go out on dates (lunch, dinner, movies ect.) In the beginning he led on to the fact that he was looking for a actual relationship so I let myself see ... (231 words)

Ideas for a romantic date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) I need to arrange a date for the guy im seeing and i to go on. Last week he took me out in the evening and set up a picnic by a lake with candles - it was so romantic! Now i feel its my turn to arrange something but i have no idea what! All i can think of is s... (100 words)

My ex girlfriend wanted to have a look "down there" after knowing I had some complications with my circumcision. Platonic or something more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I split with my girlfriend six months ago and still enjoy hanging out with her. Before the relationship, we were always close, open friends so decided to revert to that. Anyway, I recently had a circumcision and following that were some complications. At times it looked dead ... (115 words)

Advice on asking girl out needed so she doesn't think it's "just friends"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, 2 questions here. There is this girl in my class at university who I really want to ask out. But I have a few concerns. 1) I know it's recommended that you don't ask a girl out in front of a lot of people (for your sake and hers) so I was wondering how I can take her ... (165 words)

Do white lies in a relationship matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love your opinions on whether white lies in a relationship matter? I've been with my bf for a year, and he's already mentioning that he can see us having a future together, and has asked me to move in with him. I'm happy about that, but hesitant to take that step ... (727 words)

Are we doomed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been together for 3-years. This weekend was a nightmare. A few things were happening, my aunty died about a week ago and I am naturally grieving. But my partner doesn't get it. He's never lost anyone close to him and doesn't know what it's like grieving. The closest he's ... (357 words)

He knows I like him and I don't want to come off as annoyingly persistent

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23 October 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Well I finally told my crush that I liked him and it was surprisingly not as bad as I thought it would be :) I thought I was going to be so crushed! But he was actually really nice about the whole thing. He told me that he doesn't go around looking for girlfriends,t... (202 words)

He's married and won't always pay attention to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 22.. And I'm having sOme affair with a 31 yrs old married man.. He says that he is not happy because her wife is already 51 yrs old and he really wants a baby.. Which her wife can't give because of the age (unable to bear a child) he's just staying with his wife for ... (145 words)

He broke up with me saying he didn't love me...now he says he misses me and wants to be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex at the beginning of the year after I had suspected that he and one of my close friends were having a thing behind my back. He never admitted to it but he also never denied it. He told me he just doesn't love me and that was the end of it. It hurt like hell ... (172 words)

My boyfriend is flirting with transmen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, my boyfriend's 27, we've been together for over 5 years, lived together in our own home for 2 years now. We have a young daughter as well - he's the father, I'm not a single mum etc. - she was born out of wedlock to be technical. In the last few weeks I've discovered ... (348 words)

Are details necessary? Or is it better to never know?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles. I have a question which I am hoping I will get a few answers to. I wanted to see what everyone's general opinion was on knowing their partners sexual past, and the extent of that knowledge. In a relationship, do you feel the need to know how many people ... (236 words)

My teacher watches me a lot, and its starting to freak me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so, my teacher he is kinda freaking me out now. I've been in his classes now for almost 2 months and he keeps staring at me, at first I just thought it was because he's curious about me but he knows me and personality by now. He keeps staring at me and now it's sort of ... (69 words)

My fiance keeps asking me to play along with her fantasy but then rejects my advances! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so i know rape fantasy is very common among women. my fiance has always enjoyed this fantasy and has often asked me to "fuck her like im raping her". she will always tell me to be rougher or go harder. now she is quite ashamed about these fantasies or any others so she wont ... (212 words)

She has awakened something inside of me... how do I get to know her better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When my band played at the local pub, my mother's best friend from high school decided to come along because the gig took place on my birthday. Ive known thier family for as long as i can remember, but i hadn't seen them in a long time. So when they arrived i remembered how ... (166 words)

Is she serious, or just pulling my leg?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my fiance will often screw with people simply because she finds it funny.. it started out fairly simple like telling me the wrong weather forecast so i would wear summer clothes on a cold day. she does this with everyone however she often will joke about things i find quite ... (143 words)

Everytime I'm with him, he gets a hard on!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am just beginning to date a new man (5 dates, its still early days and not yet 'official' in terms of being classed as bf/gf). He is a total sweetie, and a real gentleman, I really couldnt wish for a nicer man. I really do like him, a lot! But I have a ques... (199 words)

My GF cheated. I forgave her, but since then she's been acting like she hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A few things my girlfriend doesn't like for me to ask "can I have a kiss?" We used to kiss all the time but now she says it is just getting annoying. "what are you doing?" She hates this question now before she would always let me know what's been going on in her life... (1468 words)

B/f taking long time to answer texts, photo of girl on his phone, is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend 9 months we both still live with our parents (he's 21 I'm 18) I love him and he says he loves me and most of the time I do believe him but recently he has been taking ages to answer texts for example he use to text me whilst he was at work but he ... (167 words)

Is everyone capable of finding love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you believe anyone and everyone is capable of finding love if they put in effort to do so? Thanks for answering :)... (26 words)

After patchup , do I own apology to my grilfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I think exactly 50 days back, I dumped my girlfriend who would yell at me like hell for small thing like why my room sounds like garbage with everything all over the place. Finally, I gave up and dumped her . We were together for 4 years and we had everything match... (295 words)

My friend's lover wouldn't give her money should she end things with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age - My friend, who is married, but does not sleep with her husband, has had a 10 year sexual relationship with a male friend. She has talked with him every day by phone, exchanged emails, visited with him and his parents, and exchanged birthday and xmas gifts for the last 10 ... (219 words)

Should I keep dating my LD b/f or go with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i been with my boyfriend for 7 months, the only problem with this relationship is that its long distance and i only seen him 1 time in the relationship. now i just recently started to branch out talking again to my first crush (im 16 i loved this boy since kindergarten). im not ... (98 words)

Should I date this liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's had sex with 3 girls I know of and I'm a virgin, he promises he won't hurt me or pressure me into sex. He's lied to me once about how many girls he's had sex with. When I talk to him in person it's kind of awkwrd because ... (148 words)

It irritates me that my sister in law won't go to my church but instead goes to her own

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I am staying with my sister-in-law. when she first came to live with us, she would go with me to my church. then all of a sudden she decided to go to her own church on a different day. why do i feel undermined and irritated by it?is it normal or i am just being ... (156 words)

Is it worth persuing this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Story: My ex and I got together after being friends for a couple weeks. He's 25 and I'm 19. It was very unexpected since I just got out of a 2 year long relationship a couple months before and had dated someone else for a few weeks. Our relationship lasted from March-Au... (659 words)

Is he missing me? he has not directly apologized, but he is posting profile pictures of himself from when we were together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy starts posting his profile pictures as those from the time when you were together...but not exactly the ones you're in... is he just thinking of the general time or could he... possibly missing you. He has given other signals, like realizing he was wrong about a ... (69 words)

I don't want sex to hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a sex question?well like a 2 years ago I had a boyfriend that took my virginity half we tryed having sex but when he was putting it in he only put it halfway in it poped but we didnt do it cause I jumped out I guess it hurt me cause I wasnt wet???uhm?i want somebody to ... (175 words)

How Much Time is Too Much Time Apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for about two months now. The first three weeks were smooth sailing, but ever since then our relationship has been rocky. We only get to see each other once a week, usually on the weekend, and problems arise because when we're not together we both start ... (183 words)

Why is my husband calling me names and being so mean.? He's the one who has been secretly visiting and talking to my "friend"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years, he's 41 and I'm 32. I had this friend, or so I thought she was. We were great friends, but we did hang out a few times. My husband and I started having some marital difficulties, and during that time he started going out more and... (208 words)

Life passing by. How do I cope with Mom pressure?. I hate she's constantly reminding me I'm getting older and less wannted

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm about to turn 25 and i'm having a quarter life crisis. Every other aspect of my life is good. I'm graduating from grad school soon, I have a great job that I love. The only thing that is going wrong is my lack of a love life. I want marriage and a family, but with... (229 words)

When does the ugly duckling stage pass? Need it to happen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I haven't known too many girls who've suffered from ugly duckling syndrome but I do know it's out there. When does this stage usually pass? I had acne but I took accutane, I'm beginning to lose weight and currently I have braces. Through my teenage journey, I have had a ma... (106 words)

Was he that good? Is this normal? I'm horny and if he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from touching myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, my age group is misleading, I'm a few days to 18. Anyways, about a month or so ago, me an my bf got intimate, not sex, but he did finger me. Ever since then, when I'm horny and he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from touching myself. Is th... (92 words)

FWB turning into relationship?

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23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a fwb it start of by text once in awhile to everyday and at least two phone call a day i think im all in love with him do you think want to trun it in to a realationship he msg me last tell me where he was and who he was with what was that about?... (59 words)

She says she loves me, but has shown absolutely no emotion or affection toward me since we got back together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Things my girlfriend of 4 and half years dreads if I ask her:- "Shall we have a night out?" We used to have nights out at least once a week. Then we split up for 3 months in 2008 and got back, things have never been the same. Its as if she doesnt want to be seen out with ... (758 words)

He flirts and texts. But that's it. Do I give up on him? He brings out the best in me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy about a year ago. I started liking him about 5 months ago, still like him. He keeps sending me mixed signals, and Im just really confused. Ive told him I like him, but nothing ever happens. Yet when we text or I see him, he flirts with me. I'm starting to want... (145 words)

Do I tell my fiance about this? Accident while Doctor attended to me. Does this mean I'm not a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I'm a 24 year old virgin. I've never done anything more than kiss heavily. I'm perfectly fine and happy about that. I'm engaged to a wonderful girl who is just like me; needless to say we are insanely eager to get married and have sex we're counting down the ... (398 words)

Why not? he asked his friend to ask my friend for my number ... But he DIDN'T call me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! Three weeks ago I went out with my friend, a friend of hers and a friend of this friend. We had a blast and i finished sleeping with this second friend. During the night he was telling me about going out together after work (we live very close to each other). I like h... (183 words)

How does a female know what's a good odor or bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My sisters say their vagina's has a certain odor. One says hers smell like chlorine. The other says it smells like a rubber condom. Is that normal? They both haven't been sexually active for over a year. And their last pap smear was fine. Now they are on birth control. Is that ... (59 words)

Should I take my ex to court for slander?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up for about a year now, we broke up because she cheated, so I move on with my life. I have found recently she has been lying about me, like she did about her ex husband... she keeps telling to people I am a violent person, she is scared of me etc. It's ... (243 words)

Please be fair about this : I'm a virgin. How can I make it easier for me to find a girl without a sexual past??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

23 October 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, i have a problem and i would like some help if you guys have the time to give me some advice, is not the first time that i bring this question here, but i feel that the last time i didn't express myself correctly and only confused the readers, basically i didn't know to ... (1067 words)

Period 1 month late after b/f fingered me

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23 October 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok idk if its normal but my period still didnt arrive and i think its been a bit over a month since i had it the last time, and this happened especially after having had sex with my bf, but we didnt really do it he just fingered xD, idk ... is it normal?... (54 words)