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writes:im in a long distance realtion ship my boyfriend moved away about three months ago ,i have seen eachother periodically since he has moved tho. he told me that he wasnt gonna watch porn or anything cause he wants to save him self for me and i agreed to do the same , we have had sex before but he means like just wait to have sex with me instead of masterbateing .and i was wondering how likely of chance there is that he is actully telling the truth that hes not .the only think that makes me think that he might not actually be saving himself is that he has sent me pictures and he has been erect , and he still tells me that he doesnt get off or anything.also do guys HAVE to masterbate or get off within a certin amount of days or weeks?
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reader, missSamanthamary +, writes (18 June 2010):
missSamanthamary is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits not that i dont want him to do it , i was just wondering if hes telling me the truth about it , cause it kinda seems like he just doesnt want me to do it so hes saying hes not . and he does come down about every two weeks sometimes every week so its not that we dont do it or anything like that , im just curious as to if hes telling the truth cause there isnt really a way to tell .
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reader, person12345  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 No they don't have to masturbate. But why don't you want him to masturbate? Why not have webcam sex or something? Three months is a LONG time and for someone his age... If you're worried he's looking at porn, the webcam sex with you would be his porn. Also they don't need porn to masturbate. Most people do it, and it has a ton of health benefits.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (18 June 2010):
If you don't know the answer to that question! it's because you are to young. you will learn trust,respect and what love really is down the road when you are much older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): Guys do not have to masturbate....but I think the urge to do so seems quite strong when you are a teenager. Lets face it... it feels good, and it releases stress, pressure, etc. If they do not masturbate they will have wet dreams. As to erections.... guys have dozens (or more) erections a day. It is a constant reminder of being a male. I would have a hard time beleiving that your boyfriend has not "releived" himself.
Here is a tip: If he does not releive himself and saves himself for you, he will likely suffer a premature ejaculation. You will just be getting warmed up... and he will be done and satisfied. Don't sweat this. Masturbation is normal and healthy.
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reader, lonerstranger21  +, writes (18 June 2010):
hi missSam! Being a guy also, I have to agree to him that if he really want it to be done with you , he will, BUT its just hard. sex life is really a necessity, guys are more vulnerable to temptations especially to girls. One needs a lot of courage to avoid them or not to fall for it. You see, if a guy told you that he really doesn't got off and still wants to do it with you even you are miles away from him, waits for the day you two would have the chance to do it,you are so lucky. That means he's just true to you, faithful..But on the other hand, if you find out, or if he told you that he just did it (I mean masterbate)..Don't get mad at him, remember its a need..sometimes it comes to a point where it is really unbearable..Just be open-minded. But if you found out he did something with another girl, well its out of boundaries. You can be sometimes a little naughty too through phone.. hehehe just to help both of yourselves out.
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