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writes:So I'm definitely what you'd call adventurous in bed and willing to try pretty much anything. But my favorite position is missionary and I'm worried I'll be seen as "boring" or something. I can orgasm from penetrative sex better than anything else, but only in missionary and occasionally if I'm top I can, but only if I really work at it. Does anyone have some ideas for great positions to stimulate the girl's clitoris? I don't want to only have "vanilla sex!" I mean I do have sex in any other position my boyfriend wants to try, but I have to finish myself off after we're done if we do that and it's just not as fun.Also, on that note, I can only orgasm from sex, or a vibrator. I can't orgasm from oral sex or manual stimulation. I can masturbate with just hands, but only if I'm in the bath.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Try holding your knees and crunch your abs so he can angle upward to pressure the G-spot as you masturbate...works for my girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): It's definitely something you have to work at! I certainly agree with marieclaire however. Also talk to your boyfriend and explain your "dilemma" and try to relax. Perhaps you're thinking to hard about how you "can't" and that's getting in the way of you enjoying yourself.
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reader, george3 +, writes (19 June 2010):
 a good deep penatration method is put a pillow under your butt, this will give your vagina a lift and simply devine feeling. also try the reverse cowgirl method. puts you in control very pleasureable both partners.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): my bloke has the same prob - if its missionary he can feel the bullet - thats why we go doggy he can still feel it but it comes into less contact with it- plus if he feels like he's approaching orgasm he'll tell me so we can change positions and that calms him down a bit - cumming together is amazing but a lot of couples have to work on it. Another great way to make him last longer so you can cum in different positions it to get him to ejaculate beforehand by foreplay and then have sex when he's ready to go again. Why dont u start out in different positions and finish in missionary so you can achieve orgasm and not feel worried that it was boring
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Missionary is the best position to fall pregnant. Not that he'd run away but most guys would probably worry why you'd always want missionary. Use your imagination more when in other positions, breath deeper and let it become apart of your emotion as well as phisical.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question"i recommend getting a bullet - it works wonders and isnt as obtrusive as a proper vibrator and your man should be able to use it to stimulate your clitoris."
Yeah I have one, problem is he can feel the vibration and it makes him come faster than me!
Griffo-Because I prefer missionary I'm going to get pregnant and he will avoid me...? what? Anyways, like I said I AM adventurous, more than him even, I've tried tons of things and any time he specifically asks for something I'll do it, but I just can't orgasm from it. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): im kinda the same except only oral does it for me :/ but i enjoy other stuff too. Just dont come from it... ive only come from penetrative sex once !! doggy is good didnt use to like this but recently have...a lot. its still not enough to come but its still good ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): try doing it doggy style - your clitoris will be easily accessable for him and for you while having penetrative sex
i recommend getting a bullet - it works wonders and isnt as obtrusive as a proper vibrator and your man should be able to use it to stimulate your clitoris.
http://www.bondara.co.uk/vibrators/bullet-vibrators/?keyword=;sort=;per_page=100;order=;display=list;start=0&gclid=CLeMsK6mqqICFR6Z2AodTlSgTg
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reader, Griffo +, writes (18 June 2010):
Missionary is probably the most boring for a guy if thats all you'll expect. Some guys have a caution to beware of those types for some reason those are the one that get pregnant and you don't want guys Voiding you because of a sex position! You need to give him what he needs too. Explore a bit, take a ride, breath heavy, bend over and bang it back onto him.
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