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writes:Ok, so this is a question to guys and girls. I am 18, and still a virgin. I have this fear when I am going to get to the moment of having sex, I'll be too excited and cum too quick (maybe even before sex starts?) idk, help me out, does that happen? I am not certain this will happen to me, but i am just wondering. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot. lol yeah, I think I'll stick to the advice about wanking. ha
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Have a wank about an hour before the big moment this will definately increase your staying power!
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 As the aunts have said already you should have a little warm up round before hand to make you less sensitive. Also:
- go in with your tongue first and keep your dick off the field of play for as long as you can. Tbis will make you seem more experienced and will make the event last much longer for her. It is makes it a possible that she might have an orgasm which she isn't going to get from 3 minutes of regular sex before you cum from over excitement.
- make a joke about it in advance so as to reduce your insecurity. As you are admiring her body say with as much confidence as you can muster "wow, you are so incredibly sexy that I'm worried I'm going to cum in 2 minutes flat or something". That takes the pressure off a little. It reminds her that if it does happen it is a kind of compliment.
- of course wear a condom
- if you do cum quickly don't get upset about it and don't let that be the end of things
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reader, dynex_life96 +, writes (18 June 2010):
Can that happen? yes. it is actually common in teens and young adults. but you wont know until you try. if you are really worried about there are ways to conquer your situation. herbal products are the easiest and most effective solution. Herbal remedies like EndurMax & ViaGrowth III is specially designed to treat premature ejaculation caused by performance anxiety (anxiety about sex). This herbal blend will help soothe and calm the sympathetic impulses that lead to your ejaculation, so you can delay it for as long as you wish. But you reall wont know if it will happen until it dose. hope i helped
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Doesn't normally happen before sex because you need more physical stimulation, but virgin guys don't normally last long on their first time. So you need to build up a resistance, and the solution to that, my friend, is wanking! The more used to stimulation your penis is, the longer it takes for you to climax.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 June 2010):
 One thing you might want to try is the "insurance" orgasm, meaning you might want to give yourself an orgasm shortly before your date. That way, that'll take the edge off of your excitement when you get with your girl.
Also, condoms (which you should definitely wear anyways!) will help dampen the stimulation and help you to last longer.
If you get too excited and ejaculate too quickly (like before the sex starts), don't let that be the end of the sex. Keep up the foreplay with her. Make it last, and make sure she has lots of pleasure from your fingers and/or your tongue. Enough time spent on the closeness and foreplay, and you might be able to try again even if you've already ejaculated an hour beforehand.
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