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**jessie*~
writes: dear cupid, my boyfriend just broke up with me because of my past. he has been getting mad about the apst like ALL the time. but he says to me and others how he loves me and that he wont break up with me due to the past. well today he went out and got drunk with a group of friends and decided to call me and sit on the phone asking questions. i kept answering him being honest but he kept getting mad. i feel as if i dont need to tell him my past because its the apst. but the sooner he moves on from the apst the sooner we can work on our relationship. well he was starting to call me a liar and a cheater and i got mad and said how can i prove to you that i aint lying. he told me he bets that he can find messages from my myspace account of me talking to other guys. so i gave him my password and login and told him to check himself. and he did but he was reading into my past. messages over 3 months ago-2 years ago. he kept reading them and getting pissed. then he called me so when i was on the phone with him when he was yelling i went on and deleated all 1324 messages from the past but kept the current messages. and he got pissed and said that i was trying to hide stuff and i told him that i wasnt hiding anything that i was just deleating the past cause the past didnt affect our relationship... then he called and broke up with me swareing up and down how he wants me out of his life and not to call or talk to him again that we are over...i really am in love with him.. and i totally lost ALL of my old friends over him..tomorrow we were suppose to go out on a date.. but now he broke up with me. i want to run after him and keep him and not let go... can somebody give me good advice on how to get him back??
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (18 June 2010):
Sorry, I agree with Jmtmj- I feel that anybody who would help you to win him back would be wronging you. Getting him back ??? Thank your Guardian Angel instead that you got rid of him : the guy sounds like a maniac !!
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (18 June 2010):
Ergh... why would you want to be with this guy? Nobody is worth losing all your friends over. Nobody. He sounds like a jealous, insecure baby and if I gave you advice on how to win him back then I don't think I'd be able to sleep at night. Sorry, but he really isn't good for you, no matter how much you think you love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): Leave him. This kind of person is not good for you. You don't need someone who is insanely jealous and controlling. Trust me, I've been there. No matter how much you may love him, his behavior makes him not worth your time.
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