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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: on the boy i likes birthday i put happy birthday on his wall but a couple of days later he asked me whether or not i liked him on facebook chat. everyone in the class believd he liked me, he always talked to only me and ALWAYS stares at me in class but he replied after that he didnt like me and logged off. Then the next day i noticed the birthday note is gone and he is blanking me. Whenever i try to talk to him on facebook he doesnt reply and goes offline but he still stares at me in class, tho when i catch him he turns away and pretends he wasnt. What is his game?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 June 2010):
He's immature. If he's 13-15 like you, he might not even have gone all the way through puberty. You mature and reach puberty faster than he does, so he may not be at the point where he feels comfortable communicating with girls on any level except as buddies.
He may in fact have a crush on you, but he doesn't want to because such feelings are messy and complicated. OR, he may NOT like you that way, and you embarrassed him.
Just de-friend him for now, leave him be, and let him sort out his goofy feelings. You know, it may actually take someone else liking you for him to get his rear in gear to take the step out of childhood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): sounds like an utter prick if im honest
you to confront him, face to face, and ask him what hes up to.. hell probs blank that, and if he does your worth morer that him and i think you should move on, his loss and hell probs come back to you when he relaises you dont care anymore xx
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (18 June 2010):
Hey sweetie :)
Listen if he's blanking you now after all that then either wait for a little while and find out what he's playing at or just ignore it, if he's not going to be clear with you then why bother trying eh?
Blunt but true m'love
Sorry if it offends
SB :)
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