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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have a long distance relationship, or i say i did have one. But things have never been to intimate between us. Last night he said he was feeling frisky and wanted me to do thinks for him, even if it was just prance around in my knickers. But i did not want to do that, so this morning i have had an email saying he doesn't think things will work out between us, and i am being to conservative. But it was only last week he was telling me how much he respects me for not flaunting all ive got online. What the hell is going through his head. We love each other, but now he wont reply to my emails. What can i do to make him want me again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): ignore him, he will come back.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Let me ask you this - why do you want HIM to want you again? Sounds like he wanted to use you for his own gratification, and when you said that you didn't want to give him sexual favors, he breaks up with you.
NO man should pressure you for sex. If he broke up with you for not wanting to put out, then he's not the man for you, and he didn't love you the way you loved him.
In a way, he did you a favor by showing you who he really was before things got too serious. Now you are free to find a guy (hopefully NOT long distance this time!) who isn't only out to get into your pants!
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