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writes:i am 13 and have been masturbating for a while now...im scared though that my mom is supicous of some thing and if she catches me im teriffed she will take it badly and get mad at me i read about how its natural for some one my age but still :( what do i do Reply to this Question
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reader, george3 +, writes (21 June 2010):
 you are at the age of exploring your body. as the others have said, keep it private. chances of you being caught by your mother is slim. just dont yell out when you climaxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): look im 13 and ive dealt with this before with my mom i mean we all masterbate u should tell ur mom shell respect u more and under stand just dont go out of line by asking for toys or anything thats for adults only now if ur mom gets angry or tells you to stopdont just tell her its normal and ur just exploreing ur body
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 First, why would your Mum be angry?
Second, it's normal and actually quite a good thing to do because when you're older and with a guy you'll know what you do and don't like.
Thirdly, just wait until you're on your own/late at night. As long as you're not too loud, how will your mum know? =]
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Truth be known, she's probably worried you might find out she's still masturbating...don't worry be happy!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Nothing.. masturbate in the bathroom with water running, or masturbate in your bedroom under the sheets.
Your mother is a woman too, she probably masturbates. It is very embarrasing to get caught doing this private thing, but sometimes it happens.
Your mother will not be disgusted with you at all, but she may be frightened. You are growing up into a woman, if she sees evidence of your sexuality it might frighten her to realise that you are no longer a little girl, and will eventually be looking to have sex with someone..
Take your time growing up.. Masturbation is fine, keep it private, and don't do it all the time, your studies, hobbies, friends and family must also get quality time in your life.. Blessings
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): it is absolutely natural and boys do it much much much more than girls. even your mum and dad have done it before when at your age. why should she take it badly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): to be honest most everyone does it. It is something personal and should be kept private. Marieclaire is right, showers are good, bedrooms..music...and always lock the door. ;) mal
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