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writes:[Mod Note: OP's own title]I saw a friend of mine for the first time in years. We basically picked up where we left off. We spent the whole day together and even planned on doing future activities. Well the end of the day comes and we are sitting alone. We became affectionate and then we started making out. (We both were sober by the way,lol) The chemistry was intense. We could not keep our hands off each other. The night ended and we did not want to say good bye. I felt like we really liked each other. That maybe he was the one. Well a couple of days later we talked and he said he felt a little guilty about things because he trying to not "succumb to lust" (He's a spiritual guy). I respected that, but I was under the impression that he really like me still. Well tonight (a few weeks later) we talked, and I put it out there that I liked him. He then tells me basically, I'm a nice girl and all, but he always saw me as a sisterly type. During the conversation he said that physically I AM his type, and then later on he says he's not as attracted to me. WTF? I am so pissed right now. No words can describe the confusion I feel. Why make out with someone you don't find attractive or like? What the hell is his deal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): That really, really sucks.What does he mean by "spiritual"? You know, Charles Manson considered himself "spiritual" and we all know what he did.My guess is that there is someone else who is pulling at his heart strings. That or he has split personality disorder.You know what, I don't know what to tell you except leave him alone. It's him and not you and lord knows, you don't want to spend anymore time with a broken faucet that keeps running hot and cold. It will drive you nuts.
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