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Why didn't he tell me he would be there?

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Question - (18 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *overoman writes:

There was an event at where I work and a guy a like was apparently going to it (you had to be asked by someone at my work to come, and I KNOW he didn't know anyone there) but didn't even tell me. He invited himself to come (which was acceptable but not really encouraged). It wouldn't have been hard to ask around for my email address; some say he might be trying to back off now since it's unlikely we'll ever see each other (unless we plan something out), but I don't know why he did this.

Btw, there is a little age difference between us (I'm 20, he's 35).

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A female reader, loveroman United States +, writes (19 June 2010):

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I've given him subtle hints that I like him and as a fairly confident person, I thought he would get the idea. I'm not sure if he likes me back, hes been giving me mixed signals.

I was basically an "intern" where he worked for the past month so his boss knew my email address and his boss forwarded at least 2 emails (with my email address in it) to him so that's how he knew.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (19 June 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntFirstly, does he know you like him? Does he like you back? If the answer is no to either of those questions, I'm curious as to why you think he would/should have asked around for your email address??

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A female reader, loveroman United States +, writes (18 June 2010):

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NOTE: When he attended this event, he talked to me (he's a talkative person) but my friend couldn't tell if he liked me because it was a somewhat formal event.

He kinda grabbed/patted my shoulder twice during the 30 minutes that he was here at this event and he did touch me a lot more (esp on shoulders) during the last week that I got to know him .. I didn't see him do anything like this to any of his other female coworkers but that may be because I was like an intern at where he worked and everyone else was his age or older at his work.

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